by savethehumans » Wed 20 Apr 2005, 22:58:40
Hang on, my friend. Day by day. Seek out and appreciate things and people which/who DON'T depend on oil & gas to access. Learn basic stuff like home gardening, canning, and passive solar methods. Ride a bike and mass transit. Read up on P.O., global warming, climate change, and how to adapt to a simpler, elbow-grease life. Start a library of these books--people in your circle are gonna need to read 'em, too--and sooner than you think.
The shock and fear never REALLY go away, of course--how could they? EVERYTHING'S gonna change! But you do get to where you can act upon it in preparation (which helps the "what to do?" woes). Seeing the absurdity of the last era (and you will) does produce some dark, wry, tongue-in-cheek humor in you--you'll get like us, I promise. You have to, or you'll go mad! Working your way toward perspective is the key thing. Keeping this NOT secret of the near future in and around you, day by day, it becomes less extraordinary and more a part of your life, like breathing. That knot in your stomach will ease a bit, even though, as you've said, EVERYTHING, EVERY event, EVERY moment will be seen through the lens of P.O. from now on.
Talking here does help. Developing basic skills not only helps, but gives you something to do besides fret. (Though I fret over my carrot sprouts; seems new weeds sprout up around them EVERY BLASTED DAY....) Have friends and family around. You really won't be able to talk to them about P.O. (man, do we all know THAT!), but you can help them help themselves (and spend more time with you) using other tactics. Like, "I'm growing some veggies in the back yard to save money at the grocery. It's kind of neat. Wanna help? I'll give you a share of the crops!" That kind of thing. Someday, all too soon, they'll be thanking you for that....
Just therapeutic to write these suggestions to you. Welcome to our angst-ridden, determined-to-get-through-this tribe!!