by Ibon » Fri 10 Nov 2017, 08:10:34
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Tanada', 'A')nger is a high energy state, it burns itself out and becomes simple resentment in a short time. You may get flare up now and then from resentment back to anger, but you can live in a state of resentment for decades without consuming yourself. If you lived very long in Anger you would lash out repeatedly until someone or something ended your ability to do so.
Instead of anger turning to resentment it can also turn to withdrawal and redefining your alliances.
I just went through this. When I was flaming awhile back with Cog over Trump I was feeling all this rage and then I just dropped it recognizing the whole political process as something toxic and sick.
I have realigned my allegiance with the folks around me right here in my little corner of the world and have thrown american politics into the basket of irrelevancy.
The interesting thing is that when you do this your voice is no longer heard out there in the social networks. You then kind of disappear.
So this raises an interesting question for you all to ponder. How many folks and small communities out there in urban and rural America and around the world have thrown in the towel of political engagement and have begun to build meaningful relationships with their immediate communities. The reason I ask this is that they disappear from social media sites and are therefore no longer visible.
This segment of our society remain hidden from all the hype and anger and rage. This creates a filter of sorts where all the level headed sane and socially integrated people are no longer heard and the social media sites increasingly are frequented by pissed off and socially dysfunctional individuals.
Who is Pops having a coffee with this morning in his local diner somewhere in rural California........ for example!
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