Its hard to take people seriously who complain about being "desensitized to violence" and are afraid of being "programmed" by the Transformer movie when they clearly couldn't wait to go to their local movie theater on opening weekend and voluntarily paid 10 bucks to see computer generated robots fight other computer generated robots in the Transformers movie.
If you are so afraid of the movie and its effect on your impressionable mind, then don't go.
Personally, I think its just a typical Hollywood superhero disaster movie
