by Fergus » Thu 06 Jul 2006, 11:19:21
I know some pple have serious issues with mental health, but the vast majority of pple that have 'issues' are just manufactured. Stress is a real phenomena, but its effects are over medicated and it boils down to the person not being able to control his actions through frustration or rage. Settle down and chill and it will be alright. But pple act out and then think and then go "OMG, what did I just do?". Like thats an excuse.
I have a saying I take with me everywhere, I say it to myself only, sometimes aloud, but whenever I get into a spot that is causing me distress or stress (traffic on a daily basis here in Dallas), I just tell myself 'Go with GOD'. With that, I have preconditioned myself to imagine GOD sitting right next to me, would he approve of me calling that chick on a phone that jut about took out three lanes of traffic a "witch". Would he approve of the way I am about to handle this situation. If I figure he would not be, then I take a step back and ask GOD for advise and the power to chill out. I talk to him like hes my best friend, I yell at him sometimes. Sometimes we laugh together. (I also talk a lot to my mother who I was very close to while she was alive. seems silly, but when I talk to her, sometimes I feel as she is actually helping me, guide me. Maybe its me wanting to believe that, but in any event, it provides a comfort to me. Whatever works for you).
But the point is, I have decided to not loose my cool, take responsibility for my actions. When someone wants to cut in line at the exit ramp, I back off and let him in, cause hes too much of an special and cant wait in line. These special pple, GOD will deal with in his own way and time. It rolls off me like a water on a ducks back.
If more pple would just make a concious decision to not loose control, take responsibility for their actions, we would be a better world, but pple are now conditioned to go to the dr and get a xanax or someother pill to fix all there problems.
Like I say, Know there are legitimate medical conditions that require real medical attention and medication. Maybe even lock up. But 95% of our mental issues are man made and fed by pharmacutical companies. They breed paranoia and mal-contentness. Then they promise a fix for $25.00 a month for the rest of your life (thats if you have insurance).
PS. Theres a booklet I would like to recommend to the community, written by Brother Lawrence in the 1700's, called "The Practice of the presence of GOD". This gave me the idea and tools to condition myself to imagine GOD is sitting next to me in the flesh. It cant hurt you, unless your just dead set against any GOD. In that case, I dont recommend the book to you guys, just the guys that want to learn to stay in control of their emotions and actions.