by MadScientist » Sun 31 Aug 2008, 21:29:21
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Is it possible someone could come through a life threatening disaster and have another perspective on it? Could they see it as something that they do not want to repeat, especially annually? Could it be something that did not teach them new skills or appreciation for life but chronic pain (physical or mental)?
Would you pass moral or other judgment on that person who sees such things as something to be avoided?
It's called domestication.
If you grow a plant indoors and then stick it outside what happens? It usually gets wrecked because it hasnt grown strong from the adversity of living outside. Its stalk is weak, etc.
I'm sure most people would view a disaster as something they never want to repeat. That is beside the point though.
here's a
post of mine from '04 that might be more clear :
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Quote:
"We must remember that one man is much the same as another,
and that he is best who is trained in the severest school."
Thucydides, Great Peloponnesian War (431-404 B.C.)
Having walked the yellow footprints in San Diego, I can appreciate this quote. If you have fought or fled for your life or gone days without food or shelter, chances are you do also.
Many havent though. They have gone through life with no real trials, no severity. They are domesticated to the point where they are dependant on society/big government for everything- even hope.
If you have lived a sheltered life, as many Americans and Europeans have, you tend to despair at the thought of extreme severity. I see it repeatedly in this forum- "I'd rather die than face that." People in sheltered societies also tend to place too much value on the need for shelter, in all its forms.
If you find yourself feeling helpless, consider this:
Even though you may be completely domesticated, you are a hell of a lot tougher than you believe. Ask any vet back from the warzone if you dont believe me.
Fortitude comes through experience. Seek adversity before it seeks you. Discipline yourself in the wild. The moment when your life is at stake is no time for questioning resolve.
Quote:
Nature
is no sentimentalist--
does not cosset
or pamper us.
We must see
that the world
is rough and surly,
and will not mind
drowning
a man or a woman,
but swallows
your ships
like a grain of dust.
The cold,
inconsiderate
of persons,
tingles your blood,
benumbs your feet,
freezes a man
like an apple.
The diseases,
the elements,
fortune,
gravity,
lightning,
respect not persons.
-- Ralph W. Emerson
1803-1882
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