by Loki » Mon 20 Oct 2008, 12:19:19
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('turner', 'A')re you serious? If you are I am really shocked and saddened to think that women are viewed that way. I'm sure there are women that attach themselves to men with means but is this the majority? Is this how lots of men feel?
Is this really a revelation to you? That women, generally speaking, prefer men with means? I guess I should have said they'll "
try to attach themselves to men with means." Rich guys are a scarce commodity, so not everyone can win the lottery.
My coworkers are extremely liberal, about as liberal as you can get. I'll never forget when two of the women were talking, and one said it was much easier to love a rich man than a poor man. At least she was being honest, I guess....
This mindset is very widespread, but it's not terribly popular to express it out loud for fear of being labeled a "gold digger," especially among more liberal types. I used to do Match.com, and found that very few women wanted a man who made less money than they did. I'm not saying ALL women are gold diggers, but many certainly are. The majority? Don't know. I haven't dated the majority of women.
Also not saying men don't have our hang ups, too, but income ain't one of them. I'd bet I could look at men's profiles on Match.com and be hard pressed to find a single one that specifies minimum income level for their potential date. I'd guess height and weight would be more important to most men.
Like it or not, we're still little more than stone age apes.
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