by culicomorpha » Wed 03 Feb 2010, 03:41:04
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') are you suggesting these vulnerabilities are innate?
Yep. Your suggestion that we have innate vulnerabilities is demonstrated by naked women pimping commercial products? Speak for yourself Mos...
So are the images selling the products, or are they selling the idea that buying the product will lead to sex?
Actually, I'll answer the question myself, and just tell you that the advertisers are simply attempting to evoke an emotional response, because they know memory is enhanced by strong emotions, and people are much more inclined to buy products they recognize, and are familiar with (leveraging what probably is an innate fear of the unfamiliar, or conversely, attraction to the familiar).
One of my side interests is in human development, and I've read a ton of books examining how we come to be. Anyway, a lot of these desires we have are really unmet primary needs that are converted into secondary needs, or wants, that can never really replace those unmet primary needs. The history of child-rearing is really instructive. If you look at a modern birth and the early life of an infant, it is wildly different from the way it was for almost the entire history of humans. Most babies nowadays are instantly removed from their mother's arms, after the obligatory embrace (if that even happens anymore) and the baby is taken away by the professionals where they do all sorts of pointless things like weighing them and so on, and then put into a nursery. But until pretty recently, the baby stayed with the mother almost continuously for years, and was breast fed for years. It used to be called "contraceptive on the hip," because while breast feeding, ovulation stops. Modern birthing and child-rearing techniques are, to put it bluntly, a massive trauma for any kind of real sense of personal security and sense of worth.
One of the books I've found especially useful in understanding all this stuff is Paul Shepard's Nature and Madness, which explores the changes in development that are a consequence of our estrangement from nature, and what it really means to grow up in a human-built environment and the losses that go along with it. He makes a very compelling case that humans have been thoroughly domesticated, and although we almost constantly trumpet what we have gained, very few are aware of exactly what we have lost. He is of the opinion that we are "emotionally crippled" and that we don't really mature the way people used to mature in nature-based societies. Emotionally immature people, not surprisingly, are much easier to manipulate and control. They will always seek secondary sources of pleasure in an attempt to recover what they can never really achieve: a true sense of belonging and fitting-in vis-à-vis nature.
A few other really worthwhile books are
My Name is Chellis, and I'm in Recovery From Western Civilization, by Chellis Glendenning
For Your Own Good, by Alice Miller
Four Arguments for the Elimination of Television, by Jerry Mander
A Language Older Than Words, by Derrick Jenson
Steps to an Ecology of Mind, by Gregory Bateson