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Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby Windmills » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 15:39:16

I always felt that trials by fire would determine whether or not your beliefs run deep and strong. For example, if you believe you're honest, place yourself in a situation where your honesty will result in the deaths of people you love. Do you lie and kill them, or speak the truth and take some comfort with the empty pride in your virtuosity when you visit their graves? After learning about Peak Oil, it seems some of my more treasured ideals have slipped away.

I used to be a pacifist, anti-death penalty, pondering vegetarianism, and openly anti-gun. I used to think the Second Amendment should be stripped from the constitution.

Carrie, my girlfriend, and I have lately had a few discussions about which firearms to buy, how many, and how much ammunition to store.

It makes me feel weak and craven to have my own survival become so paramount, that I now find myself pondering barbaric measures in the face of some types of survival situations.

My father, recently a convert to PO, has also done an about face. He and I used to be on opposite ends of the political spectrum and have blistering political arguments. Now, I could hardly care less about the words "liberal" and "conservative." Our relationship has grown much closer when not long ago we were adversarial with my mother having to come between us to keep him from socking me in the face.

Perhaps virtue is a luxury, affordable only in civilized times. It's a shame to have to choose between death and morality.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby rogerhb » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 15:50:38

It's just a staircase to climb down.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby Pops » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 16:02:29

Don’t give it another thought.

The basis of liberalism is the willingness to question the status quo, not the various and sundry bumper sticker bites used to gain votes and power.

Virtue is a luxury given those wealthy enough to buy their way above the fray.

There is none weaker nor more craven than the one that sends someone else to protect the things they wouldn’t stand up for themselves.


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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby killJOY » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 16:49:55

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'N')ow, I could hardly care less about the words "liberal" and "conservative."
Good for you.

These words are mere badges in a primal conflict gripping the country.

You're either one or the other.

You wear either beads or a feather.

But ultimately it doesn't matter.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby gego » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 16:55:50

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Perhaps virtue is a luxury, affordable only in civilized times. It's a shame to have to choose between death and morality.


I can't see how you equate your own survival with immorality and uncivilized behavior. If someone else commits an act of agression against you, and you are forced to kill them to defend your own life or the lives of your loved ones, then where is the immorality in the killing? Wouldn't it be more immoral to let someone else kill your children than to stop them from doing so?

A big part of liberalism is self abnigation; give up yourself and your property for others less fortunate. Do not assert your own right to live.

Ayn Rand wrote a book, I think the title is "Capitalism, The Virtue of Selfishness". You might want to read it to help reform your understanding of right and wrong.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby rogerhb » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 17:08:37

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('gego', 'I') can't see how you equate your own survival with immorality and uncivilized behavior. If someone else commits an act of agression against you, and you are forced to kill them to defend your own life or the lives of your loved ones, then where is the immorality in the killing? Wouldn't it be more immoral to let someone else kill your children than to stop them from doing so?


We, as humans, have a built in reluctance to killing other people (the gun-nuts may be suprised to hear about this). Sure you may have to kill to defend your self, but it does not mean you will simply, say, oh well and carry on as normal. You will be affected. It will make you question your own values.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby NordicThora » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 17:26:56

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Windmills', 'A')fter learning about Peak Oil, it seems some of my more treasured ideals have slipped away.

I used to be a pacifist, anti-death penalty, pondering vegetarianism, and openly anti-gun. I used to think the Second Amendment should be stripped from the constitution.

Carrie, my girlfriend, and I have lately had a few discussions about which firearms to buy, how many, and how much ammunition to store.

Perhaps virtue is a luxury, affordable only in civilized times. It's a shame to have to choose between death and morality.


Windmills, thanks very much for posting this. I'm going through a very similar shift in my politics and worldview, mostly as a result of being PO aware, and it's quite an eye-opener.

I used to be "soft and fluffy" as it's termed in some circles - a pacifist, mostly vegetarian, rather hippie-ish and flighty in my pagan spiritual beliefs, and anti-gun. Now I'm investigating firearms safety and defense training courses, have a newfound respect for hunters, and am involved in a religious wisdom tradition that emphasizes the value of having one's spiritual mettle tested by ordeal.

To be sure, this transition is not something that has happened overnight, as I've been PO aware for almost four years now...but as I watch the dominoes continue to fall, it seems to be accelerating. I still have trouble letting go of some of my old "fluffy" beliefs at times, and I sometimes wonder if I'll be able to cut it as things continue to worsen around me. I have not yet been fully tested in the fires, so to speak. But my gut tells me I WILL be tested in this way, just as all those around me will be, and it will probably happen sooner rather than later. Will I be ready? Honestly, I'm not sure.

I think you're right that certain political views and forms of idealism are largely a luxury of the wealthy, especially in a world where 6.5 billion people are competing for a rapidly diminishing supply of resources. I recently saw this relevant quote: "Pacifism is a privilege of the protected."

However, I don't think it's "virtue" that should be considered a luxury. People can behave admirably and show strength of character in all kinds of situations.

I would recommend taking a closer look at the idea of virtue as some sort of absolute rule that could be applied across the board, as in the moral dilemma you posed above. Without close attention to the specific context of the situation, it's difficult to evaluate whether or not a particular action should be considered virtuous or not.

In Anglo-Saxon tradition there is a concept referred to as "thew" in modern English. It is usually taken to mean "custom, usage, habit," and also applies to virtues or morals. Basically it means acceptance of a community standard - but the key is that it applies to a particular tribe or tribes, rooted in a specific place. The notion of virtue as an abstract rule without any grounding in the customs and context of a specific group of peoples would make no sense at all from the point of view of this tradition.

Food for thought, anyway. Fascinating topic - I look forward to hearing others' perspectives on this!

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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby Auntie_Cipation » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 17:28:35

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('gego', '
')I can't see how you equate your own survival with immorality and uncivilized behavior. If someone else commits an act of agression against you, and you are forced to kill them to defend your own life or the lives of your loved ones, then where is the immorality in the killing? Wouldn't it be more immoral to let someone else kill your children than to stop them from doing so?


Forced? Don't you mean CHOOSE to kill them? Even if it's to defend your own life or a loved one, it's still a choice. No one forces you.

Agreed that this would be an anguished dilemma.

My choice in the matter is to arrange my life so as to minimize the risk of those encounters in the first place.

I know, I can't eliminate the possibility entirely, but I can reduce it -- by living
1) where I know my neighbors and community members, and they know me,
2) in a place that is known and frequented by only a few people,
3) a non-materialistic lifestyle (less to steal or be jealous of),
4) where people still retain their connection to nature/land.
Etc.

I believe that living so as to keep ourselves and our family out of harm's way is a much higher priority, and far more moral, than simply preparing to "win" in an encounter.

If you don't take the responsibility to minimize your risk, then I find simply dispatching all threats with a cavalier "oh well, it was either me or them" to be the truly immoral action.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('gego', 'A') big part of liberalism is self abnigation; give up yourself and your property for others less fortunate. Do not assert your own right to live.


Not at all! My right to live is as full as anyone else's. Perhaps you are confusing compassion and humility with self-abnigation -- they are kinda hard to tell apart from afar. And I do mean afar.

We are not worth more, they are not worth less.

I repeat: We are not worth more, they are not worth less.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby gego » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 19:15:29

I think this is really a question of survival of the fittest.

It is immoral to initiate acts of agression against others, such as theft, rape, murder and the like. If these acts of agression are directed at you and you refuse to defend yourself or your family, then you are an evolutionary dead end and deservedly so.

It is interesting that we do have a build in adversion to killing one of our own species and that works well in normal times, but it will not work well in a dieoff where others are so desperate that they will commit unprevoked acts of agression to further their own survival. The basis for "thou shalt not kill" and "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is species survival. It works, but when others violate those rules, it is insane (out of touch with reality) not to defend yourself.

If you garner self worth by veiwing yourself as compassionate, and that view keeps you from justifiably defending your own life, then too bad for you.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby rogerhb » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 19:20:55

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('gego', 'T')he basis for "thou shalt not kill" and "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is species survival. It works, but when others violate those rules, it is insane (out of touch with reality) not to defend yourself.


Those two were actually about Tribal Survival. The Jaweh was a god-of-war to all intents and purposes. He was a kill and enslave the men and marry their women type of god.

The "thou shalt not kill" was really "thou shalt not murder another jew".
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby SurvivalAcres » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 22:01:00

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'W')e, as humans, have a built in reluctance to killing other people (the gun-nuts may be suprised to hear about this).


I've owned firearms my entire life. I'm also highly trained in their use. You could call me a gun-nut, but I don't recall ever killing anybody, even though I have had ample opportunity.

But I don't want to take the topic away. The labeling of people is rather ridiculous, although admittedly, I still do it. What I think is occuring is a lot of the barriers between disparate groups are coming down, we are finding out that we have a lot more in common then we think.

I first noticed this almost 6 years ago when I was talking to an environmentalist. I noticed in our conversations that there were definitely points which we agreed upon. Considering my frame of reference in those days - this was rather shocking.

Now, we are being forced to admit whatever our differences are - and although there are still many, there are not as many as we once thought. At least, that has been my experience in the last 6 years.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby rogerhb » Sun 16 Oct 2005, 22:37:00

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('SurvivalAcres', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'W')e, as humans, have a built in reluctance to killing other people (the gun-nuts may be suprised to hear about this).


I've owned firearms my entire life. I'm also highly trained in their use. You could call me a gun-nut, but I don't recall ever killing anybody, even though I have had ample opportunity.


Yes, I've been around firearms all my life but never needed to own one, I just use the tax-payer provided ones :-D . Fortunately my reference to "gun-nuts' was taken the correct way, I meant it in the "survivalist head for the hills" mode. It's worth reading "On Killing" which talks about how even in a fire-fight in battle during WWII very few troops actually shoot to kill!

In Tribal days, a war between tribes had very few casualties and it was really a show of strength. This only changed about 3,000 years ago with the organised armies in the Ancient world introducing absolute war.

Recent history confirms this, battles between Maori tribes weren't particularly brutual (by European standards) until Europeans got involved and started trading guns.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby gg3 » Mon 17 Oct 2005, 07:31:31

Those who have little use for virtue will always find an excuse to discard it. And logical double-binds can always be constructed to cause someone's ethical system to appear to break (lie or die, etc.).

Meanwhile in the real world:

Remember the virtues of the warrior ethic: honor, duty, courage, integrity, and so on. Hang out with anyone who's committed to a career in the military and ask about this stuff. And even in the midst of warfare, where it's kill or die, there are rules, the laws of war, and respect for innocent life: among soldiers, if not necessarily among their civilian leadership.

The idea that "fluffy" and "hard" are mutually exclusive, is an artifact of the Western tendency to think in dichotomies. "Either/or" is intellectual laziness; "and/both" takes courage and discipline. You have to be lucid -aware of your state of consciousness- and mindful, in order to recognize whether a situation calls for being fluffy or being hard, or some combination thereof, or something else. This does not come easily, and it does require regular practice to maintain.

These are times that demand more effort and penalize the lack thereof.

And as for firearms, the knowledge and training and willingness to defend oneself and one's family/community/nation with the use of force, is not mutually exclusive with compassion and charity.

Those who rail against compassion or dismiss it as weakness, only expose their underlying fearfulness; which is to say, lack of real courage and lack of warrior skills. The more capable you are as a warrior, the more capable you are of exercising compassion.
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Re: Becoming Someone Else

Unread postby MrBill » Mon 17 Oct 2005, 11:54:32

If you are trained as a first aid responder and you come across a medical emergency your training will take over and you will know instinctively what to do. You don't have to go looking for accidents.

If you are a hunter and have been around guns all your life, you will instinctively know when and how to use them when you have to. You may not even hunt anymore because you don't need the meat or would prefer not to have to kill anything for sport, but you don't forget how to use a gun.

If you have emotional intelligence you will mitigate the chance of a violent encounter, but confronted with one you will know how to react.

Having lived in places where there were no police you could rely on or the police were corrupt we lived behind steel doors. Calls at all hours to find out if anyone was home. Knocks on the door in the middle of the night. My wife and I had a handgun. My instructions to her were simple enough, if anyone comes through the locked metal door they do not mean you well. Just point and start pulling the trigger. Don't think just act. Now, that we no longer live there it is not an issue.

However, having been on the wrong end of a gun three times and being threatened by the Russian mafia, I know that the threat of the gun is an acute threat. Once it is by you return to normal. However, the threat of retalliation or violence is chronic. It lives with you until you can safely remove yourself from the threat. I don't know if anyone who has not lived with these different levels of threats can truly appreciate them? My life is not more important than anyone's and I accept mortality. However, I do not willingly give it up for a criminal.

And, I would willingly kill to protect my family or innocents around me. Protect life, but not property that is. However, are you always given a choice?
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