by threadbear » Tue 17 Jun 2008, 17:33:37
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('abelardlindsay', 'T')hat many people absolutely refuse to consider carpooling I think is really funny.
At some point over the past 20 years middle class Americans -- especially women -- became absolutely petrified of strangers.
When you consider a good half of the population of the US and Canada are descended from pioneers who braved near insurmountable odds to survive, it's pretty astounding. They're descendants of groups like the Donner party, survivors of raids by first nation original occupants, scalping parties, sub zero winters in pitiful shacks, crop failures, small pox, operations performed by barbers without anaesthetics, etc...
But these are all great acts that require great sacrifice, stamina, and bravery. What Americans have a problem with are the little mundane acts that erode what they perceive as their personal freedom. Riding with another person conflicts with the open frontier myth, going it alone, the triumph of the individual, etc... If carpooling to work could be reframed as a hero's journey you can only accomplish with another hero, it would be easier for them to accept.
It's not about fear, it's about "freedom"