by ubercynicmeister » Tue 17 Jan 2006, 22:03:49
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('coyote', 'N')TBKtrader just posted a news story about the depletion in Alaska's North Slope. It's funny... I mention these news stories to people I know, and they keep not believing it or taking it seriously...
The standard response has changed from loud scoffing to indulgent smirks. The family crazy. Is that a positive change? Am I making any headway? It's honestly difficult to tell, even with people I've known for years or even decades.
LOL, you sound like you're meeting the typical "don't bother me with the facts" type of attitude that others seem to have encountered. I've met it only very very rarely, and usually in other contexts.
There are some things that can help:
Firstly, to help you - if you're the "one person" in the local area who is Peak Oil Aware, then this suggestion is not likely to be of much assistance. But I am assuming that you some other Peak Oil-Aware people in your immediate environs (ie: within reasonable travelling distance). Get 'em over. Throw a "do" (get-together, chow-down, whatever phrase most tickles your fancy) at your place.
DON'T tell the persons at your place of residence that these guys (and some gals, I assume) are Peak Oilers, and instruct your friends (the one's who're Peak Oil aware) that they are not to hammer the issue. Use humour of the gentle type extensively, if you possibly can.
Then let the conversation drift into talking about Peak Oil-type issues & the lack of preparedness. If you can start talking (say) about that bio-diesel from Algae proposal that is doing the rounds, you might spark some interest.
But, please remember: if it's you talking to your family, then they will be naturally skeptical, simply because familiarity breeds contempt. It's the same as the half-wits who "race the train" across the level crossing because they've "always done it" all of their lives. They usually feature on the evening news, with their mangled corpses being extracted from the shattered wreckage of their vehicles. In this case, familiarity with the level crossing has bred contempt for the 10,000+ ton trains that hurtle across it. In your family's case, they have seen you so often that they will tend to disregard most things you say, for the same reason that kids ignore their parents.
They "know you" too well, as it were.
Secondly, please think of things from their point of view: here's a "lone voice" informing them of discomfort to come. Even if the Freemarket magically produces more oil, or magically finds another alternative, or something like that, there will still be 'change-over' pains. It means that, even of we find this as-yet-undiscovered energy source, we'll still have to go through the usual downsizing, retraining and facing the wasted years of our previous employment(s). This is no easy thing for "ordinary" people to swallow, especially in a cluelessly consumerist Society, hell-bent on World-Without-End Spending.
I am assuming that you're talking to persons who are more-or-less contemporaneous with you (ie: of about the same generation, perhaps a litle older, perhaps a little younger). You may find allies in what you're saying in those who went through the Great Depression & Second World War. Having gone through discomfort, they realise that discomfort can return at any time. The "Hey, Grandpa, can you remember when the Price of Oil was US$2 per barrel?" approach works well. Sure, they may regale you with utterly irrelevant stories but if you cultivate your contacts with 'em, they may well end up on your side.
This allows attack from two fronts, as it were, but be GENTLE about it.
Fourthly: be GENTLE. An overbearing verbal bully (i'm sure you can think of your own examples; we have them here at the boards, too) is likely to shoot themself in the foot. They may have an EXCELLENT message and be utterly correct in what they say but put it in such offensive, insulting ways that they promptly turn a somewhat receptive audience into instant protagonists, an audience who takes the opposite position just to annoy or get back at that person.
This will mean you'll have to endure an an awful lot of good-natured but somewhat clueless "ribbing". The wittiness of this "ribbing" may surprise you. The HALF-WITTEDNESS of it will depress you. Don't respond in like kind. This will be the most difficult thing you've ever done is NOT TO RESPOND in like kind. Instead, stick to what you've got to say.
Smile beatifically. If someone tries to provoke you enough, eventually, they will turn the audience against them - the audience will be on your side, not the protagonist's - BUT ONLY IF YOU DON'T LET 'EM GET TO YOU.
If you have a belligerant nuisance who takes great pleasure in offensive loud-mouthing, give her the floor. Let her talk herself into a hole in the ground, and let her offend the audience. The Feminists are good examples of the last sort - while they may have had a message that was part-way good (i'm beginning to have severe doubts, especially in light of the way the Tobacco Industry all-too-easily co-opted Feminism to help boost sales of cigarettes) they so antagonised even their own supporters that they ended up not having many supporters. If this belligernant nuisance gets to the point where they have really rubbed the audience up the wrong way, YOU step in to be the "smoothing influence", the calming balm, as it were.
This gives you the easy way out: you can become the gentle voice of reason, labouring under dreadful circumstances (the belligerent nuisance) and this very belligerancy will hand you the entire audience's attention and likely their sympathy, too. It also gives your vocal cords a bit of a rest, too, while the belligerant nuisance gets on with the idea of brow-beating others.
Lastly: KNOW YOUR STUFF. I simply cannot emphasise this enough. Most questions will be of the so-simple-they-are-stupid type, but bear with it. The 'snake in the grass' will ask you the most incredibly difficult, obscure, technically challenging question and they ask it just to make you squirm. The best response is to inform them that, while you are aware of the topic (whatever that is), that you're addressing a general audience, thus you have to limit your answers to those which are not too technical, but if they want to write the question down, you'll get back to them. If they do write the question down and give it to you, GET BACK TO THEM: they are of the interested sort who is willing to go that extra mile to find things out - and they'll stick unshakably by the knowledge gained, too. Once cultivated, they can become a valuable ally, if you can only find them.
I hope this helps, but in all likelyhood I'll be ignored.