. But seriously, I have always said that we don't need any diseases or additional kids. It would destroy our lives if he had to pay child-support from a meaningless affair. I am very, very sterile, and that is a big motivating factor for faithfulness with him. His particular ethnicity is known for being very fertile, and he is very happy that he doesn't have to worry about that with me. I think that if he had an affair I would just be disappointed. Not the end of the relationship, but disappointed. And very annoyed. Chances are pretty good that the woman would have formed some sort of emotional attachment. I just don't need to be dealing with some hormonal bitch who think that she belongs with my husband just because she f***ed him a couple of times. All-in-all, I don't think affairs are worth it. Been there, done that, not a good idea. It's like communism, nice in theory but...yeah...enough said...


But I do agree the opportunity is always there, just needs a little persuasion. I usually wait for the right moon position, why have vanilla sex when you can swing from the rafters. wooohooo!


. But seriously, I have always said that we don't need any diseases or additional kids. It would destroy our lives if he had to pay child-support from a meaningless affair. I am very, very sterile, and that is a big motivating factor for faithfulness with him. His particular ethnicity is known for being very fertile, and he is very happy that he doesn't have to worry about that with me. I think that if he had an affair I would just be disappointed. Not the end of the relationship, but disappointed. And very annoyed. Chances are pretty good that the woman would have formed some sort of emotional attachment. I just don't need to be dealing with some hormonal bitch who think that she belongs with my husband just because she f***ed him a couple of times. All-in-all, I don't think affairs are worth it. Been there, done that, not a good idea. It's like communism, nice in theory but...yeah...enough said...

Why not? I know myself better than anyone, we'd think exactly alike, each would know what the other was thinking 24/7, etc, etc. I think it'd be one of the greatest mystical experiences that could ever be experienced, if such a thing was possible.
To live a life of a middle-class suburbanite, in a loveless marriage, consumed by selfish materialism, the pressure of career...oh man, the pity I have for some of these folk. I really do have to focus on the positive in my own life, huh?


Yeah, I'd be quite fascinated as well with having another me to do things with...the possibilities would be endless, wouldn't it? Having another me around would probably enable to see myself in a whole different way, as others might see me...it's a fun thought game for sure!





It's hard, but not life-ending.



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