by rwwff » Sat 30 Sep 2006, 22:52:28
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('ElijahJones', 'I') agree with you statement about peds though. Make it so that a non-parental adult shold not be alone with children. But most ped's find their victims through family ties and many do so by becoming parents.
Different set of problems of course. When you boil the problem down to its essentials you come to the understanding that there is not much you can do to stop a parent from harming their children, at least the first time, and even then winnowing the parent that has made a correctable, teachable mistake, vs, the predator who had the kid in order to inflict suffering upon someone is a difficult trick in and of itself. Seperating a kid from the first will do much more harm to the kid than good; seperating the kid from the latter will save their life.
Definately sucks.
But in the context of this thread, people in positions of power influencing unrelated kids... very stoppable. Joe Average just needs to be taught that it is perfectly acceptable to ask, or be asked, "what are you doing with that kid?"
Example: a year or so ago I was in the park with my daughter, and she just ups and takes off for some unknown reason. I didn't want to stop her exploration or solve her "where am I" puzzle for her, but I didn't want to let her out of my sight; so I spend the next ten minutes stalking her through the park and likely creeping out half the adults present. Only when my daughter had found our van and gotten in, and I then approached the van did any adult even think to confront and ask whats up. I wasn't offended, we told our story, and I thanked her for watching out for our kids. I was happy that one asked, I was more than a little disappointed that more didn't say anything.
This is the result of broken and splintered communities. Everyone's afraid to say anything to anyone. And when confronted, you're almost expected to act offended and outraged. Its something that has to stop, but it won't if people won't say something when the chance comes up.