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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Ludi » Tue 16 Feb 2010, 20:52:01

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '
')Which models are these?



The band aka "tribe." See Godesky essays referenced above.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Loki » Tue 16 Feb 2010, 21:15:41

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '
')Which models are these?



The band aka "tribe." See Godesky essays referenced above.


So not "matriarchy" or "patriarchy," but a return to more traditional forms of social organization? I agree, if this is what you mean.

I think the return of the extended family is almost certainly in our future ("our"=Americans and Europeans). After all, that's what bands and tribes really are, just extended families. I very strongly suspect that intentional communities will continue to fail, as they have for decades, but family will be strengthened by our economic decline. Blood is thicker than ideology.

Accompanying this return to more traditional forms of social organization may very well be a limited return to separate spheres for men and women. This is not patriarchy, it's simply separate spheres.

Your other point regarding men and our relative expendability is also spot on. Is that the longest post you've ever made :-D
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Ludi » Tue 16 Feb 2010, 21:29:01

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '
')So not "matriarchy" or "patriarchy," but a return to more traditional forms of social organization? I agree, if this is what you mean.


What I mean is the return to the egalitarianism of the band society - men and women with equal rights, power, and social authority. However one wants to phrase it.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', ' ')I very strongly suspect that intentional communities will continue to fail, as they have for decades, but family will be strengthened by our economic decline. Blood is thicker than ideology.


IC tend to fail because they are based on ideology instead of mutual support. Mutual support is thicker than anything. If we both need each other for survival, it doesn't matter if we're related. After all, I'm not related to my husband, but I support him in preference to my sister and father, to whom I am related by blood.


$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', 'A')ccompanying this return to more traditional forms of social organization may very well be a limited return to separate spheres for men and women. This is not patriarchy, it's simply separate spheres.


Without energy slaves we'll have to do whatever work we're able to do whatever our gender. If a woman is a better artisan than a man, that will probably be her task. If you look at different cultures, there's a lot of variation in what is considered whose "sphere." In some cultures men do certain crafts, but not women, and vice versa. I'm sure each community will develop its own traditions.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Loki » Tue 16 Feb 2010, 22:15:56

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', 'W')hat I mean is the return to the egalitarianism of the band society - men and women with equal rights, power, and social authority. However one wants to phrase it.

Hmmm, I think we're on different pages. I don't think this is likely. Assuming a thorough economic collapse, I think a clan system is far more likely. Clans are not egalitarian. AFAIK, true egalitarianism was pretty much limited to very small hunter-gatherer groups.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I')C tend to fail because they are based on ideology instead of mutual support. Mutual support is thicker than anything. If we both need each other for survival, it doesn't matter if we're related. After all, I'm not related to my husband, but I support him in preference to my sister and father, to whom I am related by blood.

Yes, but you're still "related" to him by marriage. Intentional communities have an abysmal success record, right up there with fusion. Based on this empirical evidence, it does not appear to me to be a successful approach.

Not to say mutual aid societies won't make a comeback. I was just reading a post on this on the Archdruid's blog (just discovered this guy, great insights despite fruity New Age stuff). These are not intentional communities, at least not as I understand the term, i.e., communal living situation involving a group of unrelated people.



$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'W')ithout energy slaves we'll have to do whatever work we're able to do whatever our gender. If a woman is a better artisan than a man, that will probably be her task. If you look at different cultures, there's a lot of variation in what is considered whose "sphere." In some cultures men do certain crafts, but not women, and vice versa. I'm sure each community will develop its own traditions.

Yes, some variation interculturally, though I've only heard rumor of one or two HG societies where the women were the primary hunters and the men the primary gatherers, and wouldn't surprise me if there was some confusion among the anthropologists on this one. In 99.9% of the cases, men did most of the hunting and fishing (and almost all the big game hunting), women gathered and engaged in small-scale horticulture. Men made the tools they used for hunting, women made the tools they used for gathering and food prep. Men did the vast majority of the fighting, women did the vast majority of the child rearing.

This universal gender-based distribution of labor lasted 100,000+ years. So seems to have worked OK, and usually in much harder times than we will face in the next century. How "egalitarian" it was depends in part on what your definition of that term is, though there was certainly a wide variation in how much men's and women's work was valued relative to each other.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby mos6507 » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 01:08:27

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '
')Blood is thicker than ideology.


Don't be so sure about that. For instance, in my family, my sister and my cousin don't speak to each other. My mom and my aunt have effectively disowned my uncle. My sister keeps the family at arm's length. She gets involved when she feels like it, which isn't much. My mom spends most of her time in Florida. My dad spends most of his waking hours at his job at a car dealership. And none of them have taken the red pill except for me (although my sister appears to have drunk the 2012 end-times kool-aid). That's not to say there isn't any sharing going on in the family, but a collapse-ready cohesive unit this ain't, and isn't likely to ever be so due to the long-standing rivalries.

You might say that when TSHTF everyone will have this wonderful epiphany, bury all their hatchets, and come together in doomstead bliss, but I don't see it right now.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Loki » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 02:10:03

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '
')Blood is thicker than ideology.


Don't be so sure about that. For instance, in my family, my sister and my cousin don't speak to each other. <snip>

Yes, but we have the luxury of having nothing to do with our families now. Should civilization go tits up, most of us won't have this choice anymore. The isolated nuclear family is likely to go the way of the dodo. Not fit for survival.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby SeaGypsy » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 03:48:37

I lived on the fringes of the intentional community scene in Australia for over 20 years. Most of these were established during the 1970's, heavily influenced by the anti war/ nukes pro feminist/ mind altering substance brigades.
I have spent huge amounts of time socialising in these settings; enough to write several books about. Many of the people who have gone into and committed to these idealogical communities are very well educated, very intelligent and eloquent, quite enlightened human beings.
I have found that in such settings gender as power only exists in the periphery of the group, in what we call the 'try hards'' in other words fakes or not gonna make it's.
The core of the neo tribal group is based on a reverent respect for each other.
The alpha male and female who form the nexus of the group are distinct personalities of equal status in different spheres. There is no difference in the level of authority or respect she and he command in the 'tribe'. They are not elected into power in any concious way; but everyone recognises their position/s. The nexus family is in power by natural ascencion to power, they are born to it. Yet this is not an inherited monarchy any more than it is a democracy. It is a deep knowing of each other in a very intimate group and a collective recognition made at the deepest level of collective un/concious.
Among such groups the deepest need is not for power but for peace and communion within the group. The male and female centers of authority are those most able to nurture the deepest desires of the group. These personalities may or may not be a couple, but they will certainly cooperate.
Consensus is a very deep need in collectives. The fact there is no consensus possible in so called society should be the most obvious sign that it is a fraud at the deepest level. We are designed to work together in power sharing, responsibility sharing, collective, consensus based groups.
TPTB have long exploited our most basic instincts for the sake of exploiting our efforts to suit purposes outside of our real needs at the personal level.
The patriarchy/ matriarchy squabble is an unconcious expression of our lack of understanding of who we really are and what we are really capable of. It is a sign that humanity has really lost touch with itself as well as nature.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Ayame » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 03:58:54

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '
')So not "matriarchy" or "patriarchy," but a return to more traditional forms of social organization? I agree, if this is what you mean.


What I mean is the return to the egalitarianism of the band society - men and women with equal rights, power, and social authority. However one wants to phrase it.


Going by my research bands and tribes were more egalitarian than agricultural societies however there is a wide continuum of egality in bands. I have read that even though native american women had control over the tipi etc. they were used as pack animals by the men. Same with the aboriginies who also overtly gang-raped and shared women. The I-Kung actively promote wife beating. That said some hunter gatherer bands can be quite egalitarian such as the Hadza.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby bshirt » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 04:51:21

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', '
')Blood is thicker than ideology.


Don't be so sure about that. For instance, in my family, my sister and my cousin don't speak to each other. <snip>

Yes, but we have the luxury of having nothing to do with our families now. Should civilization go tits up, most of us won't have this choice anymore. The isolated nuclear family is likely to go the way of the dodo. Not fit for survival.


Hmmm.....that's a good point.

The upside is that many family members very well might even learn to appreciate their family since they might be prosper and/or be alive solely due to them.

There's obvious downsides to that too but relative to the govt/TPTB being the security of so many currently (that cannot last long anyway) it sounds like an excellent trade to me all things considered.

That way, at least you would really know who's on your side and who isn't. No more hiding behind mindless bureaucracy.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 11:33:11

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', '
')Going by my research bands and tribes were more egalitarian than agricultural societies however there is a wide continuum of egality in bands.



Yes, these many cultures were all different. Some of them were/are horrible cultures. I don't know that we need to choose to be horrible if we choose a different social organization.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 11:38:34

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('SeaGypsy', '
')Among such groups the deepest need is not for power but for peace and communion within the group. The male and female centers of authority are those most able to nurture the deepest desires of the group.



So you don't agree with the proposition often put forth here at po.com that people really just want superiority over others?
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby SeaGypsy » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 11:48:35

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('SeaGypsy', '
')Among such groups the deepest need is not for power but for peace and communion within the group. The male and female centers of authority are those most able to nurture the deepest desires of the group.



So you don't agree with the proposition often put forth here at po.com that people really just want superiority over others?



You have a real gift Ludi. Succintness. Yes that is the essence of my post and my life experience. If that competition is really where humanity is heading the evolution has been an utter waste of time; we should have stayed harmless alopecian monkeys.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 11:49:58

Thank you.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby SeaGypsy » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 12:30:26

The point we are reaching here really touches the core issue beyond political b/s. Our true human heritage has been struggling to emerge for ever (or near enough to it). The endless bickering and power struggles are just what TPTB like us to be doing because it keeps us unsatiated at the deepest level and hence, valiant consumertrons rather than actual evolving human beings (who may even just give up on the status quo and let it die of neglect).
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Re: The Endgame Begins

Unread postby Pretorian » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 13:09:48

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I')n the next few years millions of US women are in for a big, big attitude adjustment.


As are millions of men, when they realize their gender doesn't mean squat, when they thought it did, simply because they do not posses the skills that a majority of their gender possessed a few decades ago.



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Re: The Endgame Begins

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 13:30:11

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Making stuff and growing food?
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Re: The Endgame Begins

Unread postby mos6507 » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 13:32:01

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '
')Making stuff and growing food?


Generally speaking, women today don't know how to do that either.
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Re: The Endgame Begins

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 13:40:57

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '
')Making stuff and growing food?


Generally speaking, women today don't know how to do that either.



100% agree. Like I said earlier we've most of us become parasites.
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Re: The Endgame Begins

Unread postby AgentR » Wed 17 Feb 2010, 14:07:49

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Loki', 'Y')our other statement is just hair splitting. No functional difference whatsoever. Not sure why you bothered to post it.


Not sure why you bother to post stuff concerning organized military operations. Its not even remotely relevant to whether or not gender roles will prove to be decisive in determining which person happens to end up in the lead role in a community or nation.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'W')omen simply aren't as effective as men at organized violence, physically or psychologically. This is as obvious as the day is long. It's also overwhelmingly supported by the historical record.


The problem is you think I am asserting something I am not. I am not addressing, nor do I give two cents about whether women are as effective as men at organized violence specifically in the context of a military/paramilitary group. I've asserted nothing to suggest such a thing, and frankly think its a dumb question at its core.

What I have noted, and suggested, and illustrated, is that women are capable of delivering lethal violence to a large number of targets with very little difficulty.

You have written absolutely nothing that contradicts my assertion, and in point of fact are so obsessed with discussing whether I've ever carried a combat infantry load; that you can't see the *FACT* that I have no where suggested women can serve as well as men in infantry combat roles.
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Re: The Return of Patriarchy

Unread postby Loki » Thu 18 Feb 2010, 01:40:01

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('SeaGypsy', ' ')evolution has been an utter waste of time; we should have stayed harmless alopecian monkeys.

A modern conceit is that we are in charge of our evolution. We are not. If one group magically rose above their genes and decided to be utterly peaceful (probably by neutering their men), they would be subjugated by their neighbors in a matter of weeks. We are a species of very nasty apes---natural selection is a heartless bitch.


$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR', '
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Your hairsplitting bores me.
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