By the way, in case anyone ever thinks I'm a racist, I'm really not.
I'm actually dating a woman of mixed race lately. Half black, and her white side is some Asian and Irish and Italian.
She's petite and absolutely gorgeous. We met online five years ago -- and this is a whole other story and off topic, and twist of fate. She lived up north, and I lived in the South, and we were more like good friends and we did this online creative building mmo together.
So I actually knew her a long time and we spent a lot of time together, was always text, not even a voice.
We drifted apart, and then she ran into me out of nowhere one time -- completely by chance, we were in the same spot and she had a different online name. So we started talking again, and she was an online friend for the last year.
I just recently found out she had moved -- not just to the South, not just to my same state, not just to my same town, but down the street from me. The quirk of chance and fate is just astounding, to me.
So of course we had to meet, and we had a date the other day.
I had a wonderful time. Best first date of my life. I should have made another thread for this, it touches on multiple topics, one being the strangeness of the modern world and knowing people in other states and knowing them "online" and spending so much time with them. And then what is it like, if you meet for real, after so much time?
Well, I found out it was an instant companion. It was just like all that time we spent online together. She's far better for real, she's smart and funny, so sweet, younger than me and a massive nerd. She's an introvert, homebody, on the computer all the time. Plays the same dork computer games that I do -- the exact same games.
She is SO funny. We spent a good 12 hours together, talked nonstop the whole time.
There are some differences -- but race is an irrelevant one. She "sounds white." She's an artist (I'm not, but I like artists). She can draw, paint, CAD, all of that.
She's a bit of a doomer and talked about ebola. She's even a russophobe! Or Putin phobe, at least, and she brought that topic up (we had never discussed that before). Now I've come to learn a lot about Russia, so I'm really not a russophobe, and I corrected her on some facts and how things are in Russia. But just meeting someone that knows anything about geopolitics, and all the issues, and is aware of events, that's nice.
So anyhow, Sixtrings is a happy man lately.
Bringing this back around on topic -- it's my first experience at interracial dating, and the race factor is utterly irrelevant. We have so much in common, it's uncanny, and what we don't have in common, complements the other.
If anyone really IS a racist -- as in, you wouldn't even give a job interview to a woman just because she is black or part black, then that's wrong.
I've dated a lot of women in my life, and this is the one of the smartest funniest women I've ever met. She's got a good work ethic too, and I like that.
P.S. I very rarely say anything about my personal life, but I thought I'd share this with the forum since we've been talking about race lately.
And also so you know I'm not a total shut-in.

I sure had fun the other day, wish me luck guys.
