Ibon, my kid and her husband are deeply immersed in family life with her twins (they just turned 4), paying a mortgage on their first detached home, and healthy eating/education for the twins. They will start their first public preschool classes in August this year.
I HAVE shared my concerns about peak oil and economic matters and the environment with them. However I have never been excessively Doomish with anybody I interact with, including them. One of their two cars is a Prius, the other is a medium Jeep SUV (a 2005 Jeep Liberty).
Aside from a brief period in 2013 when I myself was deeply immersed in fear of Peak Oil effects (I had just viewed Ruppert's film
Collapse) I have slowly been developing the opinions about the various forms of Doom we discuss here, and the timing.
I think we passed the Oil Peak, and are playing games now with shales and tar sands. But I still think M. King Hubbert was right about that milestone - half the oil resource remains, some few decades of increasingly expensive petroleum fuels (due to high fuel demand), followed by what is effectively unavailability. I now have one residence that is heated by natural gas, another by fuel oil, both conventional structures without wind or solar supplements. I'll see what I can do about that, within reason.
If I personally buy another vehicle, it will be 100% EV. However, gasoline will remain available and affordable for 2-3 decades IMHO, which is why I did not protest too much when the wife bought a gasoline-powered Jeep Grand Cherokee last month. I did make sure it was E85 capable and of course we are now living in the MidWest, where corn is still king and alcohol fuels cheap, the nation's largest dairy farms exist, and we are surrounded by the largest bodies of fresh water in the World (i.e. the Great Lakes). My present plans say I will acquire a more modest EV this year:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t--JGQhvvlo (I know you have trouble with links sometimes, it is a video review of an electric conversion of an adult recumbent tricycle in the "tadpole" style, meaning two front wheels, and offroad capability.)
I find I don't have to be the strange family member obsessed with Doom. I honestly think nothing much Doomish will happen in my remaining lifetime. Since reading Kuntsler's
The Long Emergency, I have believed he got things right. Parts of the world are in collapse already, while other places like China and India are obsessed with acquiring newish Middle Class lifestyles.
Like I say about all the forms of Doom I see: It's a process, not an event. TEOTWAWKI began about 1800 when humans surpassed the sustainable population and began destroying the planet. Within two centuries more, most of us will be dead, and (I really believe) the techy humans will be colonizing space, and those less fortunate will remain on the Earth's surface. For a nightmarish glimpse of what that means, try viewing the film
Elysium.