I was thinking about this today ... Europeans living in the US (or at least the ones I know) take a while to adopt to the more relaxed way in which Americans make their plans for going out or meeting with friends. Instead of Thursday deciding "we'll meet you at the bar Friday at 7" it's "yeah, sounds cool, let's see what's going on" which translates to "one of my options is now meeting you at the bar at 7 on Friday". Our social rules in the US have become a game where the idea is to not commit to firm plans in order to be able to make the most desireable choice should it become available. Having a personal car ready to go allows us to switch gears altogether (pun intended) and decide to hit the new sushi place with the gang from Accounting instead of meeting the college friends at the new bar, or go to dinner with the work mates and meet the friends for drinks afterwards. Time and again I find myself jumping in the car to go somewhere for some fun which had just been agreed to not 30 minutes previously. If I had to make use of public transit or travel by bike to meet my friends instead of jumping in my car on a whim I think I would be more likely to plan things through.
Mobile phones have contributed to this syndrome as well -- meeting at 7 becomes "as long as I call you by 7:05 I'm not really late".


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