by elocs » Sun 13 Aug 2006, 10:14:07
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('WildRose', 'E')locs, that is such a heartbreaking story!
My mom and dad recently had a very similar experience. For years they had a dog they loved dearly who died of natural causes. They were so sad when that one passed away that it took a year and a half before they could bring themselves to get another one. Finally, I went with my mom to the SPCA one day, specifically to look at a German Shepherd/Australian cattle dog mix that my mom saw on the web site. He was a beautiful dog, just 11 months old, mainly black with really neat markings. He was also the sweetest, best-natured dog you could hope to meet, though he was very active and tried several times to get out of the yard.
One evening, mom and dad had company over and as their guests were leaving, Chewie (my brother named him after Chewbacca) pushed past the guests as they opened the door. There was a hare (common in our city) sitting on the front lawn and Chewie took right after it. My brother immediately went out after him, but the dog was by this time a couple of blocks away. When my brother got to the main avenue nearby, some cars were stopped in the middle of the road and there was Chewie, lying on the road. The woman who hit him said she saw the hare run across the road in front of her and then a black streak. A kind guy in a jeep actually drove the dog and my brother to an emergency vet clinic but the dog was dead before they got there. Mom and dad only had the dog for a month. They think they'll look for another one soon.
I have an old German Shepherd. She's 14 1/2, best dog I've ever had. I'm hoping she'll just pass away in her sleep so I don't have to decide when to put her down.
I feel for your daughter. I've had to say goodbye to a few dogs over the years, but when you lose them tragically it's really hard. With time, and a few more pets to love, your daughter's pain will ease.
Thanks. It was a tragedy, but doubly so because of the guilt my daughter feels over the part she played. Once the dog was let out of the house he knew the way to the park and it was across that busy street just a few houses down. She just didn't know that had she started to go the opposite way that the dog probably would have come back to her. Time does heal, but that memory will always be there for her.
In the 6 years my daughter has lived in Chicago she and her family have had 5 dogs and 3 cats. They have 1 dog now and the one was killed in the accident. The others were given away by her mother when they didn't work out or they became too much of a nuisance (the stepfather is not a "pet" person and has a low tolerarnce for less than perfect animal behavior). My daugher's older brother goes into the service this week and so they are talking about getting rid of the dog they now have since it is mostly his because the dog sometimes goes in the house (this dog is very good about letting you know he has to go out). They have 1 cat left, which is considered to be my daughter's. They gave away 2 cats when they developed UTIs.
When I visit my daughter I take pictures of the pets. I play with them and take the dogs for walks because I don't know it they will be there the next time I visit. I am very unhappy with this type of behavior and philosophy towards pets and too many people have it. The kids love these animals and then have to see them go. The dog that was killed was a tragedy, but the loss of the other pets is a tragedy of a different kind and their loss for these kids is something they will always remember. My hope is that they can at least keep the ones they have now until the pets die of old age.