by Devin » Mon 04 Aug 2008, 14:56:09
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Narz', 'D')evin, I totally understand where you're coming from. Still, I feel like many people probably don't have the time anymore to let things happen organically. Contracts & sh!t are a nuisance but they are also part of life & can help protect the group (unless society breaks down to lawlessness).
I agree though that the whole 10 people in huts pretending to try to save the planet thing is a bit of a waste of energy, IMO and most effort & energy should go towards real sustainability rather than fluff & marketing.
I don't understand how people don't have time... in my value set this is what matters MOST, more than anything else in the entire world. Not sustainability, mind you, but family and belonging and genuine relationships. I don't care how long it takes to have genuine relationships, I'm going to use my energy for that rather than the manufacture of inauthentic relationships. I don't see how people have the time and energy for such grandiose charades without even
acknowledging that what really matters is right here in the present moment. ... And any group that
needs a
contract for self-preservation is hardly a group at all... if a contract is a mere legal formality I'd understand, but in the instance of these communities the whole thing is approached like a business plan where the contract is
central to the relationship existing in the first place. I don't mean to rant about this, I'm merely saying that this sort of prioritizing/approach is utterly foreign to how I think and feel about relating with people. Relationships are not utilitarian transactions!
These "intentional communities" are better described as "non-profit organizations whose employees live in the same general vicinity." I want a real community. If this sounds judgmental or bitter, I acknowledge that there's certainly an element of that in what I am saying here, but I hope the heart of what I'm saying comes through regardless.