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Death, how do you feel about it?

Scaces the hell out of me
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It's inevitable, but some fear
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No fear, believe in after life
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No fear, why worry about what you can't control?
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Looking forward to it, life sucks
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Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby mmasters » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 20:03:26

Prepare to meet your maker! :twisted:
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby Ludi » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 20:05:18

Some fear, mostly about pain during the dying process. Not afraid of being dead, though, as far as I can tell.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby hope_full » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 20:33:26

I'm 50-something and a few years ago, I feared death - a LOT.

And then, last month, someone I love dearly passed on suddenly (in his late 40s) and that's really rocked my world. Funny thing about getting older is that you start adding up how many people have already passed on and I think that kinda takes the sting out of death. My elder relatives are all gone (including my beloved Mother) and I've buried many friends. Maybe that's nature's way of making death a little more tolerable.

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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby Cloud9 » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 21:07:50

When the lights go out there is no pain. There is nothing. There is nothing to fear. Been there done that.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby CarlinsDarlin » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 21:24:39

I don't necessarily fear death. Not looking forward to it, mind you, but I don't fear it. Like Ludi, the thought of "dying" scares me more than death. And, worrying about those I would leave behind. And like hope_full, having lost several family members and friends myself, I just wait my turn. I have faith I'll see them again.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby BigTex » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 21:28:31

I'm about equally troubled by the death of our entire species and my own personal death.

I try to keep the two in sort of an "equilibrium of doom".
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby killJOY » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 21:40:55

Just yesterday...

I was carrying our brand new calf from the field where it was born back to the barn. As I was passing the grave of our old horse, which we had put down a month ago, I noticed movement--

I poked with a stick--

There was this liquid bubbling, and a vile smell. Flies.

I came back later and noticed a huge sinkhole, with a hurricane of flies coming out of it. The horse carcass was boiling in the heat. It was awful.

I dumped a can of lime into the hole and then raked dirt into it to stop the smell.

"That's me," I thought.

I hate it.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby Narz » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 21:41:19

None of the above. Some combo of 3-5 though (except I don't believe life sucks).
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby HEADER_RACK » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 21:54:27

Fuck it !!
Nothing is more dangerous than a man with nothing left to lose but has everything left to gain.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby CarlinsDarlin » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 22:05:01

Tough experience, KillJoy. :cry: We lost a beloved family dog a few years ago. We have a "pet cemetery" on our land where all of our family pets are buried, under a small grove of trees. I went by many times and re-mounded the dirt as it started sinking. I understand how you feel. It's never easy.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby mos6507 » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 23:05:08

I have a list planned out of things I want to do in my lifetime. If I get to them all, I'll feel a lot better in the end. So for me it's all about climbing that next hill and trying not to get stuck in a rut (like arguing with higonegro).
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby Enoch » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 23:15:37

anybody seen that video about a brain doctor who has a stroke and could have died?
everybody I mention it too has seen it.
she made dying, having a stroke seem very pleasant.

after watching that video i thought a stroke might be a good way to go.

maybe it would be a stroke of luck?
:lol:

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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby FreedomSlave » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 23:51:45

I think I'll wait as long as I can to figure it out...
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby lettered_olive » Tue 08 Jul 2008, 23:52:11

At the moment, it's not so much death, but dying while trapped in a hospital that I fear. This prospect really brings out my latent claustrophobia. So, post-PO, I'll have one less thing to worry about!
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby PenultimateManStanding » Wed 09 Jul 2008, 00:03:04

It's not mine that worries me.
Turn those Machines back On! - Don Ameche in Trading Places
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby Precipice » Wed 09 Jul 2008, 00:58:55

Some times I fear it, sometimes I feel eerily peaceful about it, and sometimes I both fear it and feel eerily peaceful about it.

I think what really adds to the fear is the sheer incomprehensibility (especially from an emotional pov) of going unconscious and then never waking up ever again.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby eastbay » Wed 09 Jul 2008, 01:12:07

Avoid 'bad' and practice 'good' and you'll have nothing to be concerned about. :)
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby hardtootell » Wed 09 Jul 2008, 01:13:13

It's a part of life. I like to think of it as "the great liberation"
w/o it where would we put all the old folks? :)
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby wisconsin_cur » Wed 09 Jul 2008, 01:13:42

#4

How one feels about it is irrelevant.
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Re: Death, how do you feel about it?

Unread postby Precipice » Wed 09 Jul 2008, 02:27:33

I think Bill and Ted had the best response to the finitude of conscious existence:

Bill: "Be Excellent to Each Other"
Ted: "Party On Dudes!"
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