by vision-master » Tue 15 Jan 2008, 22:29:51
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('I_Like_Plants', 'S')ittinguy you probably had that $12k in debt back when interest rates were below 10% too - they're 30% and sometimes more these days!
yeah, from my own observations, stuff I've read, other people's accounts of their debt hell, yes, I'd say if you have an year's income in debt, it's time to throw in the towel.
Now, if a year's income was maybe $90k gross, and you have that much debt, the now you're out of work and you'd be lucky to make $30k (as in impossibly lucky) then you're REALLY screwed.
But I'd say the rules of debt are:
(1) Debt no more. Cut up the cards.
(2) Tap your 401k, sell your house, get rid of the car, sell thine cloak and buy a sword, whatever assets you have, they get used to pay down the debt.
(3) A luxury meal shall be a burger off the Dollar Menu at McD's, You will cook at home, you will get to like oats, you will brew your own Maxwell House coffee, you will wear thrift store clothes, you will eat and live Amish to the greatest degree possible. Dabble in a bit of Freeganism if you can.
(4) You will learn who your friends are - almost no one, Poor = Untouchable in the US. You still learn to develop a thick skin and revamp your friends list.
(5) If you can't get out of debt under your own power after doing all of these, LET GO. If you're religious LET GO and LET GOD. You will get a job that's better for your heart and soul if you can, or you will have no job for a while if that's healing. You will not worry about money. You will toot a flute for spare change, learn to tie-dye, hippie it up if you like, And you will declare Bankrupcty which is still your Constitutional right.
And once it is over, you will debt no more. Once it's over you ought to be really REALLY pisses at the banksters and the debt system, no matter how tie-die and hippy you may have become on the outside, and remember, the thing that hurts them the most is to NEVER DEBT AGAIN.
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