by EnergyUnlimited » Mon 27 Jan 2025, 10:01:41
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('theluckycountry', ' ') I'm a loner, I like to get up at 2am for a pushbike ride in dark some days, like to vanish for 2 or 3 days on a motorcycle, like to spend hours or days just doing my own thing absorbed in some hobby.
When young I was a climber. Later we were both climbing (my wife and me). Once children were born climbing was gone.
But now in our 50-thies, once children are adult, we are sometimes climbing again but on easier, recreational routes.
If a lone life suits you and keeps you happy it is great.
But you must have few hobbies and enjoy them. Keeping good health is also very important but to a large degree it is pot luck as we already discussed.
Some lone men can do well like you do - hobbies, total freedom, great bikes etc but as per my observations most don't.
Here in Poland most of lone men over 40 are miserable drunkards, often on their way out. Some of them had women in the past and got screwed up (or they screwed it up) and others are bachelors for life.
I know in person only one life long bachelor who has (as per my believes) successful life. Also many hobbies like you do etc.
Funny enough, he has also a great motorbike and looks a bit tougher than I am even if a bit older
Most of bachelors I know are our customers (we are running tourism related business as you probably already know).
They come during summer and whine, whine and whine even more...
And we have to listen to all this nonsense and health complains (sometimes with explicit details about prostate being chopped off and following loss of ability to keep urine while walking).
They don't have wives or anyone else so they come and complain to us.
Absolutely disgusting.
You see, we do listen to it because we are paid for it and they are our customers spending $$$$ every year, so what we can do?
Children are hardly being born, young people drowning in debt with hardly any discretionary money to spend, plenty of competition etc so every customer is a valuable one...