by katkinkate » Thu 12 Jan 2006, 04:21:31
Depends on which families you're talking about. I don't think you mean the families were one or more of the adults are abusing/misusing the children, or the families where the wife is a virtual slave to an arranged match, or the type of family where they put the girl babies outside on the hillside to die because they don't want to pay a dowry when she gets married, or the families where dad only comes around to boff with mum then leaves her alone to try to provide for the resulting kids, or the families where mum and dad fight regularly often viscious enough that one or both of them get badly injured, or the families where both dad and mum only had the kids cause it was expected and any children they have are put in 'care' while both parents work on their career....
I think the most successful human trait (as a population) is adaptability and the one factor that allowed us to become the dominant mammal is our tendancy to prefer living in groups - you probably could call them families if you expand the term to include the families of choice - the close friends and allies people tend to form around them as they grow up, more than the strict 'blood family' structure.
Kind regards, Katkinkate
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