by Heineken » Sun 29 Jun 2008, 08:23:10
In some ways I agree with Thuja in this discussion.
I could never have "made it" to the country without a long period of city (Washington, DC) living, in which I lived in small efficiency apartments, was carless for long periods, and lived quite close to the bone . . . for many years. I viewed the country not only as an escape from the city but an escape from my job. This fantasy kept me motivated through the long hard slog of riding the subway, working in a sterile office, shopping for rotten vegetables in Korean groceries, fending off aggressive homeless types, etc.
By 1996 I had saved a tidy sum. For a song, I bought a small, fairly run-down house in Rockville, Maryland, just a few blocks from a subway stop. This was in the older, inner, leafier 'burbs, but still the 'burbs. Then the housing boom took off. I relentlessly fixed up the house, doing much of the work myself. I also kept saving throughout the five years I lived there. I sold the house for a decent profit a few weeks after 9/11, and moved to my parents' farm, and continued working my job for five more years as a teleworker. During those five years I was able to save or invest nearly all my income.
My job had incredible benefits, including not only a 401(k) but a fully company-funded pension. I worked for that firm for 17 years, and 27 years overall.
I had lived on my parents' farm off and on in previous years, and there was an apartment over a barn-like garage basically just waiting for me.
I retired two years ago at age 50.
There's a lot more history to this than that, going back to 1983 when I bought the first of the four 6- to 7-acre lots the farm occupies.
The point is that my ability to live the way I do where I do evolved over a long, long period and took planning, sacrifice, luck, and money. Also big help from the parents.
There are many routes to your own place in the country, but few of them are simple or cheap. You can't just up and move there unless you have a pot o' gold or some sort of family connection or are lucky enough to land a well-paying job in some out-of-the-way place.
"Actually, humans died out long ago."
---Abused, abandoned hunting dog
"Things have entered a stage where the only change that is possible is for things to get worse."
---I & my bro.