by wisconsin_cur » Tue 14 Apr 2009, 11:40:14
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mgibbons19', 'T')hose are money black holes.
But they are cute.
Depends upon how you go about it.
Garden and small animals, in a couple of years their labor pays back the environment. Make use of public school or homeschool (my choice) some costs but you can get used textbooks etc and it is not too bad.
Hand me down clothes and other functions of community. Children are a way to build community as people are willing to help children when unwilling to help adults also as children make friendships it builds relationships among their parents.
They are only a money sink if you buy into the advertising thrown at you (parents) and them. No they do not need a cell phone and they do not need too many pairs of clothes and yes they can have a job and do not need to be in 6 sports.
The only big expense is college and I am a firm believer in having them pay for at least a percentage of that expense. And no, they do not have to go to Harvard etc...
Like everything else,
if you hire someone to do the labor for you they are expensive. If you are willing to put forth the
sweat equity they are both a joy and can even pay for themselves.... especially with the tax break

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