by jdumars » Sat 15 Jul 2006, 17:33:42
I figured I'd chime in here since I've been through some similar challenges. In 2002 I went through chapter 7 after losing my job, having my home foreclosed, etc. Jack's advice to see a lawyer is absolutely critical. In most states, there is a Legal Aid organization, and if you call them, they'll refer you to a lawyer who will give you a low-cost consultation. For me, bankruptcy was the only option I had, but for you, I'm not sure... the recommendation regarding following Oprah's "debt diet" is excellent. You do have some leverage right now, even though it doesn't seem like it. So, now on to some practical advice:
- If you do decide to declare bankruptcy, make DAMN sure you're living in a place where you'll be able to stay (and afford) for a period of years. Credit ratings radically influence your ability to find a place to rent. In my situation, I found a sympathetic building manager who helped me get a place.
- Remember that credit rating is now becoming a standard part of job screening! I got screwed badly by this... I was offered a job, gave notice at the old job, and then 2 days before my start date, they pulled a credit report and cancelled the offer. That's how I got unemployed. Companies do NOT have to tell you what their hiring criteria is, as long as it isn't discriminatory (sex, creed, etc.)
- Get a job... ANY job... and then look for something better. This is the best advice my dad ever gave me. Also remember that whatever job you have can be advanced, even if it seems like a dead end. The American job market is ACHING for workers with a strong work ethic. Get a job, work extremely hard, and promote yourself. At least you have a degree, which is better than I have!
- You don't need credit. Period. The key is to live well below your means. This requires your internal compass to be impervious to advertising, peer pressure and intimidation.
- The coming times are going to be challenging for everyone. The key is to exploit your knowledge, intellect and planning skills to provide you with some advantage. If hyperinflation hits (worse), all the money in the world is going to be useless. A good pocket knife and knowing how to sharpen it may be priceless.
- Learn the joy of simplicity. This is important now, but will be critical soon.
Hang in there!! 4 years ago I was unemployed and bankrupt. Now I am debt-free, a land owner and gainfully employed. It takes hard work and sacrifice... and a lot of love.