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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby Heineken » Thu 02 Feb 2006, 17:46:46

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('crow', 'A')nd where is the error in teaching to fight rather than give up? Have you ever looked at the reasoning and principals that lead Judeo-Christians to the conclusion that life is worth fighting for?

Please give an example of how suicide can be brave?

If I figth my illness to the end, based on a conscious choice, and my kin who suffers the same illness commits suicide; who is truly braver?


That 'going to hell' over suicide is a childish notion at best and one that is seldomly taught these days. Catholic cemetaries for example, will allow a suicide victim to be burried in 'communion with their church'.



You seem to be replying to my posts without reading them, since I already gave you an example of how suicide can IMO be brave---and, vastly more important, rational. If you don't agree with it, so be it.

Yes, fight by all means. I'm a complete supporter of "fighting," and I've done plenty of it and will do plenty more. But there may come a time in one's waning life when fighting no longer makes sense.

Society has put me solely in charge of my life. No help, no handouts all the way. Fine. But I then also want to be in charge of how and when I die.

In any case, it will be my private, personal decision and act when the time comes, and I don't give a crap what "society" or "Judeo-Christians" have to say about it. I will apply my own definitions and my own rules, period.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby Heineken » Thu 02 Feb 2006, 17:52:43

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Respecting the dignity of the individual, beats turning the beauty and meaning of life into a twisted form of fetish worship.


Suicide removes a person dignity far more than any cancer ever will.


Are you a health care expert, crow? How much death from cancer and other terminal illnesses have you intimately witnessed? Anyone who has watched someone die of cancer knows that toward the end there is no dignity, only an empty, suffering shell.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crow » Fri 03 Feb 2006, 00:28:19

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You seem to be replying to my posts without reading them, since I already gave you an example of how suicide can IMO be brave---and, vastly more important, rational. If you don't agree with it, so be it.

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Do you mean this?

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')hanks, crapattack. Suicide can certainly be a brave act when it is done to spare loved ones from financial ruin and years of terrible emotional attrition, as in the case of Alzheimer's or AIDS. This applies particularly when there is no health insurance.


That's not an example of bravery, that's an example of betgging for pity and reaching for an excuse to give up.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crow » Fri 03 Feb 2006, 00:39:15

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('crow', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('threadbear', '
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Respecting the dignity of the individual, beats turning the beauty and meaning of life into a twisted form of fetish worship.


Suicide removes a person dignity far more than any cancer ever will.


Are you a health care expert, crow? How much death from cancer and other terminal illnesses have you intimately witnessed? Anyone who has watched someone die of cancer knows that toward the end there is no dignity, only an empty, suffering shell.


No I am not a health care professional.

Yes, I have seen many people die, from old age and various diseases and that from an early age. My father is a doctor, and he hid very few things from the realities of life. He told me several stories of patients on their death-beds; some who died with dignity, and others who did not. Some who I met a few hours before their death.

Dignity does not depend on the amount of suffering, or wether you have ten fingers or toes, and if you don't know this yet you're not quite a grown up just yet.

Explain to me how being in pain reduces your dignity? Or how being ill and needing someone to help care for you reduces your dignity? It might reduce someone's pride; no question there, but in no way do these things reduce human dignity in the least.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby Heineken » Fri 03 Feb 2006, 10:10:33

I worked in a hospital for years. A slightly different perspective than hearing a dad's stories.

Read "How We Die," by Sherman Nuland, a famous surgeon. Although he's hardly a big proponent of suicide, his whole thesis is that very few of us ever die with "dignity." No, instead you're usually out of your mind and crapping in your pants and as dependent as a newborn. Maybe that's for you, but it's not for me. I choose to go as the ancient Greeks, a far better breed than we, went.

It is and should be a personal decision. What I decry is society's hypocrisy on the matter. A lot of people don't even have health insurance and therefore may not be able to afford the pain-easing drugs docs give to the dying; this problem will intensify as this nation becomes increasingly bankrupt. What are those people supposed to do? Spend five months screaming from the pain of terminal bone cancer?
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby AmericanEmpire » Fri 03 Feb 2006, 20:00:25

The problem of offing myself is that I'm actually afraid of what comes after death, even more than I am afraid of facing civilization collapse or terminal illness.

I have no idea if there is an afterlife or not. I don't absolutely belive that a God created everything in the universe but I don't discount it either. The unknown scares me. Same as the unknown of what will happen to me post oil scares me.

I was raised by Southern Baptist parents. You know the old if you commit suicide you are going to hell thing. If that hell is true it would be worse than facing hell on Earth.

However if its not true. Then lots of people go through unnecessary pain and suffering in this life because they won't off themselves to get the pain over with because of religious beliefs.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby Heineken » Fri 03 Feb 2006, 23:36:34

Hell is a place that was created by the Catholic Church in its early history to frighten people into donating more money to the Church, AE. The idea was a clever one. But that's all the classical Hell is---a human creation like all the rest of the religious mumbo-jumbo.

Do you really believe in a God who would send to eternal fire and torture a kind old woman who killed herself to escape her last weeks of agony from liver cancer? As far as I'm concerned, such a "God" belongs in hell himself.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crapattack » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 04:55:07

Crow said:
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '
')Suicide removes a person dignity far more than any cancer ever will.


Why? Sorry to be graphic here, but I am making a point. Why does suicide remove more dignity? Does it remove more than being raped 12 times and then hacked to death one joint at a time? More than watching your child get gutted then having your balls cut off an shoved in your eye sockets and your dick stuck in your mouth while you're strung up from the nearest tree? Because that it what people in Rwanda faced, and others have faced. Death may not always be this violent, but my point is there are times when suicide makes sense. That could be cancer, starvation or when a raiding gang of 200 mauraders is whopping and yelling it up as they come sauntering into your driveway.

Sometimes suicide is a brave and honourable choice. My God is a forgiving god.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby Heineken » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 09:57:27

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('crapattack', '.') My God is a forgiving god.


And an understanding one. Amen. The Fundie God, on the other hand, is a God tailored to advance the hard-beaked political beliefs of the Fundies.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby smallpoxgirl » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 11:52:37

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', 'T')hanks, crapattack. Suicide can certainly be a brave act when it is done to spare loved ones from financial ruin and years of terrible emotional attrition, as in the case of Alzheimer's or AIDS.


I get your point, but I'm not sure I can imagine an Alzheimer's patient comitting suicide. Alzheimers patients are generally pretty insistent that there is nothing wrong with them. There's an old rule in geriatrics: If the patient comes in and complains to you that he is loosing his memory, he probably is depressed. If the patient insists everything is fine, but the wife tells you he is forgetful, and he scores low when you test his memory then he probably has dementia. Dementia would include Alzheimer's, multi-infarct dementia from mini-strokes, and Creutzfelt Jacob Disease.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby AmericanEmpire » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 12:06:02

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'D')oes it remove more than being raped 12 times and then hacked to death one joint at a time? More than watching your child get gutted then having your balls cut off an shoved in your eye sockets and your dick stuck in your mouth while you're strung up from the nearest tree? Because that it what people in Rwanda faced, and others have faced.


Ugggh. I think I'm gonna be sick.

If our society breaks down into that you can bet I will be commiting suicide. I can't imagine hell being much worse than that.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crapattack » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 18:29:18

Heineken wrote:
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'A')nd an understanding one. Amen. The Fundie God, on the other hand, is a God tailored to advance the hard-beaked political beliefs of the Fundies.


Ha! Ha! That's funny. His devotion is the "kick back".
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crow » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 19:32:57

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', 'H')ell is a place that was created by the Catholic Church in its early history to frighten people into donating more money to the Church, AE. The idea was a clever one. But that's all the classical Hell is---a human creation like all the rest of the religious mumbo-jumbo.

Do you really believe in a God who would send to eternal fire and torture a kind old woman who killed herself to escape her last weeks of agony from liver cancer? As far as I'm concerned, such a "God" belongs in hell himself.


Hell according to the Catholic church is a seperation from God that is willingly choosen by those who seperate themselves from him. Fire and torture is just pictorial folklore so-to-speak picturing the agony of being seperated from God, but is not a theological fact.

they say fear of hell is the beggining of wisdom.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crow » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 19:36:09

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('crapattack', 'C')row said:
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '
')Suicide removes a person dignity far more than any cancer ever will.


Why? Sorry to be graphic here, but I am making a point. Why does suicide remove more dignity? Does it remove more than being raped 12 times and then hacked to death one joint at a time? More than watching your child get gutted then having your balls cut off an shoved in your eye sockets and your dick stuck in your mouth while you're strung up from the nearest tree? Because that it what people in Rwanda faced, and others have faced. Death may not always be this violent, but my point is there are times when suicide makes sense. That could be cancer, starvation or when a raiding gang of 200 mauraders is whopping and yelling it up as they come sauntering into your driveway.

Sometimes suicide is a brave and honourable choice. My God is a forgiving god.


Regardless of what is done to me, my worth as a person does not diminish. My pride could take a beating though.

If I choose to commit a crime, then I hurt my dignity, but I might be more prideful since I might be able to buy a bigger car (if my crime was theft for example).


My God is also a forgiving God. I do not believe nor ever said that if someone ended their lives by their own choice that they would be going to hell.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crapattack » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 20:59:36

crow:
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I')f I choose to commit a crime, then I hurt my dignity, but I might be more prideful since I might be able to buy a bigger car (if my crime was theft for example).

Sorry if I'm being dense, I do not understand this statement.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby crapattack » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 21:01:00

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$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'U')gggh. I think I'm gonna be sick.


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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby Heineken » Sat 04 Feb 2006, 23:36:10

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('smallpoxgirl', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', 'T')hanks, crapattack. Suicide can certainly be a brave act when it is done to spare loved ones from financial ruin and years of terrible emotional attrition, as in the case of Alzheimer's or AIDS.


I get your point, but I'm not sure I can imagine an Alzheimer's patient comitting suicide. Alzheimers patients are generally pretty insistent that there is nothing wrong with them. There's an old rule in geriatrics: If the patient comes in and complains to you that he is loosing his memory, he probably is depressed. If the patient insists everything is fine, but the wife tells you he is forgetful, and he scores low when you test his memory then he probably has dementia. Dementia would include Alzheimer's, multi-infarct dementia from mini-strokes, and Creutzfelt Jacob Disease.


Could be, but if I'm diagnosed with Alzheimer's or another form of dementia and still have enough marbles left to comprehend and hang on to the diagnosis, I will quickly off myself. Alzheimer's is a particularly noisome (and expensive) death.
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Re: Practice Makes Deadly Perfection, Suicide Researcher Say

Unread postby Graeme » Sun 05 Feb 2006, 01:30:08

I suppose assisted suicide in the presence of witnesses for those in acute pain near the end of life is permissible. Those who object to euthanasia might consider assisted suicide murder if performed with only two present. Does anyone have comments about this?
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Suicide as option for the dying uninsured

Unread postby Heineken » Sun 05 Feb 2006, 11:06:11

An estimated 40 million to 60 million Americans lack health insurance. Most Americans' health insurance is dependent on having an employer who provides such coverage; even for those workers, insurance premiums are rising much faster than inflation, and some are opting out of company insurance plans because they can't afford the premiums. Sooner or later the US will experience an economic recession that will throw millions out of work and dramatically swell the ranks of the uninsured. The resources of hospitals that attempt to provide charity care are already stretched to the limit, and waits for such care are getting longer and longer.

It is likely that, during the next major recession, uninsured terminally sick patients will simply not be able to obtain any medical care or relief for their severe pain. What then will be society's obligation toward dying people in terrible pain who want to end that pain? If society cannot care for them, will it not then be obligated to help them die painlessly and humanely, such as by distributing barbiturates to those patients who request them and who meet certain strict criteria?

In such a scenario, does not the anti-suicide position become as bankrupt as the health care system itself?
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Re: Suicide as option for the dying uninsured

Unread postby gego » Sun 05 Feb 2006, 12:24:46

It has always struck me as absurd that government would attempt to prevent one from disposing of his own life as he sees fit. First of all, it is just about impossible to prevent a determined person. Secondly, it is immoral to attempt to deny a person the rights of self ownership (freedom) and to force them to suffer an agonizing life. I think it is just more of the bleed over of religious dogma into law anyway. I think the biggest hypocracy is that politicians attempt to look pious by creating laws against things like suicide, while at the same time carrying out muderous atrocities like Viet Nam and Iraq.
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