[jasonraymondson]

prostitutes are the only honest people.

[PrairieMule]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('RedStateGreen', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Tanada', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('RedStateGreen', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AlexdeLarge', '
')Recession: When the money goes, so does the toxic wife

[Grifter]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jasonraymondson', 'p')rostitutes are the only honest people.

[jasonraymondson]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('hope_full', 'J')ason, you must be very young.

[Ferretlover]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jasonraymondson', 'h')aha, but seriously:
1) you know what I look like
2) Whether you like it or not, the ladder system is the truth.
3) The only people who claim the other, are either not realists, or they are butt ugly
4) When you first meet someone, the first thing that goes through you head is not (Wow, what a great personality)
While this is not fair, and life would be so much better if people were judged based on the their intellectual acumen, and giant heart. This is not the case, this will never be the case.
We are visual animals.

[mos6507]

You can be bitter or morally indignant all you want, but in the end you can't shame or reason someone into changing their taste in the opposite sex. There is nothing democratic or egalitarian about dating nor should there be. I don't want to feel compelled to date someone that doesn't turn me on and I don't expect women to lower their standards on my behalf either. Who wants to be the other person's charity case?

[mos6507]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ferretlover', '
')I think men are based more on visual than women are.

[Grifter]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', 'W')ho wants to be the other person's charity case?

[Ferretlover]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', 'Y')ou can be bitter or morally indignant all you want,

[da23]

I hope when Nibiru goes tits up in 2012 we ALL wake up with downs syndrome.

This world has lost the love they have.

[mos6507]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ferretlover', '
')Just out of curiousity, are the standards you have set for yourself the same as you have set (as a parent) for your child? (If I am being too personal, you do not need to respond. )

[hope_full]

Jason said,
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'Y')ea, we get it... you are a lesbian

[AlexdeLarge]

Gold Digger

[Roy]

First I Look at the Purse

Works both ways I guess.

From The Contours...

Contours 'First I look at the purse' lyrics:

What does every man look at first?

Some fellas look at the eyes
Some fellas look at the nose
Some fellas look at the size
Some fellas look at the clothes

I don't care if her eyes are red
I don't care if her nose is long
I don't care if she's underfed
I don't care if her clothes are wrong
Why? 'cause first I look at the purse!

Some fellas look at the smile they wear
Some fellas look at the legs that's all
Some fellas look at the style of their hair
Some fellas want the waist to be small.

I don't care if the teeth are big
I don't care if the legs are thin
I don't care if her hair is a wig
Why waste time lookin' at the waistline?
Why? 'cause first I look at the purse!

A woman can be as fine as can be,
with kisses sweet as honey
But that don't mean a thing to me
If she ain't got no money
'cause if the purse is fat....that's where it's at.

Some fellas look at the way they walk
The way they swing and sway
Some fellas like the way they talk
and dig the things they say.

But I don't care if she wobbles like a duck
and talks with a lisp
I still think I'm in good luck
if the dollar bills are crisp
Why?..cause first I look at the purse!

First I look at the purse!
Tried to tell you.
yeah yeah yeah
Justice can be sweet as hell
But I want me some money
She can be covered with a rash
Long as she's got some cash.
I want a big size cut
I don't want one suit
Like a Hollywood star.

[WildRose]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('hope_full', '
')
We have become such a visual culture that almost nothing else matters but looks. 90% of the people who buy and read self-improvement books are women. Most women I know are wearing themselves out, devoting hours each day to eating healthy and exercising well and repeating positive mantras and meditating and constantly striving to better themselves. Beauty and beauty related endeavors take up so much space on their emotional hard drive that there's little room for really important things. Beauty is the new enslavement of women. Keeps us busy and distracted and I believe - keeps many women from realizing their full potential.

[mos6507]

You want to stop putting on makeup and let your armpit and leg hair grow in? Feel free, as long as you're content to sit home with a bowl of icecream on Saturday night. Same deal with guys who think they will impress a date talking in his rusted out AMC Gremlin about how he will one day upgrade from fry cook to manager at the local McDonalds. There is really nothing fair or egalitarian about the rules of attraction and anyone who expects otherwise is living in a dreamworld. We're no better than peacocks strutting around trying to impress eachother. It's just that we're saddled with brains that, upon reflection, can understand how patently stupid it all is. Yet we go ahead with it anyway.

[JoeSixPack]

Women control everything. They are responsible for all of the advertising dollars that Americans spend every year.

Men do not ask you to doll up the way you do. You are being controlled by magazines, newspapers, and television shows and these in turn are controlled by females.

You need to fix what is wrong with your sex, and stop blaming men for your need to look a certain way. We don't ask you to do anything.

You set the standard for beauty and what men should expect from a woman.

All we want is our barcalounger, the remote control, and occasional attention paid to our penis.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('WildRose', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('hope_full', 'W')e have become such a visual culture that almost nothing else matters but looks. 90% of the people who buy and read self-improvement books are women. Most women I know are wearing themselves out, devoting hours each day to eating healthy and exercising well and repeating positive mantras and meditating and constantly striving to better themselves. Beauty and beauty related endeavors take up so much space on their emotional hard drive that there's little room for really important things. Beauty is the new enslavement of women. Keeps us busy and distracted and I believe - keeps many women from realizing their full potential.

[WildRose]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', 'Y')ou want to stop putting on makeup and let your armpit and leg hair grow in? Feel free, as long as you're content to sit home with a bowl of icecream on Saturday night. Same deal with guys who think they will impress a date talking in his rusted out AMC Gremlin about how he will one day upgrade from fry cook to manager at the local McDonalds. There is really nothing fair or egalitarian about the rules of attraction and anyone who expects otherwise is living in a dreamworld. We're no better than peacocks strutting around trying to impress eachother. It's just that we're saddled with brains that, upon reflection, can understand how patently stupid it all is. Yet we go ahead with it anyway.

[Revi]

I think that there is a social aspect to the whole attraction thing. People advertise who they are by their clothes and their cars. There are women who are attracted to the Carhartt set, and there are those who love men who wear suits.

I think it's hard to hold a family together who ever you are once the breadwinner loses his/her job. If it happens to me, I don't know if my wife will go with me to the places I may need to go to find work. She doesn't like to travel much. We may just stay here and eke a living.

[Grifter]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', 'Y')ou want to stop putting on makeup and let your armpit and leg hair grow in? Feel free, as long as you're content to sit home with a bowl of icecream on Saturday night. Same deal with guys who think they will impress a date talking in his rusted out AMC Gremlin about how he will one day upgrade from fry cook to manager at the local McDonalds. There is really nothing fair or egalitarian about the rules of attraction and anyone who expects otherwise is living in a dreamworld. We're no better than peacocks strutting around trying to impress eachother. It's just that we're saddled with brains that, upon reflection, can understand how patently stupid it all is. Yet we go ahead with it anyway.