by ReverseEngineer » Tue 07 Oct 2008, 05:30:51
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Blueberry', 'W')hen further researched, it becomes apparent that those who die by suicide are making less of of a "choice" than one might think.]
The mythology of our times is that it is a self-directed, rational act commited by one who had taken his power and made a choice. But, upon further investigation, one finds almost the opposite is true.
Because factors that are out of the realm of rational thought play so heavily into this phenomena, it can safely be said that it is not the culmination of reasoning by a a thinking mind, but an impulsive, emotional, and ultimately irrational act.
As ones mood becomes lower, or higher, thinking becomes so twisted, so distorted, that the only choice left to that person appears to be suicide.
We, as rational, or irrational people, try to pin down "reasons" or ethics onto something that is beyond thoughts, reasons or ethics. It's simply the end result of a road that is the same no matter the "triggering" event.
Most of those who go down the path of suicide travel the same road, the same decline, the same narrowing to the ultimate conclusion.
We like the idea of being able to choose life or death, but it is not a light switch, more like, as I said, a road. A road, I believe, that starts in a place -- childhood, mental illness, neurological damage, or trauma -- coinciding with certain temperment issues such as control and anger.
Only true in the situation where the person electing to suicide (or off his family also) is deluded about the idea that there is no HOPE. However, if there truly IS no Hope, then the choice becomes more rational.
Some folks decide there is no hope before others. It depends on their particular circumstance and location. It is absolutely true that for some folks right now there is NO HOPE. They are finished and they KNOW it. They make the choice to go to the Great Beyond before they see their children starved and raped. Is that wrong?
Reverse Engineer