by oneplain1 » Sun 24 Aug 2008, 22:22:59
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PhebaAndThePilgrim', 'G')ood day from Pheba, from the farm:
My ex-husband was a driver for the Amish for several years. If I had a choice between starving and dying, or joining the Amish, I would starve with glee.
First, the Amish have large families. The children are worked like dogs from the moment they can walk. Their children often get hurt because the Amish sect I witnessed seemed to be very bad parents. To me they seemed thoughtless and stupid concerning the safety of their children.
I can't tell you how many times my ex was called to take Amish to hospital to visit a hurt child. Kicked by horse, fell down a well, etc. I guess that is just a part of farm life when there are so many children. I never figured it out.
One way my ex made money was to bring Amish men to his house so they could view their pornographic VHS tapes on his television.
They had an extensive library that they stored at his house.
This was not my ex's ideal, they begged him to do this.
He also transported Amish to a firewood factory nearby and they had a tendency to either show up intoxicated or became intoxicated during lunch hour.
Amish women shopping tank up on cheap starch and fat at Aldis. They do not raise all of their own food any more than the rest of us.
They raise a vegetable garden, do some canning, and raise some of their own beef and chicken.
For the most part they purchase bread, flour, soap, shampoo, etc. just like the rest of us.
Their health problems are profound. They have as high an incidence of diabetes as the rest of us, probably from eating Aldis high starch, high fat , high sugar diet.
Their incidence of cancer is high, just like ours.
Their is also a high incidence of deformity, both mental and physical. Such family members are kept hidden from the general public and are kept at home.
The entire sect is paternal and women are treated poorly.
It is amazing that the girls can seem so beautiful, healthy, and fresh faced. There is a bloom about them.
After a few years of unceasing labor and never-ending baby-making the bloom is gone, and most of them look bloated and tired. I knew one woman with 17 children. None of the children had shoes. her house was a filthy mess.
I also knew a delightful Amish lady with only 2 children.
Birth control? She never would say, but she stopped at two children.
In the small town where I used to live it is impossible to rent a garage. All of the garages are rented by Amish boys.
They all have a cheap car. They sneak into town with horse and buggy and go riding around town in cars.
The Amish are forgiving until a youth reaches adulthood.
After adulthood such behavior results in being shunned.
Once during a visit to our small town pharmacy I noticed a bottle of medicine on a shelf called Lydia Pinkhams Female Remedy.
I learned from the pharmacist that the medication has been around over a hundred years. He told me that he could not keep it in stock. The Amish ladies bought it constantly.
I read the ingredients. Lydia Pinkham knew what she was about.
Her Female Remedy is 25 percent alcohol.
Have a great day.
PHeba.
Your fingers do typeth over(board).
My father was raised in a Mennonite family. Plain people they like to be referred as. Through out the centuries the plain people's lives were centered around the farm. That becomes more of a problem these days as the supply of land and money is more scarce. I cannot name any society that does not have its problems or bad apples.
My very good Amish friend and his family (wife and 6 kiddies) will be coming for a 2 night stay at our farm next weekend. This will be their first "vacation" in quite some time, as he put it "it will be nice to sit around with our toes pointed up for a couple days". We've been good friends now for about 6-7 years.
The good that I take from them though is this:
Although I consider myself to be a plain person, the Amish life would not be for me, to many restrictions for this boy who's been around the world a couple times.
They are though very good steward's of the land (many are going organic lately), they are very much awed by mother nature.
They are not in any way lazy.
They do not look to the government for handouts of any kind.
Pay all the taxes they owe, they even donate money as a group for road repairs.
They educate their children (8 grades) with no help from government.
They are very entrepreneurial, it amazes me to see the various craftsmen and manufacturers that each community has (made in the USA).
8 grades or not...they are very smart at what it is they do.
Their beliefs (some have called them cultists, some have called them abusive) are focused on the family and the community. The Deacons decide what will be allowed and what is not. Mostly its about what will keep the family unit and community strongly united.
We need not stand in judgment of the Amish lifestyle, lest we be judged ourselves. They are in this world and will live accordingly, but they are not of this world. They live everyday to be judged by the good Lord.