by Baldwin » Sat 02 Jun 2007, 15:13:40
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Denny', 'I') think the simplest explanation for increaed depression is the fact that so few of us connect with the ultimate buyers of our services, so our work does not bring us closer to people. And, though we are often busy, the work we are busy doing is not perceived by us to be valuable. The boss has a whim, and next thing you know we are working at 10 PM doing a powerpoint poresentation. Next week, his boss has a different whim and we are on a different tangent. But, the boss' needs are not as multidimensional as real customers.
Where I work, it seems to be the reality that our front line workers who deal with the public, much of their work being outside, have the highest satisfaction, higher than our supervisors and managers. Our inside blue collar workers who do not contact the customers have the lowest satisfaction, and the worse absenteeism. Yet, in so many ways, they have been mollycoddled with all kinds of job security, liberal overtime payment and union protections when it comes to seniority. We bosses think they have it made in the shade, but overall, they are an unhappy lot.
A similar trend emerged among stay at home housewives back in the fities and sisties. As labor saving devices became the norm in the home, mom was getting bored. And depressed.
In short, people have no meaning. Meaningfulness is just a long, abstract word like obfuscate. When a person works constantly for minimum (or in my case as a student, no pay), in a very non-rewarding fashion (I experience this as a student), it is hard not to feel depressed. I am miserable with my schooling.
Erich Fromm wrote a book in the late 70's that predicted that relationships and love would break down so much with people that we'll see police in schools, increases in violence, and also in some other works, a marked increase in the indulgence of orgiastic pursuits (note the word orgy as a root). Drugs, sex, and alcohol chracterize orgiastic pursuits. In my school, of 37 kids in my class, 34 admitted to stealing alcohol from their parents, and 35 admitted to both drinking at their house, friends houses, and out on the street. This is a Catholic school on Long Island with a reputation. Bill O'Reilley is an alumnus.
Remember Virginia Tech? Many knew of him, but had no real relationship and many didn't even know his name or face. Remember what Fromm said, that violence would increase in tandem with a decrease in relationships. FOr those of you who ahve ever worked in an office, how amny of you really knew the guy at the next desk? How many of you knew large numbers of students at your school? (These questions really apply for those experiencing work and school 1985/90 and after).
Only a city man would carry a bag of iron instead of a bag of rice.
-Ling Tan, from the movie Dragon Seed, 1944 (more wisdom from Turner Classic Movies)