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Do most here understand the true dimensions of human pain ?

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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby btu2012 » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 19:01:47

Good riddance there again. :lol:
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby americandream » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 19:10:38

[quote="btu2012"]Good riddance there again. :lol:[/quote

Err.....anyone ever tell you, you're a meany?
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby btu2012 » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 19:19:07

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Can't give up, can you ?
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby threadbear » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 19:43:09

I wonder about torture.If someone ever seriously hurt someone I cared about, without just cause and ENJOYED it, I'd kill them. I wouldn't equivocate, reflect, or ponder. The person would be dispatched very quickly. I may even enjoy killing them, like I was fulfilling a moral imperative. If for some reason, I was unable to kill them, I would have to punch them until my arms hurt. But actual torture? I don't think so.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby btu2012 » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 20:01:00

I agree with you threadbear. Torture is never justified.

However killing is sometimes justified, for example in self-defense.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby threadbear » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 20:11:24

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('btu2012', 'I') agree with you threadbear. Torture is never justified.

However killing is sometimes justified, for example in self-defense.


I'm really baffled by women who have been repeatedly beaten by their husbands and end up dead. The pattern seems to be, they get a separation, and a restraining order, but their husband/boyfriend continues to stalk them. The first you hear about it is the man has broken into her home, through the window one night and murdered her, but this is after months or years of stalking, and breaking into her home. If it was me, I'd get a gun, lie in wait, and would actually enjoy blowing hubby to smithereens. The attitude, "Oh, I could just NEVER kill anyone," seems overly squeamish, and actually a bit cowardly to me.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby threadbear » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 20:15:39

Oh...one more thing. I saw part of this terrible movie, The Hostel, about vacationers in Eastern Europe who are tricked into being tortured to death at a kind of Club Dead for sadists. I couldn't watch the torture scenes, so it was a little difficult to piece together what was happening, but just caught enough to be horrified at the prospect that anyone would watch this and enjoy it.

My question is, if people who relish witnessing misery were culled from the general population, would a genetic modification take place. If it did take place could the gene or genes responsible have any survival value, could they express differently or could they be colinked to some other trait? Could we lose something valuable at the same time?
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby wisconsin_cur » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 20:25:09

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('threadbear', 'O')h...one more thing. I saw part of this terrible movie, The Hostel, about vacationers in Eastern Europe who are tricked into being tortured to death at a kind of Club Dead for sadists. I couldn't watch the torture scenes, so it was a little difficult to piece together what was happening, but just caught enough to be horrified at the prospect that anyone would watch this and enjoy it.

My question is, if people who relish witnessing misery were culled from the general population, would a genetic modification take place. If it did take place could the gene or genes responsible have any survival value, could they express differently or could they be colinked to some other trait? Could we lose something valuable at the same time?


That would assume that it was genetic instead of a learned behavior. I don't think I inherieted a Marx brothers gene that makes me like their movies, I don't think I was born with an ironic gene that makes me relish the ironic. Where as I have a grandparents that do not even understand irony and my wife sits with a confused look on her face when I subject her to the Marx brothers.

On another (but more closely related) issue. Sexual perps. I have spent the last 10 years working with them off and on. This is not to say that all victims will become perps, only that perps were also victims.

We may not understand the deep psych damage done by the things we experience but whether it be torture or raping children i don't think the human source is genetic... there is some damage in that head through what it has experienced.

Can't prove it I guess... but I'm pretty convinced. For whatever that is worth.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby btu2012 » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 20:42:29

It's really tough to answer either way. We don't seem to know for sure if psychopathy is inborn or acquired.

What we do know is that certain people are a serious danger to others, so we can take measures to identify them and limit the damage which they can do.

It has been my experience that those attracted to extreme ideologies or extremist "religious" positions tend to have some personality disorder. I suspect that this serves as a sort of camouflage or sometimes outer expression of their problem.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby threadbear » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 20:48:51

I actually think relishing other's pain could be partly genetic, and perhaps that trait qualifies one as a sociopath--which is thought to have some physical cause, be it genetic or early brain damage. Perhaps it is an inclination that lies dormant and atrophies if not triggered by events that occur early on.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby threadbear » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 20:53:13

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('btu2012', 'I')t's really tough to answer either way. We don't seem to know for sure if psychopathy is inborn or acquired.

What we do know is that certain people are a serious danger to others, so we can take measures to identify them and limit the damage which they can do.

It has been my experience that those attracted to extreme ideologies or extremist "religious" positions tend to have some personality disorder. I suspect that this serves as a sort of camouflage or sometimes outer expression of their problem.


I've noticed the same thing. I think too that people sometimes find it easier to hem in their own extreme impulses if they construct a strict abusive pseudo parent to control them., in the form of a God. It's too overwhelming and difficult for them to develop the necessary self control and understanding of self to just lean on self discipline.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby americandream » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 21:56:03

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('btu2012', 'I')t's really tough to answer either way. We don't seem to know for sure if psychopathy is inborn or acquired.

What we do know is that certain people are a serious danger to others, so we can take measures to identify them and limit the damage which they can do.

It has been my experience that those attracted to extreme ideologies or extremist "religious" positions tend to have some personality disorder. I suspect that this serves as a sort of camouflage or sometimes outer expression of their problem.


Your tendency to label those you disagree with, with labels such as "personality disorder", "psychopath" etc, is rather amusing given your seemingly noble sentiments....the high art of pseudo liberal subterfuge to the nth degree.

A practice perfected with exquisite clarity in those noble souls in the plethora of "humanitarian" NGO's, new labour movements, the new age, anti-globalists and other assorted travellers so busily engaged in manicuring global capitalism's footprints from the west to the third world, from the refugee camps of Haiti to the prestigious trading pits of the NYSE.

And all the while the silence over Guantanamo is deafening....whilst we contemplate todays diet of everyone else's torture, personality defects, psychiatric disorders, etc, etc...everything BUT our own culpability!

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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby wisconsin_cur » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 22:09:11

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('americandream', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('btu2012', 'I')t's really tough to answer either way. We don't seem to know for sure if psychopathy is inborn or acquired.

What we do know is that certain people are a serious danger to others, so we can take measures to identify them and limit the damage which they can do.

It has been my experience that those attracted to extreme ideologies or extremist "religious" positions tend to have some personality disorder. I suspect that this serves as a sort of camouflage or sometimes outer expression of their problem.


Your tendency to label those you disagree with, with labels such as "personality disorder", "psychopath" etc, is rather amusing given your seemingly noble sentiments....the high art of pseudo liberal subterfuge to the nth degree.

A practice perfected with exquisite clarity in those noble souls in the plethora of "humanitarian" NGO's, new labour movements, the new age, anti-globalists and other assorted travellers so busily engaged in manicuring global capitalism's footprints from the west to the third world, from the refugee camps of Haiti to the prestigious trading pits of the NYSE.

And all the while the silence over Guantanamo is deafening....whilst we contemplate todays diet of everyone else's torture, personality defects, psychiatric disorders, etc, etc...everything BUT our own culpability!

Hahaha


The topic is human pain. I think we can all talk about the different aspects of pain without denigrating other types of pain.

If this starts to get personal please take it to the Hall of Flames.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby btu2012 » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 22:22:11

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('threadbear', 'I')'m really baffled by women who have been repeatedly beaten by their husbands and end up dead.


There is some sort of codependency in such relationships, or maybe a Stockholm syndrome. People can get used to being abused.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby btu2012 » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 22:24:54

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('threadbear', 'I')'ve noticed the same thing. I think too that people sometimes find it easier to hem in their own extreme impulses if they construct a strict abusive pseudo parent to control them., in the form of a God. It's too overwhelming and difficult for them to develop the necessary self control and understanding of self to just lean on self discipline.


Yes. The marker of fake religion is the absence of love. The same applies to ideologies of hate or selfishness.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby americandream » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 22:33:50

"What we do know is that certain people are a serious danger to others, so we can take measures to identify them and limit the damage which they can do."

Love....in the context of the above rather vague comments can mean anything to anyone. Was it love that motivated Hitler to identify "them"...the mentally ill, the jews, the bolsheviks, gypsies.

Attributing emotional factors to unpleasant social outcomes to the exclusion of objectively consistent economic facts can be extremely dangerous and reduce to a sham what might well have been nobly inspired objectives.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby Revi » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 22:48:59

People get stuck in abusive relationships. Hell could be right next door, or down the street from you. That's why the safe house is so important. Most people in abusive relationships are killed when they try to leave it.

I don't envy the job of the policeman who is called to a domestic violence case.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby btu2012 » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 22:52:28

Me neither. And it's sometimes hard to know who the abuser is.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby threadbear » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 23:06:10

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Revi', 'P')eople get stuck in abusive relationships. Hell could be right next door, or down the street from you. That's why the safe house is so important. Most people in abusive relationships are killed when they try to leave it.

I don't envy the job of the policeman who is called to a domestic violence case.

I can understand how this happens and sympathize with women stuck with an oddball they're afraid of, for any number of reasons. What confuses me is women who have made the break, are independent, but still live in fear, but won't buy a firearm, because they say they don't like violence. I can't imagine this kind of passive reaction.
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Re: The true dimensions of pain

Unread postby americandream » Thu 19 Jun 2008, 23:24:43

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('threadbear', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Revi', 'P')eople get stuck in abusive relationships. Hell could be right next door, or down the street from you. That's why the safe house is so important. Most people in abusive relationships are killed when they try to leave it.

I don't envy the job of the policeman who is called to a domestic violence case.

I can understand how this happens and sympathize with women stuck with an oddball they're afraid of, for any number of reasons. What confuses me is women who have made the break, are independent, but still live in fear, but won't buy a firearm, because they say they don't like violence. I can't imagine this kind of passive reaction.


Possibly a lot of that has to do with deep conditioning imploring fidelity until "death doth us part". Added to that are the gender and other specific patterns of behaviour that are inculcated into us from our early childhood years and breaking these ingrained patterns of thought, self-destructive as they may appear, are often next to impossible.

In essence, many of these relationships are based on poverty, social conditioning and mutual dependancy....one does not see too many of these sorts of toxic arrangements in the likes of the Hollywood set, do we?
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