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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Newfie » Sat 19 Nov 2011, 10:57:45

Ibon,

I hear your point, and I hope you are right, but I fear not.

You ascribe logical associations. My belief is that we don't really work like that, it is not our rational mind that make the decisions but our 'snake brain.'

Sex sells, always has, always will.

There may be variations on the theme, some bumps in the curve, but the old rule will hold true.

The plumber is toast, except when needed, and then she will turn on the charm.

Sorry ladies, not meant to be sexist, same is true for guys.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Whitefang » Sat 19 Nov 2011, 14:53:41

About that Plato dude maybe he tried to say we are but experiencing a bodymind description made out of internal dialogue that makes what we call the world and everything we know, faking solid objectivity.
That dialogue makes us the petty tyrants we seem to be, our person, human pity and indulgence.
Our true nature hidden beneeth a spasm of forgetfullness, cozy boring immortal humanity.
We are inorganic life first, then the handy fixation on that spot of self pity, a body of vibrating feelings in worlds of energy.
Blablabla.................

Socrates was the one who probably really saw and understood we life two lives at once, Plato had skill to turn some into word.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 18:22:16

I think the plumber vs hedge fund guy is a mistake; they are never in competition, ever. The hedge fund guy is never going to associate with the girls that would be mixing at the bar with the plumber and his cohort. The question for the hedge fund crowd is, does the girl from William and Mary's with a master's in neoclassical basket weaving, bright, attractive, and entirely feminine in her every breathing moment prefer the display of the Porsche and hand tailored business suit, or does she start to prefer a more subdued expression of power and competence? Similarly, does the hedge fund bachelor start to prefer a less ostentatious display of femininity along with perhaps a dash of professional competence?

Second verse, same as the first for the plumber guy... does the bar babe start to prefer the plumber over the insurance agent? Does a middle class male peer showing up in a vette thrill or worry her (financially). Is her first instinct to want a ride, or to wonder if her male friend is about to get hosed by an unpayable car note...
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby vision-master » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 18:49:48

lol - agent is into bling bling......
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 18:54:00

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'l')ol - agent is into bling bling......


I can write it, but I'm not into it.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby vision-master » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 19:16:58

an ugly as heck. :)
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 19:35:40

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'a')n ugly as heck. :)


Yeah yeah, neither of us ever placed in beauty or popularity contests.
The people who did, in our class, have ended up waiting tables for a living; so I'm not sure that was such a bad result after all.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby vision-master » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 19:37:19

What's wrong with waiting tables?
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby The Practician » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 19:41:58

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Roy', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I')'m a little disturbed that I can not think of what the middle class answer to this question is...


Paid off cars that are more modest than the lowest paid employees at his job even if he is middle mgmt, small modest house, brings his lunch rather than going out every day like his peers, wears the same old clothes (not threadbare-classic styles) rather than buying the newest style every season, same old watch rather than the newest 20lb style, same old computer rather than the latest hottest Mactop, boring old phone rather than the latest iphone/droid.... in short: pragmatic and not so concerned with what others think of his possessions. Conspicuous consumption is not his bailiwick, he makes decent money but he's just trying to live frugally, save something for the future and live debt free.

There are a very few of those where I work out of a workforce of over 100.

I look around and I see most people who make decent money are the antithesis of the paragraph above. I don't fit in with them, AT ALL. I see that they are intelligent, but they are willfully ignorant (who in their right mind still banks with the TBTF like BOA? many people I associate with on a daily basis) and who have full faith in the .gov, the MSM, and our system as it exists right now.

That makes me think negative thoughts. Those folks, and they are the majority, don't want things to change, like to pretend everything's fine (it is because they 'got theirs'), and don't want to hear anything they consider 'negative' like topics discussed on this forum. They believe then next president elect is going to do something different, they still believe in the political system, they call the Tea Party 'teabaggers' and they call OWS 'a bunch of dirty stinking hippies'.

In short, they are about as detached from reality and brainwashed as any German that lived in Nazi Germany if not more so.

Being aware and awake and seeing the willful ignorance, denial, and the upper classes clinging to propaganda IS depressing can can precipitate a lot of negative thoughts.

Somebody on here recommended 'Sacred Demise' by Carolyn Baker. Read it and it helped me a bit. Her central theme IMO was that we should accept that collapse is inevitable, let go of the anger, and think about what we are grateful for, rather than what is pissing us off.

I'm trying but it is difficult when I'm actually part of the machine I so despise.


Preach it. I live live under somewhat different circumstances than this, but the analysis rings true at all levels of society. My life experience has not been insular, I have dealt with people of many different socio- economic backgrounds on a reasonably intimate level, from upper "middle" class to the destitute, and everything in between. I have learned much, but one thing I have learned is a special kind of spite for a certain element of the middle classes, The aspirationals. I am going to come right out and admit that a part of this comes from what a critic of my worldview could be excused for describing as envy. I just can't bring myself to do it, especially post 2008. I came very close to buying in leading up to to the meltdown, but boy am I glad I didn't. The aspirational class, the class that needs a "brighter" economic future, and is willing to believe and pursue that future by any means possible, has to be one of the most dangerous places to be in a post peak oil world, not to mention a dange those of us who would rather accept a lower material standard of living than a loss of freedom.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 19:55:55

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'W')hat's wrong with waiting tables?


I'd rather scrub toilets for a living. Nothing is *wrong* with either of course as a job, but it wasn't what I had in mind for my career.

Like a few million others, I'm busy building little bits of your silly future singularity, more or less. I don't know why you think it'll be so wonderful, energy will probably price average people out of the ability to meaningfully participate anyway. If it make's it into full existence before the death of the grid, it'll just shunt most people off into being just the same mindless consumers of mindless content that they are today. Billions of impotent whispers huddled beneath the power of the one and the abiding loyalty of their retainer 20s.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Ibon » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 20:23:22

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', 'I') think the plumber vs hedge fund guy is a mistake; they are never in competition, ever.


Acknowledged that we are now a two class system but to say never ever is a bit extreme. The plumber is not yet an untouchable!

And in 10 years the female hedgefund manager who lost her job after the next wave of economic contraction might choose a Chinese plumber because all those excess males in China might be looking for 3rd world (American) brides on the internet.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Sun 20 Nov 2011, 21:23:56

Not passing on Ibon's comment (requires more thought, like usual)... Just bumped on an article that probably won't keep its comments the same for long, just about Prince Harry in Vegas, apparently lost $300 at the blackjack table and got free drinks out of it... That's all fine and normal for a young man having fun in Vegas, but a reader comment was very interesting...

C Patience Summers: "He only lost $300 gambling, huh? Not bad for a rich kid. RESPONSIBLE".

She does have a pic on the profile, but you can't really trust those, but the words are clear enough. She's impressed by him having money, and *NOT* burning through it.

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http://www.people.com/people/package/article/0,,20395222_20547278,00.html
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Newfie » Mon 21 Nov 2011, 08:59:28

In Greece and Rome the patricians had slaves. Here they have bankers and waiters and plumbers. I/O control. :-D

We all engage a bit in this human slavery charade, some more some less. Not pure evil but just another way to think of things, another facet of the view port.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Tue 22 Nov 2011, 16:20:48

I do suppose there could be some mixing, a stunning, pleasant, feminine lower-middle class woman could easily enough bump into a rock'in hedge fund manager at a concert or high end dance club. I doubt the odds of a permanent relationship would be very good though.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ibon', 'A')nd in 10 years the female hedgefund manager who lost her job after the next wave of economic contraction might choose a Chinese plumber because all those excess males in China might be looking for 3rd world (American) brides on the internet.


You're probably just being sarcastic here, but the divide in China between those with power and wealth and those without is every bit as potent as it is in the US; and there's even less of a middle.

[sexism alert]
Besides, what Chinese guy in his right mind would look to the United States for a mail-order bride? Ukraine is just a train ride away, if they're looking for busty, light skinned game; and they don't come with delusions of an "American Dream".
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Sun 11 Dec 2011, 19:01:11

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ibon', 'I')n times of cheap energy with growth and abundance, the most attractive mate is the one with the most conspicuous consumption and bling.


I tried an experiment. The results were depressing.

I slipped on the "bling", went to the grocery store, and bought some fruit and generic guy snacks.

Apparently my 5 pounds of groceries required the labor of three women to bag and hand to me...
And I'm definitely no where near good enough looking to merit such attention.

Dis is looking grim.
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