There was an orchard in Port Perry, a town just north of where I grew up. It had the best apples, Macs, Spys, Russets. We had a couple apple trees at home but Mom would pick up the other varieties from them... Northern Spy for apple pie... We were overseas for a couple years, when we came back in '76 I went up to the orchard. It was now a tract house development. They called it Orchard Heights and left one apple tree in each back yard.
There is a word from philosophy that I like, haecceity; this-ness, the thing in itself. Authenticity; consumer culture tries to copy and market it but it is the one thing that can't be faked. It's what Christopher Alexander was talking about in "The Timeless Way of Building". It's the quality without a name that Pirsig talks about in "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance".
Another example; we were shopping for vegetables, I bought some celery root from a supermarket. The poor girl at the checkout didn't even know what it was. Then we went over to Kensington market, it's not shiny or fancy, but the guy we bought our vegetables from owned the stall. We talked about the quality of his vegetables and the exchange was between two people, not a consumer and a corporation.
Last winter I had trouble with water in the fuel system of my tractor. I phoned a neighbour and he told me how to purge the lines and change the filters. It worked. When I thanked him he said why are you thanking me I didn't do anything. As a farmer he didn't confuse talking about something with doing something.
I'm not surprised that people living in modern cities go insane with sex and drugs and suicide. There is no there there. The layer of noise from modern life is distracting.
The real world is still here. Every year I try to go canoeing in Algonquin Park. Being with the water and rocks and trees reminds me of what is; haecceity.
An article by Pierre Trudeau on canoeing:
Exhaustion and Fulfillment: The Ascetic in a Canoe