by Sixstrings » Sat 06 Dec 2014, 03:55:40
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('wildbourgman', 'S')ixstrings, do you know how I know your a racist? Read your last post you racist shut-in.

The definition of racism:
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'n')oun
1.
a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.
2.
a policy, system of government, etc., based upon or fostering such a doctrine; discrimination.
3.
hatred or intolerance of another race or other races.
What did I say that's racist? That I mentioned a person of color that "sounds white?" Do you realize that's actually an issue, in the black community? Charles Barkley was talking about just that. That some black folks will call you an uncle tom if you read a book, or if you're conservative.
The only point I'm trying to make is the basic reason why bigotry is wrong -- because, let's say, even 3/4 of the particular minority that a person does not like is no good and up to trouble. Let's just assume that, for argument. So if you then discriminate based on that fact, you're persecuting the 25% that may be more like you than you even know. But you'd never know it, if you never got beyond the skin color.
Not all black folks are thugs or hoodlums, certainly not even most, and even most people in a ghetto are still okay folks and won't bother you. I still don't want to be the white guy in a ghetto, does that make me racist? I have a black friend of a friend who votes Republican and she's black yet she talks about ghettos all the time and ghetto culture. Is she racist?
Is Charles Barkley racist? In the black community, the term used for them is "uncle toms."
Funny thing is, I know enough about black culture that I may as well be black. But I'm not, I'll still stand out in a ghetto, and I don't want to be the white guy in a rough latino hood either. Does that make me racist, to feel that way?
I don't know about all of you guys, but yes I grew up in a culture of bigotry where white folks say things that aren't said if there are black folks in the room.
I had to tell my own brother the other day, not to use the N word outside my house because I have black neighbors.
And I've got a white neighbor that uses the N word all the time, and he's got a slur for every minority there is, including the "fag" on the HOA board. He was using the N word with me one day, and he actually says to me -- because I was obviously uncomfortable -- "oh sorry, you don't have any black family do you?"
Now here's the funny thing. The black neighbors actually love the guy! Go figure, but yeah he's a likable guy he's just an archie bunker type. He uses the N word, but at least he talks to the black neighbors. And while I don't use the N word, never, I also don't instinctively socialize with black folks. It's not that I'm racist, I'm just not used to it. I'm sorry if this is confusing, maybe I think too much, or maybe even white liberals have some inherent bigotry that they're not even aware of.
I don't know, I just size people up based on the individual. I think it's probably *ghetto* that I have a problem with, it's not skin color. It's *ghetto* that makes me nervous. That can be black, latino, or "white trash" / white folks on meth and pills and drugs.
So anyhow I shared a personal story, that I'm in an interracial dating situation now.
We passed some police, and she said to me in the car "hands up!" and we both laughed about it. But I do wonder, would we be treated differently? I KNOW I'm treated a certain way by the police, but do I know how a black person is treated? Do I know that, for sure? No, I don't.
Will we be treated differently, in public, for being an odd couple? I did notice a few looks in the restaurant, and I know what those looks meant. And then we got other looks that day too, but those looks were about how much fun we were having.
And how will black folks relate to us, will there be any racism from the opposite direction, because I'm white?
I guess I'll find out. I feel okay about it, because a) I like her a lot and I don't give a darn what anyone thinks of that, and b) she's got a good head on her shoulders and I know her enough to know she wouldn't do anything stupid around police, and c) she's a confident woman that seems able to handle anything, anyway.
