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The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak Oil

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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby vetusfirma » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 04:57:33

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('wisconsin_cur', 'I') think you have me confused with someone else.
If you were to read my posts you would find no policy recommendations nor do I pass judgment on those proposed by others. I am doing nothing. I don't support a party. I only vote in local elections... and i don't think we live in the same time zone let alone congressional district.
I can be accused of hypocrisy because I am not doing or proposing anything beyond feeling. I understand that. I have a philosophical answer to that which may or may not be convincing. Either way it is irrelavent.
I cannot be accused of screwing up your world. I don't even know where you live.
If I am to be attacked lets at least make it for the right thing.
Hypocrite? maybe.
The cause of all your problems? no.
So if we could get back to the issue at hand...
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby mos6507 » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 05:14:36

Note to self. Don't make ayoob upset.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby wisconsin_cur » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 05:21:04

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vetusfirma', 'A')yoob got this right. Nothing but smoke. No brag, just smoke. If we don't think like you we are wrong and need to change. But don't talk about fixing anything. Oh yea, he lives on earth, same world as you.

He says he is gone, so perhaps you can help me understand.

Is compassion the cause of all our problems? Are there benefits to compassion? Does it have an impact for better or for worse?
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Jack » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 09:38:12

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('wisconsin_cur', 'I')s compassion the cause of all our problems? Are there benefits to compassion? Does it have an impact for better or for worse?

Fascinating thread. The comments are worthy of reflection; that is a complement to all the various contributors.

Wisconsin, perhaps I can ask a clarifying question.

Let us suppose we have three persons, which I'll label C, NC, and SH - standing for Compassion, No Compassion, and Suffering Humanity. 8)

OK, as it turns out, C and NC are at some sports bar having a burger. On the television, they see SH suffering horribly. C feels compassion, NC does not. What differences in behavior does an observer note?

Second scenario. This is one Heineken and I discussed quite some time ago. C and NC each have nicely appointed homes, well stocked pantries, and full refrigerators. SH is a starving woman. She seeks food. What is the difference between C and NC, from the perspective of an independent observer?

With the second scenario, what happens when SH is not one, but many?

And now we add Ayoob's concern. Does C impose on NC? Notice that if C decides to fill the yard with refugee tents and feed as many as possible, this degrades NC's living environment. Thus, part of the cost of C's compassion might be forced on NC.

Now, compassion as a feeling unconnected to action seems meaningless. If I note a starving child on television, just as I am consuming Thanskgiving dinner, what is the difference between feeling compassion and gas, from the perspective of the child, an independent observer, and me?

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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Kaj » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 12:31:25

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('wisconsin_cur', 'I')s compassion the cause of all our problems?

Why would you think that? Seems to me that compassion is the solution to most of our problems.

I guess I can only speak for myself:
When there have been problems in my life, I have benefited greatly from the compassion of others who have helped me. In return I have been grateful and tried to help them too. Learning from such people, I have also been inspired to be more unconditionally compassionate when possible.

Sure I fail at this all the time, but the point is that the more compassion I encounter in others, the more I am reminded to do likewise. Acts of compassion engender further acts of compassion. This is a positive positive feedback loop...
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby HEADER_RACK » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 13:22:07

I can have compassion for those that are trying to help themselves and are struggling and might need help or advice and are willing to learn.
I have no compassion for people that don't try and help themselves or try to improve their situtation.

In a post peak world I will help my fellow man that is trying to help himself but I will shun anyone looking for a handout to fill their bellies.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Ludi » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 13:23:54

I've never seen another person express the feeling of being personally threatened by the compassion of another person before! That's a new one, and really interesting! Wow! 8O

To Jack - I'm not convinced a feeling without action is "meaningless." Clearly it is meaningless to you, and that's ok. I tend to lean somewhat in the same way, I tend to value action over feeling, personally. But to the people who feel it, compassion is not "meaningless." It might be very important to them in some way we don't clearly understand. Kind of like faith. You need to have it to understand it, I think.

I think people who have empathy will likely do better in the future than those who don't. Empathy is the ability to "feel with" another person, to identify with how things affect them. Compassion is a little different, I think, more akin to pity. Having empathy or being able to successfully fake it helps a person get along better with others, to be seen as valuable to other people. Being of value to others will be, I think, a very critical aspect to survival in the future. Unless you really want to be a loner, which is a very tough way to live and not very successful, probably.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Heineken » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 14:33:36

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Kaj', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('wisconsin_cur', 'I')s compassion the cause of all our problems?

Why would you think that? Seems to me that compassion is the solution to most of our problems.
I guess I can only speak for myself:
When there have been problems in my life, I have benefited greatly from the compassion of others who have helped me. In return I have been grateful and tried to help them too. Learning from such people, I have also been inspired to be more unconditionally compassionate when possible.
Sure I fail at this all the time, but the point is that the more compassion I encounter in others, the more I am reminded to do likewise. Acts of compassion engender further acts of compassion. This is a positive positive feedback loop...

I think these are good comments, and they reflect my own bent on this issue.

Yes, you can get burned when you demonstrate compassion, empathy, or charity. Usually it's just a first-degree burn.

For example, I remember giving a quarter to a beggar on a street in Washington, DC. She followed me for a block or two, screaming, "A quarter? That's all you have for me, a lousy quarter?" She all but threw the coin back at me.

But just as often you may be rewarded in one of a whole slew of possible ways.

In the future, survival will be the product of cooperation (and its corollary, caring), not isolation. Anyone who tries to grow most of his or her own food soon learns this.

I am a loner, at times an angry one, but basically I love people and try to be there for them when circumstances call for it.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Ludi » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 14:41:48

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', 'I') am a loner, at times an angry one, but basically I love people and try to be there for them when circumstances call for it.

I'm a loner also, but, will try to be here for people if they need me. I'm just not good at reaching out to folks, you know? :oops:
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Heineken » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 14:49:45

I do know. Exactly.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby vetusfirma » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 15:04:16

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('wisconsin_cur', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vetusfirma', 'A')yoob got this right. Nothing but smoke. No brag, just smoke. If we don't think like you we are wrong and need to change. But don't talk about fixing anything. Oh yea, he lives on earth, same world as you.

He says he is gone, so perhaps you can help me understand.
Is compassion the cause of all our problems? Are there benefits to compassion? Does it have an impact for better or for worse

It is possible that what some might call compassion is the root of all evil, so to speak. If we have too many people, and are 'compassionate of those having more babies, that they can't feed or care for, then compassion dooms the entire group to live (or die) with the results of their actions.

Its all cause and effect.

If you don't want the effect, well, prevent the cause.

We keep feeding the poor of the world, and every year there are more of them than before. More pain, more suffering, more stunted development. So much for compassion. Doesn't do the world any good.

These are not the best of times, and the kum ba ya stuff only mis-allocates resources.

If compassion really did make a positive difference, the worlds problems would have been solved by now, or at least alot better.

Sadly that is not the case, all we do is make things worse.

Sorry for all this, but you did ask.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby wisconsin_cur » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 15:12:35

Compassion with out action runs the risk of being hypocritical... at the very least it will look hypocritical. Sitting at a sports bar in a year I look up and see pictures of a million starving Bangledeshies (sp?) I know, intellectually, that nothing can be done, they are the leading edge of (just to pick a number out of a hat) a 4 billion die off. Again, nothing can be done, am I a hypocrite for not doing anything? I would say "no" because the damage was done a long time ago we are only now feeling the pain. Sitting at the sports bar with my friend NC, we will do nothing different.
NC will, by his nature feel no compassion for those dying, he will feel no pain, he may even feel justified. He may tell me 3 months ago I joined this site called PeakOil.com and said all those (insert racial pejoritive term here) would be dying and I don't care. I got 6 months of spam in the basement."

Are the people of South East Asia people? Is it human to feel compassion when fellow people suffer? If the two answers are "yes" than C is better engaged with truth than NC. I can not prove that it is better to be engaged with truth anymore than I can prove it is better to be sober than high on opium but I believe it is better to be engaged with the world as it is, (filled with human suffering that I acknowledge as such) than deluded (by feeling as if they are not really people or by some chance of birth they are less deserving of my hamburger and awesome blossom than I).

It also comes down to recognizing the role of luck. If I were born there, I would be the one either dying or watching my children die. I did nothing to deserve to be here rather than there. I did nothing to choose my parents as opposed to other parents, maybe parents in Asia (in one case) or parents that abused me (forming me into an abuser or one of Ayoob's "dirtbags"). Call it luck, call it providence, whatever it was, I did not choose it. Feeling for others is a way to acknowledge that the "other" could just as well be me.

Concerning the second part of the question (and assuming something productive and meaningful can be done for SH) there are a lot of variables and I'm sure that I cannot address them all. Let me hit a couple of points.

Does C have property rights equal to NC? If so than C should be able to set up tents for the SH (barring any laws or zoning regulations already in place to the opposite). For sure C should be able to write a big check to buy tents and water purification kits or what ever for SH where ever they are.

After that we then have "dueling ego-centricisms." NC goes to the zoning commission to try to limit C's property rights in order to protect his property value or "way of life," C puts pressure on the government to care for SH, using NC's tax dollars and maybe setting up the refugee camp on the prize golf course that was the whole reason for NC spending the 5 million on the house to begin with. We then have to have a debate about the time of people we as a body politic want to be. Do we care for the dispossessed or do we protect golf courses?

There is also the utilitarian question, is it really better for us in the long-term to have SH in one place (where they can be monitored and controlled) or do we let them wander looking for food? NC and C may actually agree on the same action even though for different reasons. Again no difference in behavior, but perhaps it is NC who looks (but only looks) inconsistent even as C looked hypocritical at the sports bar.

Compassion is a state, it is an emotion. I believe it is a connection to truth and, only because I value truth, I believe it is important to retain compassion.

There are other reasons but this post is already to rambling and covers too much ground.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'W')hy would you think that? Seems to me that compassion is the solution to most of our problems.


I do not think that. I was trying to gain something from the previous posts and encouraging the authors to contribute something to the substance of the discussion other than giving voice to whatever trauma it is that they think compassion caused (personified, it seems, in myself) in their past. There is a desire to blame compassion, I want to know why. If an argument can be made I might be convinced.

Apart from a more convincing argument, however, I would argue that it is exploitation of employers which flout the law more than compassion of those who help illegals that has led to the large number of illegal immigrants in this country. It is the exploitation of others that has led to black maleness often being defined in negative terms in the last generation not the compassion of white folk.

Compassion is reactive to a bad situation, it does not profit from suffering but reacts to it. Exploitation, however, profits from war and it profits from cheap labor and it profits from making farmers dependent upon purchased seed and fertilizer as well as many other things that, in the long or short run, create suffering for one group even as it creates profits for another. This too is part of the human condition, I personally do not see how we escape it. What some posters do not understand is that I believe it is possible to have compassion for exploiters as well as the exploited, it is not a zero-sum game.

I participate in the treatment of plenty of the "exploiter class" who lose it all and are found with a gun in their mouth and brought to the psych ward. I also deal with meth heads and various other "dirtbags." They are all people. They all hurt the same when a significant other leaves them. they are all subject to a degree of luck to which I am also subject to. Tomorrow it could be my kids and wife die in a car accident, how can I invalidate their suffering while pretending that only my own is real.

I would disagree, however, that compassion is some type of cure. I agree with many that we will shed at least 4 billion in somewhere between 10-200 years (how is that for playing it safe) and how we feel about it might have some minor effect (maybe my neighbor's kid doesn't die because I help them) but it is not going to change the trend.

That should be enough fodder for a few hours. :) Hopefully I still agree with it when I am better rested. :oops:
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby vetusfirma » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 15:49:01

I think you are confusing pity and fear with compassion.

None of this applies to anybodies family in a car crash.

If you don't want to be treated like a gang banger, don't dress and act like a gang banger.

If you don't want to be treated like a illegal, don't be an illegal.

If you don't want to be a meth head, don't do meth.

But if you do, don't expect me to feel sorry or compassion. Maybe pity, or something else, but not compassion.

You feel compassion for someone who is doing their best and falls down half way through the race. You might help him up, but you don't adopt him. Just get him going again.

I think people who have a great fear of failure are prone to want the whole world to be compassionate just in case they fall down. And because they have huge feeling of inadequateness, they expect their own failure. So the world needs to be a soft and gentle place for them to fall.

What the world is NOT is soft and gentle. Look what the dictators in Burma have just done to their people, and we are letting it happen.

Hummm, I might be passionate about this subject. Learn something new every day.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Ludi » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 15:59:28

What the world "is" depends on where you live, and your perspective. For a person in Burma, it is a harsh place. For me, it is soft and gentle. Because I have been fortunate in life, I see no need to take a harsh attitude toward other people. No one has hurt me, so I see no need to hurt anyone, or wish ill upon others. Ok, not to be a hypocrite - I do wish ill on some others (the mean people). :wink:

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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Iaato » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 16:19:39

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('wisconsin_cur', 'S')o - first point. Are you sure compassion doesn't have a cost, in terms of constraint of actions?
Second point. Is the underlying reason for compassion some set of religious beliefs and standards?

Timely question, Cur. I've been going 'round with this one in my head, too. My daughter sends monthly aid to a child in Africa. It's a quandary; by helping the individual you may aid in condemning the whole group. So, yes, compassion may be problematic in either restraining actions that need to be taken or forcing actions that are only helpful for the recipient of the compassion, and may be detrimental to others. Is compassion underlaid by mores or ethics, or religion? Absolutely. These serve as a cultural genetic code that allow the group (the system) to prosper. Can these compassion values change with a change in the system inputs or goals? Yes, we've seen that historically.

Tex, I usually agree with you, but I've got a problem with the apparent "if it feels good do it" orientation of Harry Browne. The look after yourself philosophy only works in a system where a rising tide is floating all boats, and someone else will look after the needy (if there even are any). I think the arguments for this approach break down in a period of descent. During a period of excess resources, compassion/support for others is not essential for continuation of the community. One can also argue that it is way too easy to have compassion during a period of excess resources; it will be interesting to see how much hypocrisy there really is when people in this country start to become really hungry.

Vetus, I like your point about having too much compassion. And welcome, by the way. Is that a guinea pig????

Good points about having the feeling of compassion versus acting on it. Ludi, you discriminate between compassion and empathy; we were taught the same thing in beginning nursing programs. Sympathy (compassion?) is an emotion where you take in others' emotions/problems and get emotionally involved with them, by projecting your own concerns into the problem. Empathy is a more removed (maybe more Buddhist?) understanding of other peoples' problems without wearing them.

I think the core of this argument is the ethic of caring for the individual versus the community. What's best for the individual is often not what is best for the community. In the long run, the community (the system) will maximize what is best.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby mos6507 » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 16:49:13

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vetusfirma', 'I')t is possible that what some might call compassion is the root of all evil, so to speak.

The root of all evil is not so much compassion, but rather tragedy of the commons, or not being able to intentionally hold back on consumption (of which reproduction is a key component).

Also, compassion means a lot of different things. It's not just the welfare state. Family and friends are going to have greater compassion for eachother than complete strangers. Indigents who would otherwise die if they had to support themselves live through the safety net of their famly's support. How many people are cold hearted enough to cast their own kin into the gutter to fend for themselves? This level of "lifeboat ethics" doesn't kick in unless under extreme pressures that we haven't even begun to approach, like eskimos abandoning their senior citizens.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby Narz » Sun 01 Jun 2008, 20:24:06

Compassion releases brain chemicals that support life, a sense of ease & happiness.

Compassionate people live longer & are healthier & stronger than those who live their lives in fear. And if you truly have no compassion you will live in fear because no one will love you.

A Machiavelli, thinking only of his own advancement, will likely die young, his own undoing.

We are hardwired to care for one another. Simply put, unless you're a true sociopath (rather rare) it isn't natural for you to be disconnected from all others.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby wisconsin_cur » Mon 02 Jun 2008, 03:08:30

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vetusfirma', 'I') think you are confusing pity and fear with compassion.
None of this applies to anybodies family in a car crash.
If you don't want to be treated like a gang banger, don't dress and act like a gang banger.
If you don't want to be treated like a illegal, don't be an illegal.
If you don't want to be a meth head, don't do meth.
But if you do, don't expect me to feel sorry or compassion. Maybe pity, or something else, but not compassion.
You feel compassion for someone who is doing their best and falls down half way through the race. You might help him up, but you don't adopt him. Just get him going again.
I think people who have a great fear of failure are prone to want the whole world to be compassionate just in case they fall down. And because they have huge feeling of inadequateness, they expect their own failure. So the world needs to be a soft and gentle place for them to fall.
What the world is NOT is soft and gentle. Look what the dictators in Burma have just done to their people, and we are letting it happen.
Hummm, I might be passionate about this subject. Learn something new every day.

There are a lot of great responses... let me just respond to these issues in an attempt to further my own thinking.

Pity, fear and compassion: Pity seems to denote a way of looking down on someone, "I pity you" is not something anyone wants to hear. None of us wants pity. Compassion is merely a recognition of a shared humanity.

Re: illegals and meth heads etc... :I could have been born to a poor woman in Chiapas but I wasn't. What is the substantive difference between the young man from Chiapas who, at great risk, goes north to make 10 dollars an hour to work at a meat processor and Bill Gates who drops out of Harvard to start a company? Both take a great risk but they are starting at different places with very different set of possibilities open to them.

The older I get the more I realize that I am so like my parents. I read philosophy and lit like my mom, play practical jokes, build and work like my father and drink coffee like the two of them combined. Did I choose them? No. What if I had been fated to parents who beat each other or used drugs? What if my friends in school had been interested in home grown pharma instead of motorcycles and cars?

I am human. The meth head is human. whatever he or she is capable of, so am I. Just because I made different decisions does not mean that I could not have made the same mistakes they did. My mistakes are different, I have escaped some consequences of my own mistakes by luck. I should not feel superior to anyone else because we are all human.

Yes people make their own choices and they suffer for the choices that they make I can have compassion on their pain without negating the fact that they participated in the creation of that pain.

The world is not soft and gentle, I spend time with people who have been beaten up by the world. That is why we need to have compassion, not because it will make the world any better or different but because feeling compassion is what makes us human living in this hard world. Others may choose to be animals, I insist on being human.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby RedStateGreen » Mon 02 Jun 2008, 21:41:36

It sounds like people are confusing compassion with sentimentality.

Compassion cares for their animals. Sentimentality will starve rather than slaughter them.

Compassion helps others. Sentimentality will help others to the detriment of themselves and their family.

The difference is boundaries. Compassion feels badly for suffering but has boundaries. Sentimentality has no boundaries and no self-protection. It's grandiose and delusional.

For example, I can help my family and friends. I can't help or save the world; that's delusional to think I can as one person. If I can take care of my kids and help feed my family then I've done my part. If I have extra after that then compassion will lead to helping others but the Bible itself says that the one who doesn't take care of his family when he could is worse than an unbeliever.
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Re: The costs, benefits, and impact of Compassion after Peak

Unread postby wisconsin_cur » Mon 02 Jun 2008, 22:06:56

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('RedStateGreen', 'I')t sounds like people are confusing compassion with sentimentality.
Compassion cares for their animals. Sentimentality will starve rather than slaughter them.
Compassion helps others. Sentimentality will help others to the detriment of themselves and their family.
The difference is boundaries. Compassion feels badly for suffering but has boundaries. Sentimentality has no boundaries and no self-protection. It's grandiose and delusional.

Thank you for the addition it is a helpful clarification.
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