by BigTex » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 22:22:48
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Devin', 'B')ut then on further thought, even as a long-time forum participant of many different forums, most (all?) of the really meaningful discussions and conversations I've had have been in person or at least real-time, in phone or on instant messenger. It has a less scripted, more raw feeling -- and if you HAVE done the self-understanding bit prior to the conversation, and the other person has as well, some really amazing stuff comes out of it.
I think the older you get, the fewer in person "meaning of life" conversations you have. Part of it is you have more things on your plate when you get older, a lot of people just stop caring about that kind of stuff once they get distracted by a career and family, and others just don't have occasion like they did when they were in college or other school to be around people who are having a lot of different ideas thrown at them every day who want to talk about it.
But I can talk as well as I can type, and I still have the occasional real-time mind-meld, and it's usually totally unexpected.
You just gotta be ready when it comes.
One of the things about forum exchanges that are handy, though, is sometimes I need an hour or a day or longer to really digest something I have read and respond to it, and that's hard to do when someone is sitting across from you waiting for a response to their last comment.
One of the things I love about this place is it's got the most interesting bunch of people I've every encountered. And for the most part they will give you a clean fight. It reminds me a little of big time table tennis where the players are SO intense, and yet if the official misses a call, the player may give his opponent the point. I love that.
Here's an example. Check the comments if you want to see how intense people can be about table tennis.
Excerpt from comments:
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '[')b]japanesexxx:
no matter what bullshit u say, Liqin IS THE MAN. nowadays everyone is getting doped in order to be a champion. Liqin is a lighthouse for younger generations. enough said DonAntonio91: ....suck my butthole, he just did what he thought he had to do and every good sportsman would have done this. But maybe everybody is acting a bit too overloaded, he just did what he had to do... ttvig: Wang Liqin is a great figure for the sport of table tennis. aznballer145: thats inspiring Herizona: omfg so awsome and insane BigTexason: I bet Liqin taste good as teriyaki Soylent Green. People eat it up and say "finger Liqin good!"