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Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby rangerone314 » Tue 03 Mar 2009, 21:16:28

Would polyamory/polygamy be a suitable system in a post-peak oil world given the upheaval & necessity to band together?
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Narz » Tue 03 Mar 2009, 21:20:55

Yes, I'd like to sign up as one of your concubines, may I? :lol:
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Ludi » Tue 03 Mar 2009, 21:40:16

Sounds great to me, for folks who can get along that way.

But why wait for post-peak? If you want to band together in that way, why not do it now?
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby SeaGypsy » Tue 03 Mar 2009, 22:09:05

Having lived on such communities I would make the following suggestions:

Whilst this works in a very tightly closed group with the only new arrivals being virgins; in an open society it is clearly physically dangerous.
It may be that say you've 100 people in the group, the average may have slept with ten people so there is a multiplying risk factor not present for remote aboriginal tribes.

I have seen what happens. It's a bit scary.

The alpha males take over.
The alpha females become their consorts in subjugating all the females for the primary alpha and his body guard henchmen. The 80% non alpha males end up masturbating or homosexual.

Also you can forget about knowing who's children are who's. (unless you have a DNA scientist on board.

Come on guys it's a nice fantasy but it doesn't really work for modern people. Unless you are an Alpha Male.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby SeaGypsy » Tue 03 Mar 2009, 22:50:45

Australia's Spinifex Pitjatjanjarra people have a loose structure in their sexual norms.

They have a method of identifying patrilineage by the child's footprints.
It has proven to be close to 100% accurate.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Aaron » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 07:28:57

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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby smallpoxgirl » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 17:48:33

Maybe it's just me, but polyamory just seems like an enormous amount of work. It's hard enough finding one person you can share your life with and not want to murder them. How on earth do you go about finding several.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Pops » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 18:30:35

Welfare: more kids = more money.

Just like in the old days when more kids = more labor.

Just more talk on PO.com = less Do, me thinks.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby anador » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 21:35:39

Wasn't the cultural practice of monogamy developed for specific reasons?

In small population groups knowing who you are blood related to is important.

By introducing poly-amory into a small population, you run the risk of inbreeding after a couple generations, when it becomes just too difficult to remember who is related to who.

Large populations are easier because there is just much less of a chance you are related to any given person in a large city.

Villages though?... That is just too problematic.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 21:41:17

Monogamy isn't especially the norm among Homo sapiens. Polygyny is more common, polyandry less so.
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Unread postby anador » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 21:48:01

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', 'M')onogamy isn't especially the norm among Homo sapiens. Polygyny is more common, polyandry less so.
I agree,

Though many societies that openly used polygamy were historicly centered in large cities, or densely populated regions. ex: cities of the middle east, India...

In other societies polygamy was reserved for the upper class or for specific people and reasons. ex: Subsaharan Africa...

Again the same problems arise unless there's strong cultural ceremony involved or a large population to pull from.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 21:56:28

Plenty of cultures practice/d polygamy. Many non-civilized cultures practice/d polygamy. They by definition don't have "classes."
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Unread postby anador » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 21:59:38

Non civilized cultures do have cultural classes. There is the cheif and his family, the warriors, the elders, the shaman... just because its not socioeconomic does not mean it was classless.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 22:07:02

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('anador', 'N')on civilized cultures do have cultural classes. There is the cheif and his family, the warriors, the elders, the shaman... just because its not socioeconomic does not mean it was classless.



They were not "classes." The chief is the head of a chiefdom, which is, yes, hierarchical. Other non-civiized peoples who lived in bands aka tribes, were not chiefdoms and did not have classes, they were non-hierarchical. "Shaman" is not a class. "Elders" is not a class.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby Ludi » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 22:15:50

I recommend Jason Godesky's essays "The Thirty Theses" at http://anthropik.com/ for discussion of non-hierarchical non-civilized cultures.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby anador » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 22:29:09

Maybe I'm just arguing semantics, but i think anyone treated in a specific way because of what they do, shaman, elders, etc. is in effect a class.

Anyone that has more authority than someone else is in a higher class.

Few tribes but the most primitive had no system of authority.

Even if it is just the strongest man in a group of ten. The strongest has authority over the rest.

We are a gregarious species and naturally form tribes with a central authority. The first tribes were not democracies.

Hierarchy has existed as long as people have interacted.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby smallpoxgirl » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 22:33:47

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('anador', 'M')aybe I'm just arguing semantics, but i think anyone treated in a specific way because of what they do, shaman, elders, etc. is in effect a class.

Anyone that has more authority than someone else is in a higher class.


I completely disagree with that. Class is something you acquire by birth. Anyone who is given special rights or authority without earning them is in a higher class.

Meritocracy is the basis of classless society.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby anador » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 22:40:27

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('smallpoxgirl', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('anador', 'M')aybe I'm just arguing semantics, but i think anyone treated in a specific way because of what they do, shaman, elders, etc. is in effect a class.

Anyone that has more authority than someone else is in a higher class.


I completely disagree with that. Class is something you acquire by birth. Anyone who is given special rights or authority without earning them is in a higher class.

Meritocracy is the basis of classless society.


Then when i say class it probably is more accurate for me to say "level of social authority"

Hierarchy does exist regardless of whether it is class or not.

I have also realized that I have pulled this topic way off course... :oops:

Sorry.
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Re: Polyamory as a post-Peak communal way of living

Unread postby SeaGypsy » Wed 04 Mar 2009, 23:33:25

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('anador', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('smallpoxgirl', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('anador', 'M')aybe I'm just arguing semantics, but i think anyone treated in a specific way because of what they do, shaman, elders, etc. is in effect a class.

Anyone that has more authority than someone else is in a higher class.


I completely disagree with that. Class is something you acquire by birth. Anyone who is given special rights or authority without earning them is in a higher class.

Meritocracy is the basis of classless society.


Then when i say class it probably is more accurate for me to say "level of social authority"

As someone who has worked in remote aboriginal communities with varieties of sexual practices I can say there is ALWAYS a Hierarchy.

Whether one calls this 'class' is semantics.

The main connection here is that most guys don't get laid in this kind of system. Might be good for the gene pool, but it's a devolution socially; resulting in an endless power game making humans more like animals.

Hierarchy does exist regardless of whether it is class or not.

I have also realized that I have pulled this topic way off course... :oops:

Sorry.
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