by quizz » Mon 24 Jul 2006, 09:10:12
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'n')one of her family, father, mother, her sisters, uncles, cousins or her old friends which she grew up with is allowed to talk to her anymore because she left the "Organisation"
That would only occur in 2 circumstances, disassociation or disfellowshipping. The former occurs when you write a letter withdrawing membership and the latter for unrepentant wrongdoing. So it is quite different from being "inactive" in the religion. Also, family members *are* allowed to communicate with them on essential family matters (for example discussing weddings, funerals, care for elderly parent, etc.).
So to explain the difference in brief, the individual has taken a stand *against* what they previously made a decision to do when the became baptized as a Witness (as must be the case here). As such they must be regraded as a spiritual threat to others. For example an unrepentant wrongdoer may be engaging in immorality. So it would be like forbidding your child to play with kids who got into vandalism or did drugs. But one desirable outcome would be to move the individual to see the seriousness of the course they have chosen and turn around.
And, again, the direction is found in the Bible (1 Corinthinan 5:9): "In my letter I wrote you to quit mixing in company with fornicators, not [meaning] entirely with the fornicators of this world or the greedy persons and extortioners or idolaters. Otherwise, you would actually have to get out of the world. But now I am writing you to quit mixing in company with anyone called a brother that is a fornicator or a greedy person or an idolater or a reviler or a drunkard or an extortioner, not even eating with such a man."