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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby kochevnik » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 15:49:25

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('MD', 'G')ideon wins the asshole of the thread award for this one; in my not-so-humble opinion.



Second that.

The OP was a JOKE people - it was meant to highlight the diffs between young and old, PO-aware and PO-clueless. It was NOT a symposium on child raising.

Somebody's shorts are on way too tight I think.
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby threadbear » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 15:52:07

Lots of axes to grind here. Let me tell the gen X and Yers a little story. I was talking to a friend who is in her early sixties. You know what her parents left her, and will leave her? Sure she'll get a bit of an inheritance, but they both actively discouraged her from getting an education. She had to really fight to go to university.Her dad also whipped her for any minor indiscretion, from early childhood. The emotional scars are still quite evident, as she seems robbed of the ability to experience unadulterated joy.

She describes her life in terms of survival, but always follows through with the emphasis on social ignorance as being the prime influence. Her father was beaten with a horse whip, by his father, and her grandfather with a cat of nine tails, by his father.

I can attest to the fact that this is true, from my own family experience. My mother had a very close relationship with her sweet grandfather. She was horrified to discover, later in life, from her mother, that that same kindly old man would horsewhip his own children to punish them, when they were teenagers. This was the norm, though.

Doesn't make the baby boomers seem so bad, does it? Try to keep perspective. Parents who merely chortle at their kid's ignorance and lack of respect are remarkably restrained, considering how few generations separate them from the barbaric parenting practices of their parents or grandparents. Our parents would have beaten some of us to within an inch of our lives, if we dared to contradict or question them.
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Concerned » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 15:52:55

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Read the original post and take a chill pill bro. The posters son knows about Peak Oil and sounds like the kids are hanging out having some fun.



Sorry replying to my own post. As far as the OP knows his son does NOT know about Peak Oil or is NOT Peak Oil aware.

My apologies for the error.
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby NEOPO » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 16:09:09

Asshat maybe but I enjoy the honest raw Gideon :)

<leaves mumbling something about old modes of thinking not solving our new problems>
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby NWMossBack » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 16:37:46

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('MD', 'G')ideon wins the asshole of the thread award for this one; in my not-so-humble opinion.
Just this thread? Don't sell the man short! :P
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby JasonHam » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 16:59:54

Is there some history btw pablo and gideon?

It was just a story. I kind of liked the fact he put down the 20 year old without anybody noticing. I liked the story....whats the big deal? Can't people just tell a story without the micro analysis of every little detail.......for crying out loud...

And , I dont know, I'm not a parent, but if i were, I dont think I would want some dude on a doomsday peak oil message board telling me what how I should raise my kid(s)
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Pablo2079 » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 17:00:10

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Concerned', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Concerned', '
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Read the original post and take a chill pill bro. The posters son knows about Peak Oil and sounds like the kids are hanging out having some fun.



Sorry replying to my own post. As far as the OP knows his son does NOT know about Peak Oil or is NOT Peak Oil aware.

My apologies for the error.


My son knows about Peak Oil, but he believes that science will save us. In the mean time, he wants to have fun. Hard to argue with that.......
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Concerned » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 17:00:44

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Gideon', '-')
Somebody named "concerned" posted a big, long, rather boring bit in response to me.

Concerned, that post read like every crap Hollywood movie that, because it sucks, runs 3 hours.

Like AI - one of the worst flicks of all time, and 3 hours long to make sure the point is driven home.

So work on making your posts more interesting. Christ, it wasn't even well argued.



I clicked, I read, I pwned your sorry ass *wink*

Why can't we all just get along?

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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby TWilliam » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 17:07:54

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Baldwin', '
')You're being a moron, FYI.

1960 SHOULD carry the connotation of a cultural revolution that produced the parents of today's self-centered children. That is why instead of boomers setting up trusts for their soon-to-be-arriving (if not already here) grandkids they are wasting money on land in gates Florida golf communities.

The OP here seems to almost exhibit an "us against them" attitude which is increasingly becoming accepted among parents. I frequently tap my grandfather's brain for any information I might have missed. My relationship with him has been tension free for the last 17 years. It fails to manifest any of this cloak-and-dagger secrecy that you (the OP) has. WIth my own parents, it hasn't been so rosy (but it is still better than most). It mostly stems from my parents making occassionally asinine purchases (random expensive shopping trips, worthless trinkets from ebay) then complaining about college expenses, why I can't have a dog that I am willing to pay for etc.


And you're being just as much of a narcissistic punk as you accuse the Boomers of being. Not that I'm defending them specifically mind you; I don't think very highly of them either.

The bottom line here however is that people don't "owe" their progeny sh*t beyond supporting us to the point of being able to make our own way in the world. They don't "owe" us a six figure secondary education, they don't "owe" us our first car or house (or pet or any other "want"), and they damn sure don't owe our kids a share of the fruits of their labors. If they want to "waste" their retirement funds on country-club living, that's certainly their right (tho' if they do opt for giving it to their grandkids, that is certainly their right as well).

More entitlement-minded bullsh*t... :x
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby IanC » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 17:24:27

These so-called generational wars are getting SO old.

What I find interesting is the people who have children as old as college aged who have not made those children PO aware. What a shame! The more this becomes part of their everyday thought processes, the better decisions they will be able to make. I don't think we do them favors by sheltering them.

My 6 year old is Peak Oil aware...for a 6 year old. She knows that nearly all vehicles run on oil products. She knows that we are halfway through all the oil on the planet and that the other half will be a lot harder to get. She knows that really rich people will still be able to drive cars when she is a grown-up but that most people will need other ways of getting around. She knows that we need to support local farmers and businesses because they use less gas to get us what we buy. She knows we need to ride bikes and walk more, not because we can't drive the car yet, but because it helps us get ready for when the gas is too expensive. She knows that learning to garden organically (she knows what organic means) will help us in the future and is fun. She wants to be a farmer (not a movie star).

As she matures, so can her understanding of the energy situation. At least it won't shatter her dreams when reality hits...I hope.

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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby NEOPO » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 17:46:35

See! I like him more and more as time goes by.
It is as we say, an acquired taste.

here - let us try a little experiment - if sugar gets shit then lets try alittle shit.....
Hey Gideon - why dont you go outside and play hide and go F$%^ yourself?!!? 8)

Gideon - maybe it is because we have chosen to come all the way out of the PO closet that we expect other peakers to do so as well?
I can take that alittle further and suggest that since I am moving toward sustainability that I expect other peakers to do so as well...

I find that I lose respect daily for those who admit to not planning and attempting to move toward sustainability.

Judgemental or honesty?
Yadda yadda no one knows the future yet is it that hard to picture inevitability?

I mean we have hashed the possible scenarios out ad infinitum.
Can anyone honestly say that we should not hope for the best but plan for the worst?
Nope as that is IMHO the best advice ever given yet rarely received.

Denial and rationalization folks! thats all it is and as much as I despise the arrogance of modern scientific thought I do appreciate those two words as they are understood by modern psychology.

Like Matt savinar penned on our copies of his book "tell the truth and run like hell"...Good advice even if he is a hopeless asshat :roll:

So let's skip the pussy footing and start saying it as it is please as the "hour is getting late"....
Monte is probably one of the best at this and I think that is why so many of us respect him.

Power out G man!
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby benzoil » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 20:18:26

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Gideon', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('IanC', 'W')hat I find interesting is the people who have children as old as college aged who have not made those children PO aware. What a shame! The more this becomes part of their everyday thought processes, the better decisions they will be able to make. I don't think we do them favors by sheltering them.


Bingo!

I agree completely.

But you'll notice that some other posters have reached the conclusion that their 3.894567 GPA daughter who is considered mature enough to, presumbaly, drive a car and go to College can't handle knowledge of Peak Oil [whisper] for reasons that can't be disclosed on an anonymous bulletin board [/whisper].


I've done everything short of having a formal intervention with charts and diagrams. If I have to do that I will. I would prefer she connect the dots. Not being a total doomer - I think the coming recession/depression will mask the onset of PO - I believe there is time. Not much, but some.

Since learning about PO, I have done almost nothing but prepare. I'm not standing on the rooftop yelling, "Doom is nigh!" because I don't think the time is right for me (personally - for others, who knows?) to stand on a rooftop and holler. I'm too busy teaching my little ones how to milk chickens, collect eggs from under the bull, and why not to repeat what Daddy just said after dropping a log on his foot.

I convinced my loving (PO aware) wife to leave her dear Chicago to live in the rural hinterlands. If society doesn't eventually collapse, I'll never hear the end of it! I'm usually the skunk at the garden party on a variety of topics from the housing bubble, insane government debt, and energy.

I don't jump right into Montequest's dieoff scenarios though because 99% of the time, most people will immediately tune it out. Its simply too far outside anything they can imagine. Thus, they'll tune out everything else I just said about declining oil and natural gas production or why they should get out of debt. I'm sure everyone on this board has gotten that look. The one where people look at you like you just told them that the Pope controls the biker gangs through coded messages broadcast by Rush Limbaugh. (Disclaimer: He might. I lost contact with my source in the Illuminati after I moved though.)

I can't scare people enough to change their ways. No truth that I present is going to bludgeon them into changing their lives tomorrow. If I can talk about "too many people and not enough oil" or "there isn't enough corn/tar sands/technology to make *insert alternative hope here* work" then maybe I can get them to connect some dots on their own.

Which brings me to discussing PO with my daughter. She already thinks I'm an idiot because I dislike her longtime boyfriend. If she connects the dots on her own, with some subtle pushes from me, then it (hopefully) won't come off as some crackpot rant.

I can't save everyone, but I can save my family. I am doing so in the best way I know how. Is my way right for everyone? Nope. Especially the chicken milking. Is it possible to find fault with me? Sure. If I were perfect, I'd quit shocking myself when repairing the electric fence. I come to this board for advice on a lot of things, but how to raise my family isn't one of them. In the future, when Mutant Zombie Bikers are storming my farm to steal the last potato and I'm one trigger finger short because my daughter elected to stay in the city, I'll post and tell you that you were right. I will try to do this before they club me to death with their improvised weapons. Until then, I will continue to believe that there is more than one way to skin a cat and a plurality of ways to prepare for and spread the word about peak oil.

Have a good evening. I'm off to rescue a rooster who seems to have wandered into the neighbor's field and can't figure out how to get back. I'll probably just show him the hole in the fence and see if he connects the dots. :)

[Note: No baby boomers, Gen Xers, Gen Yers, family members, or innocuous female houseguests were harmed (intentionally) in this post.]
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby lateralus » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 21:04:48

Entertaining thread.

Such is usually the case when Gideon is in the mix. :P

I don't have any children so I don't have anything to really add. I'll just heckle the crowd and munch my popcorn.

Please, I want to see the gloves come off, bash the shit out of each other. No holds bar.

Ding, ding. [smilie=new_popcornsmiley.gif]
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Revi » Mon 02 Apr 2007, 21:35:34

I've tried to tell our kid about peak oil. We live it every day. We cut wood, live with solar hot water and pv backup lights. We have shrunk our cars and are using half of the fossil fuel that we did five years ago. Actions speak louder than words. I think he'll get that. We'll see. He's going to want a license to drive soon. I think he'll get to drive for a few years anyway. The reality of peak oil is becoming apparent to everyone, but especially to this generation of teenagers.
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Concerned » Tue 03 Apr 2007, 06:14:36

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('benzoil', '
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Since learning about PO, I have done almost nothing but prepare. I'm not standing on the rooftop yelling, "Doom is nigh!" because I don't think the time is right for me (personally - for others, who knows?) to stand on a rooftop and holler. I'm too busy teaching my little ones how to milk chickens, collect eggs from under the bull, and why not to repeat what Daddy just said after dropping a log on his foot.


LOL thats priceless. :-D

Im also Peak Oil aware and making preparations. Im hand crafting square bowling balls and basic farm implements like wooden stakes. You'll never know when you need a good wooden stake. I plan on being the stake expert and trade my valuable knowledge for food and ammunition.

I regularly tour my neighbourhood cheerfully informing the folks that the end of modern industrial civilization is just around the corner and they are likely to be part of a "die off" needless to say I've had to raise the barracades at home and mostly gain access to my premises under cover of darkness.

Anyhow Im off to the local playground this weekend starting of with Dr Zeus books before informing the under 5's of the most "critical" event of their lives. Sure I've had to be bailed out of goal for being a public nuisance, once the Judge hears what all the kids tears and nightmares are about he generally gives a nod and a wink before releasing me to do my important "critical" work of raising Peak Oil awareness. By the way folks this stuff beats any horror story hands down bogey man *snort* thats a trifling in comparison.

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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Revi » Tue 03 Apr 2007, 09:11:46

I try to tell my kids, but they don't care about something so strange and long term. They can only see to next weekend. I think that's a good thing. We were the same way. Why worry about things you can't change? We are the ones with the problem. They will be living with the consequences of peak oil, but they just don't know it yet. Why alarm them needlessly? Better to steer them in a good direction, and see how they do. They will be the ones steering their own lives. Tell them where the rocks are, and how to read a chart, and let them learn.
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby benzoil » Tue 03 Apr 2007, 10:49:33

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Revi', ' ')Better to steer them in a good direction, and see how they do. They will be the ones steering their own lives. Tell them where the rocks are, and how to read a chart, and let them learn.


Good advice on child rearing in any event! Your other post mentioned/implied learning by example. They'll soak that up like oxygen. When they're older, they'll have those skills whether they meant to or not.
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Revi » Tue 03 Apr 2007, 14:00:11

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('benzoil', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Revi', ' ')Better to steer them in a good direction, and see how they do. They will be the ones steering their own lives. Tell them where the rocks are, and how to read a chart, and let them learn.


Good advice on child rearing in any event! Your other post mentioned/implied learning by example. They'll soak that up like oxygen. When they're older, they'll have those skills whether they meant to or not.


Thanks. I can't tell if they are even listening at all sometimes, but I still remember all the things my parents did in response to the energy crisis of the 1970's and 80's. They put up insulated curtains, a wood stove and gardened. It was fun and it made an impression on me. I guess it will be like that. When they become adults they'll know that what we do is possible, and will help them through hard times. We cut wood, make maple syrup and grow a garden. We've done all sorts of things to cut our energy use, and have probably reduced it by half.

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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby Baldwin » Tue 03 Apr 2007, 16:48:57

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('TWilliam', '
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And you're being just as much of a narcissistic punk as you accuse the Boomers of being. Not that I'm defending them specifically mind you; I don't think very highly of them either.

The bottom line here however is that people don't "owe" their progeny sh*t beyond supporting us to the point of being able to make our own way in the world. They don't "owe" us a six figure secondary education, they don't "owe" us our first car or house (or pet or any other "want"), and they damn sure don't owe our kids a share of the fruits of their labors. If they want to "waste" their retirement funds on country-club living, that's certainly their right (tho' if they do opt for giving it to their grandkids, that is certainly their right as well).

More entitlement-minded bullsh*t... :x


And how do you suppose you come off? You sound more like a televangelist calling for parents to shirk a resposibility.

Before I found out that the world would be doomed by peak oil, I had it in my mind to leave every penny I earned and kept to my kids/grandkids or close surviving relatives (now that means passing onto them a small casket of silver eagles and sovereigns). Before I would have reached my old age, I planned to do as much as possible to see to the comfort of my mother and father, but especially of my maternal grandparents...from whom I derive most of my "ideal parent" fantasies from. If my previously mentioned feelings qualify me as a narcissistic punk (ad hominems discredit you, not me) filled with delusions of entitlement, then execute me for the sake of my guilt.

If anything, your feelings are those of entitlement. The free-flow of cash from the boomer's 401k's into Florida golf communities, yachts, 1960's sports cars, and other wasting of resources are why we are in a peak oil crisis. Scrupulous savers who have sought to ease the lives of their descendants have kept the world in equilibrium for many millenia, ending with the WWII vet generations. That whole rant of boomers being able to spend money on whatever they please is why family bonds are virtually non-existant. Your high ideal is the very evil you seek to condemn.
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Re: "You won't."

Unread postby lateStarter » Tue 03 Apr 2007, 17:16:31

Ok. Help me out here. Trying to get the scorecard straightened out...

In one feature match we have 'Baldwin' vs 'TWilliam'. In the other we have the OP 'Pablo' and 'Concerned' vs 'Gideon' and 'Benzoil'.

When will 'Raphael' and 'Holmes' make a showing to clear things up? Stay tuned..
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