You mention shareholders. Keep in mind that large pension funds, mutual funds, and other institutions own large blocks of stock; and, in some cases at least, could vote out a slate of directors that didn't accomplish satisfactory growth.
I think the incipient buyout of AT&T by SBC is of interest. Notice that they hope to shed 13,000 jobs over the next several years. So much of this is driven by the desire to cut costs, which might arguably benefit shareholders through improved earnings.
That being said, acquisitions can be driven by CEO ego and corporate incompetence. AT&T is, again, a case in point. They wanted to get into the computer business, so they bought Olivetti and NCR...and later a cable company. In each case, it was a disaster. But I think this was due to incompetence in the executive suite - particularly on the part of CEO Robert Allen - than being inherent to M&A (Merger and Acquisition) activity.
