by WildRose » Tue 29 May 2007, 13:40:47
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')I thought it would be a "no-brainer" to want to grow one's own food and do car pooling, especially with people who were clearly in a financial struggle and had 3 or 5 kids (the two families had this many kids). I said, "Hey, wouldn't it be great to cut your grocery bill with all these kids by cultivating your own plot of land right up the street from you? Also, (to the stay at home mom with a minivan) you can cut your vehicle expenses by driving us all to work. Your vehicles will be just about free!"
Your observations above, undertaker, are indicative of a mindset that keeps people from acting more collectively. I think as a people we in the western world are not as accustomed to sharing our time and space as many other cultures are. For example, families in poorer countries share a small home with many people and each person does not have a lot of privacy in their own home. In our more privileged culture, we have moved steadily away from more modest homes to much larger homes where each person has their own bedroom, sometimes their own bathroom, TV, computer, all of which has resulted in people who are not required to share as much with others. Yes, we could have far fewer cars on the streets and all save money by carpooling, but one reason we do not do this is because we like to have our own space.
The other thing we may be unwilling to share is our time. Setting up a carpool means we have to think of schedules other than our own and adjust ours accordingly. I know this is trivial, especially in light of the fact that so many positive things could come from this effort, but I think so many people feel stressed by their daily time constraints that they do not make this effort.
My feeling is that we can make adjustments to acting more collectively when faced with crisis, although it will be those who have the least who will be quicker and more willing to make this adjustment. We would likely be better prepared for doing this by facing the possibility of having to share our homes with extended family and friends, and by starting to look at ways that we can help each other when there are gaps created by expensive energy.
Generally speaking, we have been quite spoiled by our affluence, and I say this knowing that people reading this forum are from all walks of life and financial backgrounds. Some of us may have come from poorer backgrounds and that may be all we have ever known. Others may remember growing up in much more modest surroundings than we are accustomed to now. It could very well be that soon we will have to downsize and share our space, time, knowledge and experience with our neighbors in a collective effort to just get by.