In writing this, a word came to mind. In English, from the phrase "Way of life", another word, a chinese word,
wei.
My mind often finds words that are relevant and offers them up to me even though most of the time I have to go searching for the meaning of the word. It never fails, for some reason, to present the right word, in the right way.
For example,
Wu Wei is a Taoist principle, or right action, or, taking the right action at the right time as a principle. This is what I mean: this is what we have to do.
For now, there is a lot of knee-jerk reactionary thinking. What will I do? I will do this, I will do that. Oftentimes it seems to fight the flow of nature and life. We do things even though we know they are negative, or bad for the environment, or our own health or mental welfare. We feel propelled, compelled, jerked about. We are in control but not in control.
For many useless extertions, as many trials and preparations
are for Peak Oil or even any daily, routine, or mundane thing, did it not occur to us to simply
not do it? Perhaps that feeling of regret, ruefulness, futility is simply the awareness that we initially had that what we are doing is pointless.
I have a feeling that this is the daily reality for most people.
wei is this?

If we only knew the right thing to do at the right time, I would guess we would not feel this dissonance.
Wu Wei is a good way of life, I would think.
Wu Wei would say, hey- maybe I don't need this, or I don't need that. I don't need to say this, agree to this, be a part of this.
Wu Wei will say "no" as easily and satisfactorily as it will say, "yes".
Wu Wei involves a lot of quiet thinking, reflection, inward mediation. It lets go by slipping out of the grip of thinking that things "must", "are", "or else". It asks questions but is comfortable without knowing an answer. It avoids wrong actions by not doing.
And if it was difficult, I would guess it really wasn't wu wei. Maybe on the path toward understanding it, but not part of its mature embodiment. It is in itself just a reflection of power in simplicity.