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accepting death

Unread postby bodigami » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 01:34:32

i think this is crucial; we must accept our own mortality. with or without peak oil we will eventually die. fearing death is pathological... but is making rationalizations about it pathological? are all visions of "life after death" illusions? is life itself the illusion? and... what is too much "accepting"? can one "love" death?
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby uNkNowN ElEmEnt » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 04:25:49

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bodigami', 'i') think this is crucial; we must accept our own mortality. with or without peak oil we will eventually die. fearing death is pathological... but is making rationalizations about it pathological? are all visions of "life after death" illusions? is life itself the illusion? and... what is too much "accepting"? can one "love" death?


I think that's kinda nuts. You can think about it all you want. You can even glorify it, but when it comes right down to it, in your final moments, you will fight it (cause your life does depend on it). As far as accepting it goes, most (I'm being generous here cause I think its 100% of people) go through all the stages (if the death takes long enough) of denial, anger, negotiation, etc before they get to acceptance.

Drugs are the only thing I've ever seen take away or dim a persons emotional response to their imminent demise. I think most people who actively seek death are in one of two states. Either they are flat emotionally (these are the ones who usually succeed at killing themselves) or they are seeking a surcease of mental or emotional pain and welcome the concept of finding peace from their torment.

In saying that we must accept our mortality is a misnomer. Very few (excepting most athiests) truly beileve there is an end or finality once we pass from this life. So what we are clinging too may not be this life, but valued aspects to this life and to that end, yes, we can accept that we will pass from those things. In some cases even gladly.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby Ludi » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 08:16:43

It's difficult for me to see behavior which isn't in itself harmful as "pathological." Inventing a future beyond death seems pretty universal for humans throughout our time on the planet. The Land of the Dead or the Land of the Spirits, etc are present in most or possibly all mythologies. Personally, I don't see a problem with it. Accepting that one's consciousness may simply stop for good is certainly a way of looking at death also, one might see it as the "scientific" or "rational" point of view, since science tells us consciousness is part of the brain and the brain is subject to death. But there's enough debate about what "consciousness" means in a spiritual, not physical, sense, to leave plenty of room for speculation.

I accept that I will die. I also accept that I don't know what the experience of death will be like, nor if there is anything "I" will experience after I die.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby Crazy_Dad » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 12:32:12

I have no fear of the Mexican Flu.
If it claims me and mine, then so be it.
I just hope the following survive: Whales, dolphins, squirrels, All fish, sharks, parrots, eagles, actually all birds, phuk it -> everything but humans.

If it is not the Govt, then the planet is fighting back. Either way - who cares. The Animals will go on.
The Japs will die whilst whaling and everyone - except humans will be happy.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby Crazy_Dad » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 12:33:59

Woops I forgot to say Yarrrrr!
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby bodigami » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 13:39:03

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('uNkNowN ElEmEnt', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bodigami', 'i') think this is crucial; we must accept our own mortality. with or without peak oil we will eventually die. fearing death is pathological... but is making rationalizations about it pathological? are all visions of "life after death" illusions? is life itself the illusion? and... what is too much "accepting"? can one "love" death?


I think that's kinda nuts. You can think about it all you want. You can even glorify it, but when it comes right down to it, in your final moments, you will fight it (cause your life does depend on it). As far as accepting it goes, most (I'm being generous here cause I think its 100% of people) go through all the stages (if the death takes long enough) of denial, anger, negotiation, etc before they get to acceptance.

Drugs are the only thing I've ever seen take away or dim a persons emotional response to their imminent demise. I think most people who actively seek death are in one of two states. Either they are flat emotionally (these are the ones who usually succeed at killing themselves) or they are seeking a surcease of mental or emotional pain and welcome the concept of finding peace from their torment.

In saying that we must accept our mortality is a misnomer. Very few (excepting most athiests) truly beileve there is an end or finality once we pass from this life. So what we are clinging too may not be this life, but valued aspects to this life and to that end, yes, we can accept that we will pass from those things. In some cases even gladly.


accepting death does not imply actively seeking it. in the end, death is just a change... whatever beliefs one can have... it is just a change. sometimes i'm curious what exactly changes when one dies; probably assuming total oblivion (which is quite fine by me) unless one "wakes up in another existance".

i don't know... people asume a lot about reality and about others; like assuming asexuality is impossible or that someone will never enjoy his/her moment of death.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby bodigami » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 13:46:34

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', 'I')t's difficult for me to see behavior which isn't in itself harmful as "pathological." Inventing a future beyond death seems pretty universal for humans throughout our time on the planet. The Land of the Dead or the Land of the Spirits, etc are present in most or possibly all mythologies. Personally, I don't see a problem with it. Accepting that one's consciousness may simply stop for good is certainly a way of looking at death also, one might see it as the "scientific" or "rational" point of view, since science tells us consciousness is part of the brain and the brain is subject to death. But there's enough debate about what "consciousness" means in a spiritual, not physical, sense, to leave plenty of room for speculation.


at least for me, consciosness can not be explained using only scientific knowledge (or what our civilization calls scientific, which is the physical-only). mind is not matter nor energy, but it can interact with them. if someone wants to assume that this mind, because it is not physical is eternal fine... but there is absolutely no warranty about it. but defining mind as brain is counter-intuitive (at least for me).

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '
')I accept that I will die. I also accept that I don't know what the experience of death will be like, nor if there is anything "I" will experience after I die.


i concur :)
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby Sixstrings » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:09:39

The topic you've raised here is the singular irony of Doomerism. The fact is, we're all infinitely more likely to pass in some pedestrian manner than from the exotic -- be it zombie hordes, not even having rice to eat, the galactic alignment / planetary pole shift in 2012, etc. etc. etc.

I almost included swine flu, but unfortunately if it goes pandemic that could be something to really worry about. But on the other hand, someone pointed out in another thread that 40,000 people in the US die from flu yearly -- so far, not one in the US has died from the swine flu variety.

The point to all this is one everyone knows, I'm sure. Live life to the fullest, whatever your situation. And don't let worries overwhelm you, even if they're peak oil related -- the irony is that prolonged stress is one of the biggest killers out there.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby RedStateGreen » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:20:09

I firmly believe that I will not die one second before my time. So when my time comes, well, that's just my time.

I always wondered why stories make dying such a tragedy. Sure the people still living mourn the loss, but it was that person's time to go. If it wasn't a car crash, they would have fallen down the stairs, or had a heart attack or something. :|

Reminds me of the guy who ran off to an island in the south Pacific to get away from TEOTWAWKI back in the early 40's ... a place called Iwo Jima. Surely he'd be safe there! :lol:
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby davep » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:27:03

I agree that death has to be contemplated. It's all part of coming to terms with mortality. Personally, when I die, I want to go without fear, with dignity. It's our ultimate act here, the least we can do is do it well. The wisdom attained from contemplation may also alter your behaviour during your time here away from materialism.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby bodigami » Mon 27 Apr 2009, 15:45:19

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Crazy_Dad', 'I') have no fear of the Mexican Flu.
If it claims me and mine, then so be it.
I just hope the following survive: Whales, dolphins, squirrels, All fish, sharks, parrots, eagles, actually all birds, phuk it -> everything but humans.

If it is not the Govt, then the planet is fighting back. Either way - who cares. The Animals will go on.
The Japs will die whilst whaling and everyone - except humans will be happy.


chimps and dolphins have lost my sympathy. both kill "for the lulz".
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby Micki » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 00:51:37

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bodigami', 'i') think this is crucial; we must accept our own mortality. with or without peak oil we will eventually die. fearing death is pathological... but is making rationalizations about it pathological? are all visions of "life after death" illusions? is life itself the illusion? and... what is too much "accepting"? can one "love" death?

Not afraid, just fighting it off waiting for the right time. The day when I like a prod Indian brave can look to the sky and say "It's a good day to die".
The day hasn't com yet. Maybe next year.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby Sixstrings » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 01:02:24

Another take on this is the Buddhist perspective. I've read a zen quote somewhere, something along the lines of "I die every time I sit to meditate." This quote perfectly sums up what zen is all about -- living in the present, with the knowledge that all things are impermanent.

The expectation of permanence is a delusion, and is the cause of all human suffering.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby bodigami » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 02:22:50

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', 'A')nother take on this is the Buddhist perspective. I've read a zen quote somewhere, something along the lines of "I die every time I sit to meditate." This quote perfectly sums up what zen is all about -- living in the present, with the knowledge that all things are impermanent.

The expectation of permanence is a delusion, and is the cause of all human suffering.


the quote is closer to: "when i inhale i am born, when i exhale i die"; focusing on the now, accepting impermanence and so on. meditation is not like dying :razz: :)
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby uNkNowN ElEmEnt » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 02:58:35

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bodigami', '
')the quote is closer to: "when i inhale i am born, when i exhale i die"; focusing on the now, accepting impermanence and so on. meditation is not like dying :razz: :)


Ah, but it is. Meditating to the buddhist is dying to the "Self". When you die to the self, some schools of thought say, it is akin to the actual experience of death after life.

Though I have died technically twice before the age of 14, I only remember one time and it was very peaceful. I still fear the end (though more the means of my demise and the event of further pain) but I will welcome that state, more surely than a lovers embrace.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby jupiters_release » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 12:56:30

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('uNkNowN ElEmEnt', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bodigami', '
')the quote is closer to: "when i inhale i am born, when i exhale i die"; focusing on the now, accepting impermanence and so on. meditation is not like dying :razz: :)


Ah, but it is. Meditating to the buddhist is dying to the "Self".


I totally agree, you can't live without dying first, they're one in the same!
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby SeaGypsy » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 14:00:39

My experience tells me that in an egoless state, the 'I' can be percieved as limitless and existing beyond the body. Perhaps the brain is simply a machine designed to facilitate interaction between the ultimate universality of the real 'I' and material existence. The sense of individual 'self' a byproduct of this interaction which may serve some purpose beyond the existence of the body. One must admit it can all be very entertaining.
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby vision-master » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 18:05:01

I'm only afraid of physical death - the pain..........
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Re: accepting death

Unread postby Grautr » Tue 28 Apr 2009, 19:30:58

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bodigami', 'i') think this is crucial; we must accept our own mortality. with or without peak oil we will eventually die. fearing death is pathological... but is making rationalizations about it pathological? are all visions of "life after death" illusions? is life itself the illusion? and... what is too much "accepting"? can one "love" death?


I took a lot of hallucinogenic drugs in my younger years and was also a ketamine addict. K produces an effect which is exactly the same as when you brain shuts down at death. Its like playing knock down Ginger with the Grim Reaper. That and the many other times on hallucinogens where I thought I was dead meant by the age of 30 I had no fear of dying.

Then I had kids. I may have conquered my own fear of death but the same thinking couldnt be applied to my children. I now sometimes have these horrible dreams where my kids will fall in the water and start drowning. When I jump in to save them I wake up leaving me unable to do anything about the situation even though I can be very lucid in my dreams.

Personaly I find this quite a dirty move on the part of my subconscious.

Its quite possible to accept death on different levels although for many situations it takes a lot of conditioning.
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