by pup55 » Fri 16 Dec 2005, 22:24:39
Thanks for this entertaining thread.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')here will always be people out there with no common sense. They will dig their own holes.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')ake some responsibility for your actions and deal with them
I'm with Strider and Cube on this one. No one is taking your hand and forcing you to sign the little slip of paper when you charge something.
Deferred consumption is a sign of maturity.
Now, to be sure, society is doing everything it can to get you to consume immediately, but your not doing so is what differentiates you from the beasts. Your parents should have told you this when you were little. If they did not, it's their bad.
As to this issue of college, my guess is that it depends entirely on what you study. I am pretty sure most engineers, chemists, biologists, are able to find a job at some level with a four-year degree, particularly if they interned somewhere, like kids do nowadays. If you take history, english, film production, computer graphics design, psychology, probably music, art, etc. and get a four year degree, I am pretty sure you will end up waiting on tables.
The reason the colleges admit so many students is that they have to fill up the seats and collect some tuition in order to keep the lights on. It's not necessarily their responsibility that you stay on track, and once you're done, it's pretty much up to you to find a job. Once again, the parents should be helpful in "encouraging" kids to get into fields of study that will lead them to some useful job, however, once again, the parents, typically boomers, are on the whole pretty hopeless in doing this. Also, if they did not sit on you in junior high and high school to get good grades and/or learn something in math and science, the choice was made for you inadvertently at that time.
My theory on the general incompetence of the Boomer generation as parents is that they rebelled from their military-influenced "greatest generation" by not instilling discipline in themselves, or their own kids. This has done the kids a great disservice, on the whole. An entire generation has grown up with maximized "self esteem" and "everybody gets a trophy" and is confused about the way the world works. This whole credit thing is just an extension of this. Naturally the government itself is guilty of this as well. No wonder they're such a bad example.
I apologize for my fellow boomers who have done this to you. Put them on here and I will chew them out.