by argyle » Fri 06 Jul 2012, 04:41:29
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('careinke', 'I') witnessed something the other day, that was just wrong on so many levels, it made a real impact on me.
We were in a Walmart that had just been upgraded to a Super Walmart (they had crab pots on sale). There was a lady three people in front of me with her husband and six, (yes six) kids. Her husband looked like he worked out doors well muscled and weather worn. Both of them maybe 30 or so.
After her stuff was wrung up and she tried to use her debit card, the card was rejected for insufficient funds. So she started returning items from her cart. She gave back a box of Eggos, and then some hair conditioner and other cosmetic products, a box of pop tarts and another box of cereal. Then she tried the card again, still no luck.
All this time she was apologizing profusely. She then said she needed to go to a cash machine and asked where the one in the store was. When the cashier told her, she left the lane and went to the cash machine. Meanwhile one guy in front of me had enough and went to another line. By this time I was intrigued, so I decided to stay and watch the show. While she was gone the husband just stood there looking sheepish.
When she got back she had enough money to pay for her reduced load of goods. She had some new bills and some old ones. I assume she did not have enough money in the bank, but did have enough if she used her available cash on hand and took the difference from the cash machine. Again she kept apologizing. The cashier was a very young man and the epitome of patience.
After witnessing this I was pretty melancholy. Amazingly when I was leaving the parking lot, she was in an old van in front of me. As we approached the exit, there was a homeless person on the corner with a will work for food sign. She pulled over out of her way and handed a bag of food to the man then left.
Since witnessing that, I have to wonder:
1. Why couldn’t the women figure out she didn’t have enough money before she went through the checkout stand?
2. Why didn’t she have the knowledge to know she could make waffles way cheaper than buying Eggos?
3. Why did she have six kids?
4. Why does our school system teach everyone to go to college but very little practical living skills.
To be honest, I felt sorry for the young lady. She seems to have a very hard life, yet a little knowledge could improve her lot greatly. She was obviously not a bad person. Sad.
1. Has happened to me sometimes aswell.. it's the only reason why I carry plastic from my "secondary" bank with me.
2. I bake a lot also, but still buy waffles & cookies
3. I wouldn't mind six kids, if I had enough time and energy to raise them (money wouldn't be an issue).
4. education has been fine tuned to prepare you for work (and "collegue jobs" have been a good area to work in for the past 20-30yrs?), and not for living
5. If she does have finanical issues, I still find it encouraging that ppl like her have empathy and give xyz to poor ppl. (as with all the volunteers working).
My wife works as a government employee. Helps renegotiate peoples debts (it's a plan to get out of debt in x amount of years and thus start over financially), creating financial plans, etc. When the earthquake in Haiti happened, one guy, who lives on a very low monthly budget (everything else goes via my wife to repay his debt), asked her to reduce this months allotment so he could put some money down in a fund to help that country. if ppl that have so little can still give, then a lot of us can do a lot more to help ppl is what I got from that..
"People should not be afraid of their governments. Governments should be afraid of their people."