by GHung » Tue 25 Oct 2016, 11:57:19
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FWIW, there is also a psychological component. It doesn't effect all but for some us living in the city, even in the nicest parts, is distressing, depressing. I don't know what the differentiator is but its real, for at least some of us. I was just miserable.
The "psychological component" is paramount, IMO. Having lived in urban, suburban and rural settings, I can attest to that. Our city friends come to visit, comment on the quiet beauty, then often proceed to speed-talk, complain about poor 3G/4G connections, make phone calls, and look for "something to do". They are clearly used to being over-stimulated. I find myself being far less reactionary and more contemplative, living in the forest, but not detached from what is happening in the real world. When out and about, it's very easy to spot folks who "ain't from around here" just by how they drive (always up each other's asses and impatient).
Financially, we spend much less, in part because of mind-set, and because there are fewer demands on our pocketbook and fewer triggers to spend money. Costs for goods and energy are comparable, and even though destinations are farther apart, we drive less, and since there are no traffic jambs, we spend less time sitting in the car going nowhere while burning hydrocarbons. Our county has two traffic lights. Property taxes are much lower, and most folks pay on time to stay off of the 'delinquent tax' list published in the local paper every March. It's mainly developers and non-resident property owners who are delinquent. Action against locals and long-time residents who have genuine trouble paying their property taxes are very rare, especially on homesteads and farm land.
We couldn't live our frugal off-grid lifestyle in the city or suburbs; probably lots of ordinances against that sort of thing.
We know our neighbors and get along even if we disagree on some things. We also know our local politicians and law enforcement; most of them anyway, and feel our vote counts for more, locally. Government services are far more accessible; I've never waited in line to see the people in the tax office; renewing drivers licenses is quick and easy, and I never have to stand in line to vote. Before the Supreme Court axed North Carolina's voter ID law, the pole workers didn't even ask for my ID because they've all known me for years. I sometimes write to the opinion section of the local paper, it always gets published, and I often get phone calls from folks who appreciate what I say. People who don't agree with me will generally say so in next week's paper.
Crime is low. They publish an "arrest report" every week and there are usually only 4-6 arrests reported, some weeks none. The entire county is like a big 'neiborhood watch', though folks mind their own business for the most part. Violent crime like murder is rare, though domestic violence is more common than most would like, and absolutely not tolerated.
I'm not sure if it's a downside, but trips to the city are increasingly stressful, and after we make our visits, I find myself scurrying back to the shelter of our mountains and a more tolerable society. It's not perfect, but our lifestyle is certainly deeply improved. Some folks simply can't adapt to rural life which is fine with me since they often come here and try to change things, generally without much success. They are better off living the lives they know, somewhere else. Meanwhile, I'm confident that we live in a place that will come together, whatever the future holds, to either solve problems locally, or adapt to the new realities. Maybe it's just me, but I think most cities and their suburbs will be toast.