by bodigami » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 13:39:03
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('uNkNowN ElEmEnt', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bodigami', 'i') think this is crucial; we must accept our own mortality. with or without peak oil we will eventually die. fearing death is pathological... but is making rationalizations about it pathological? are all visions of "life after death" illusions? is life itself the illusion? and... what is too much "accepting"? can one "love" death?
I think that's kinda nuts. You can think about it all you want. You can even glorify it, but when it comes right down to it, in your final moments,
you will fight it (cause your life does depend on it). As far as accepting it goes, most (I'm being generous here cause I think its 100% of people) go through all the stages (if the death takes long enough) of denial, anger, negotiation, etc before they get to acceptance.
Drugs are the only thing I've ever seen take away or dim a persons emotional response to their imminent demise. I think most people who actively seek death are in one of two states. Either they are flat emotionally (these are the ones who usually succeed at killing themselves) or they are seeking a surcease of mental or emotional pain and welcome the concept of finding peace from their torment.
In saying that we must accept our mortality is a misnomer. Very few (excepting most athiests) truly beileve there is an end or finality once we pass from this life. So what we are clinging too may not be this life, but valued aspects to this life and to that end, yes, we can accept that we will pass from those things. In some cases even gladly.
accepting death does not imply actively seeking it. in the end, death is just a change... whatever beliefs one can have... it is just a change. sometimes i'm curious what exactly changes when one dies; probably assuming total oblivion (which is quite fine by me) unless one "wakes up in another existance".
i don't know... people asume a lot about reality and about others; like assuming asexuality is impossible or that someone will never enjoy his/her moment of death.