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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Sixstrings » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 21:21:22

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', 'Z')en marks the path to purity of thought.

There is no thought more pure, more clear, than uncorrupted killing intent.


What the hell? Ehh.. no, Agent.

Zen is not a path to "pure thought," but rather Enlightenment and ultimate truth -- non-attachment to thoughts and emotions, which otherwise distort truth and are the cause of all suffering.

Also..

Zen is groovy but it's still Buddhism. The Buddha taught a lot more than meditation -- there's the Eight Fold Path and Noble Truths. Violence of any kind is antithetical to Buddhism; there is no Other, violence to the Other is violence on YOU.

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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 21:23:04

There is a difference between a path, and that which marks a path.

A very large difference.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Sixstrings » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 21:42:57

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', 'T')here is a difference between a path, and that which marks a path.

A very large difference.


Yeah but, what's the sound of one hand clapping?

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$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'P')lato's Allegory of the Cave

In the Allegory of the Cave, Plato described symbolically the predicament in which mankind finds itself and proposes a way of salvation. The Allegory presents, in brief form, most of Plato's major philosophical assumptions: his belief that the world revealed by our senses is not the real world but only a poor copy of it..
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 21:47:05

I should elaborate I suppose for forum conversation. Yes, I know what Zen is, its practice. The various branches of Buddhism, its intermingling with local beliefs as it spread from the Indian subcontinent through China and then trickling into Japan, the ultimate Quisinart(tm) of religious and spiritual practice.

But, as with all forms of meditative thought, Zen can be used as intended by its founding principles... or not. There is no question that using Zen to improve ones performance in less than peaceful pursuits is contrary to the tenants of Buddhism, at least if one were striving to achieve enlightenment. But that, itself, is a big if. To presume that all would share the same objective or put the practice to the same use is quite egotistical, no? Even in practicing countries, it would be quite the stretch to suggest that most are truly striving to reach enlightenment. Most seem to me to be mildly concerned enough to attempt to avoid having a karmic load sufficient to bury themselves under a mountain of refuse as a nematode in the next go round.

I also used the word "purity" with a little hesitation, as it associates in American English with a state of sexual virginity, as opposed to the notion of a thought without flaw, distraction, or corruption.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 21:49:26

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', 'Y')eah but, what's the sound of one hand clapping?


A distraction.
A clap, one hand or two, is an expression of desire, an attachment without consequence.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby careinke » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 22:03:35

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'T')PTB have been working on programing us to 'think negative thoughts' for a few decades now. Just look at this 4um - prime example, no?


Try zen meditation. No thoughts at all. Just peace, being awake, aware, and present -- without thinking about it.

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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Sixstrings » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 22:37:09

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', 'B')ut, as with all forms of meditative thought, Zen can be used as intended by its founding principles... or not.


Same as every other religion. The interminable wars fought in the name of Christ and Allah.

Anyhow, if you have something negative to say about mindfulness meditation, then why not be more specific?

Essentially it's just a technique to detach from overwhelming thoughts. Which may be either negative or positive; i.e. a person may not be able to get to sleep because they're so excited about all kinds of fun positive things -- same as "negative thoughts," "positive thoughts" can keep you awake too. So meditate, detach, and have some peace / sleep.

If a person feels violent after meditating, that simply means they've peeled back a few layers of the onion but not all. And obviously some folks have issues -- mediation should be learned under guidance in those cases.

You're right in general that meditation alone is a tool, so it must be combined with a non-violent moral religious practice / understanding.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')here is no question that using Zen to improve ones performance in less than peaceful pursuits is contrary to the tenants of Buddhism, at least if one were striving to achieve enlightenment.


Buddhist practice has only one purpose: to alleviate suffering, your own and others'. Violence is suffering, so obviously violence can't be a product of real Buddhist practice. Buddhists aren't perfect of course, it's a PATH to enlightenment, just as Christians strive to be Christ-like yet never attain it.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I') also used the word "purity" with a little hesitation, as it associates in American English with a state of sexual virginity, as opposed to the notion of a thought without flaw, distraction, or corruption.


It just sounds like you may not quite understand what mindfulness meditation is. It's the ABSENCE of thought, not attaining some kind of "pure" thought. A thought is a thought, doesn't matter if negative or positive either one is a filter on reality. The picture of the stones in the water, that's how one should be in meditation -- the water is thought, thoughts will come and go, let them wash by but don't attach to them.

Meditation is MINDFULNESS, simple awareness, NOT thought.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Ibon » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 23:23:30

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', '
')But, as with all forms of meditative thought, Zen can be used as intended by its founding principles... or not. There is no question that using Zen to improve ones performance in less than peaceful pursuits is contrary to the tenants of Buddhism, at least if one were striving to achieve enlightenment. But that, itself, is a big if. To presume that all would share the same objective or put the practice to the same use is quite egotistical, no? Even in practicing countries, it would be quite the stretch to suggest that most are truly striving to reach enlightenment. Most seem to me to be mildly concerned enough to attempt to avoid having a karmic load sufficient to bury themselves under a mountain of refuse as a nematode in the next go round.

I also used the word "purity" with a little hesitation, as it associates in American English with a state of sexual virginity, as opposed to the notion of a thought without flaw, distraction, or corruption.


These are the type of threads that always draw me in to comment. I guess I do have something to contribute as well, I have had what only a cheap energy civilization could have provided; the perspective of having lived a life of travel and living in developing and developed countries and the big picture perspective that this has provided me.

At the moment I am away from Panama and am in Thailand where I still support an eco project regenerating a coastal beach forest on a resort. My wife is Asian, most of my career was in Latin America and most of my time currently spent between Central America, Florida and Asia.

My youngest daughter, 18, just entered Kopan Monastery in Kathmandu for a 30 day intro Buddhist meditation course. My oldest daughter is in her 3rd year in Manila at a university.

Some anecdotal comments for the theme of this thread, some that may surprise you.

On this project in southern Thailand on the Andaman Sea I am on an island that is 90% Muslim. We have a Buddhist architect. We had a conversation a week ago that is worth highlighting from what AgentR11 just posted.

He said that the Buddhist youth in Thailand are degenerating and becoming excessively materialistic and their understanding of Buddhism is being reduced to making offerings to get rich and ward off bad spirits. The most profound thing he mentioned which shocked me at first but then made sense was that he admires Islam and Catholisicm because he sees these religions doing a better job at preserving conservative family values than what he sees with his religion today in Thailand. In Thailand the Muslims are more religiously conservative and are poorer on the socio-economic ladder. Their religious conservatism, together with their minority status, has prevented educational and economic opportunities but at the same time you will almost never see a Muslim prostitute at the gogo bars.....those girls are 99% Buddhist.

Tibetan Buddhism, in Nepal where my younger daughter is, is a different Buddhism and Tibetans are pulled together with a more authentic connection to the deeper philosophical principals of Buddhism as they are suffering collectively from the persecution of the Chinese.

When we consider the comments of this Buddhist architect a moment and then we keep looking through his perspective at the polarity in America over religious conservatives and liberals, over OWS and Tea Party, etc. there is something to be said of the center path in America where family values and conservative principals endorsed by the religious right does have a contribution to make side by side with liberal progressive policies that endorse an open more egalitarian, less authoritative , more philosophical and less dogmatically conservative approach.

What inspires me, and moderates my negativity about the challenges and suffering the future holds, is the opening up of this more center path.

As a culture Americans desperately need the consequences that limits of growth are imposing, that the disparity of wealth is imposing, for these stresses are breaking a philosophical and cultural divide that will start to melt the polarity we see that appears so hopeless.

And oh yeah, Buddha did have something to say about the middle way......

"The Tathagatha avoids the two extremes
and talks about the Middle Path.
What this is, that is; this arises, that arises.
Through ignorance volitional actions or karmic formations are conditioned.

Through birth, decay, death, lamentation, pain etc. are conditioned.
When this is not, that is not; this ceasing, that ceases.
hrough the complete cessation of ignorance, volitional activities or karmic formations cease.
Through the cessation of birth, death, decay, sorrow, etc. cease."

(Samyuktagama, Chapter 12)


Here is another of my favorites

One night a monk was reciting a sutra bequeathed by Kâshyapabuddha. His tone was so mournful, and his voice so fainting, as if he were going out of existence. The Buddha asked the monk, "What was your occupation before you became a homeless monk? "Said the monk, "I was very fond of playing the guitar." The Buddha said, "How did you find it when the strings were too loose?" Said the monk, "No sound is possible." "How when the strings were too tight?" "They crack." "How when they were neither too tight nor too loose?" "Every note sounds in its proper tone." The Buddha then said to the monk, "Religious discipline is also like unto playing the guitar. When the mind is properly adjusted and quietly applied, the Way is attainable; but when you are too fervently bent on it, your body grows tired; and when your body is tired, your spirit becomes weary; when your spirit is weary, your discipline will relax; and with the relaxation of discipline there follows many an evil. Therefore, be calm and pure, and the Way will be gained."


I am often accused of putting an optimistic slant on our dire situation. I confess that for the past 30 years I have been very pessimistic at what appeared a hopeless path our culture was taking. Ironically, it is now, at the dawning of the age of consequences of constraints, that I see the opportunities for American culture to tune its guitar to the proper tension, to leave behind the superficial materialism and re acquaint itself with deeper spiritual truths.

This has nothing to do with the new age Yuppi movement. That was a bunch of self indulgent Volvo driving deluded folks that approached spiritualism as another commodity to make their life even more "perfect"

I am talking here about suffering and the catalyst that this opens for the human heart. Buddha had something to say about that as well.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Thu 10 Nov 2011, 23:46:24

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', 'A')nyhow, if you have something negative to say about mindfulness meditation, then why not be more specific?


Why would I have anything negative to say about something that I utilize and approve of?

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I')f a person feels violent after meditating, that simply means they've peeled back a few layers of the onion but not all. And obviously some folks have issues -- mediation should be learned under guidance in those cases.


Violence in association with anger or rage, certainly. Violence itself, is simply the physical form; and "feeling violent" doesn't really tell you much. Violence carried out as a necessary or natural task, lacking attachment and passion, entirely different kettle of fish.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'Y')ou're right in general that meditation alone is a tool, so it must be combined with a non-violent moral religious practice / understanding.
Only when the objective is a peaceful striving for enlightenment and inner balance.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')here is no question that using Zen to improve ones performance in less than peaceful pursuits is contrary to the tenants of Buddhism, at least if one were striving to achieve enlightenment.
Buddhist practice has only one purpose: to alleviate suffering, your own and others'. Violence is suffering, so obviously violence can't be a product of real Buddhist practice. Buddhists aren't perfect of course, it's a PATH to enlightenment, just as Christians strive to be Christ-like yet never attain it.

I think you just wrote what I wrote. Thinking I didn't write it?
Perhaps if I suggest to you that a path to enlightenment might have other destinations on it, or branches in the path leading to other purposes...

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I') also used the word "purity" with a little hesitation, as it associates in American English with a state of sexual virginity, as opposed to the notion of a thought without flaw, distraction, or corruption.
It just sounds like you may not quite understand what mindfulness meditation is. It's the ABSENCE of thought, not attaining some kind of "pure" thought. A thought is a thought, doesn't matter if negative or positive either one is a filter on reality. The picture of the stones in the water, that's how one should be in meditation -- the water is thought, thoughts will come and go, let them wash by but don't attach to them.

Again, difference between marking the path, and being the path. By following the markers given through Zen, you can "still" the mind. In that stillness, your mind can act free from attachment, giving uncorrupted thought to necessary purpose. "Purity" is the destination, outside of, or even sometimes contrary to, the tenants of Buddhism while using the methods and teaching of Zen to illuminate the journey.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'M')editation is MINDFULNESS, simple awareness, NOT thought.

Exactly what I said, in this instance, its the marker, not the path (nor destination).
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Fri 11 Nov 2011, 02:36:03

Endorphin overdose inspired, Nightcored Metal warped followup on Diez Toros..

Find tracks
Sense bull
Wave
Sit
Chill
Desire Transcended
Home, Self, and Bull, discarded to history.
Water is cold.

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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby vision-master » Fri 11 Nov 2011, 11:19:46

Some Times

We all Worry

Like an Old Woman

Who Worries for Her Children


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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Fri 11 Nov 2011, 19:14:16

Arrggg!!! I wrote "tenants" instead of "tenet"!!!

I am not collecting rent!
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Fri 11 Nov 2011, 22:34:51

@Ibon and The Middle Way

I myself, am much less hopeful about the US coming to the middle way short of something truly horrific. For a detached observer, its clear enough that the TP and OWS are in a state of discontent because they feel that the country has harshly devieated off track, and created a system where the American dream which they were sold on, can now only be attained by the strongest performers and the most wealthy. Ok, thats a fair enough description, and sounds unifying, except it isn't. The OWS are convinced that their troubles derive from a massive divergence in the wealth of the top, from the wealth of the bottom, and the solution would be government action to reduce the gap. The TP folks are just as equally driven by the belief that the problems are a result of too much government action and interference, too much spending, too many taxes.

Not suprisingly, the two groups can be vaguely thought of as conservative and liberal.

Now, overlay our electoral system, 50%+1 takes all. The result, the TP strongly favors one party, while OWS strongly favors the other, and both are courted and groomed by the obvious politicians. The politicians ride the wave of the extremes, and then act in their own interest, because in the end, they are powerless to create oil and other energy out of thin air.

Thus, the TP/OWS can never approach the Middle Way, as they are both racing up their respective mountains of anger, with “enemies” clearly in sight, and malice planned at every turn for them. The longer this goes on, the less they can communicate, the more they simply identify friend and foe, OWS and TP.

So where do these two groups go if the ratchet of prosperity is drawn down further?

If the reigns become tight enough, they can either capitulate, or fight. However, I don't see much in either group to suggest that “we were wrong” could ever be an acceptable thought.

If it is said that enlightenment, self-attained, only comes at the price of years of suffering and hardship, then perhaps a country with so much wealth, and power, and luxury at its fingertips can only make that change when it pays the price in its own blood at its own hand. I pray that I'm wrong, because we are very skilled at spilling blood.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Ibon » Sat 12 Nov 2011, 08:58:55

:badgrin: $this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', '
')Thus, the TP/OWS can never approach the Middle Way, as they are both racing up their respective mountains of anger, with “enemies” clearly in sight, and malice planned at every turn for them. The longer this goes on, the less they can communicate, the more they simply identify friend and foe, OWS and TP.



Your assessment of the current stalemate is really spot on. I don't think there is much to add or debate on this. The status quo is indeed only reinforced by the politics of 50+1% taking all.

But what goes up must eventually come down, whether this is hubberts peak, human population, the rise and fall of empires or groups racing up their respective mountains of anger.

When I look at the polarity you described so well in these two camps in America I see that ideology breaking consequences will be the catalyst to bridge their differences and force both groups to capitulate. I think you see crisis unfolding as cementing these two camps further in their respective positions. I see crisis as forcing capitulation.

If you look at both camps which one is more vulnerable, not in ideology but in gaining or losing recruits moving forward. Initially I have to conclude the right will suffer more losses. Due to the inherent disparities. The human tragedies that will unfold as a result of lost jobs or failure to adapt will leave an increasing number of some of the ideologically conservative to turn to the government for help. Which will turn out to be bankrupt and unable to provide.

Neither side will ever be able to say I was wrong and you were right. What dissolves the polarity is the common human suffering. It is a luxury of still good times that can hold this rigid polarity.

If you are an atheist swimming nude in your pool and your evangelical christian neighbor has kept you awake at night speaking in tongues, you probably both have erected fences. If you step outside after a hurricane destroyed both your properties will you join hands and help each other or persist in your ideological camps? Maybe it appears darkest before the storm which is when both sides seem at their most inflexible.

I think the loss of the American Dream, whether it be a right leaning or left leaning dream, will at some point be understood as having a deeper source of failure than the political divide we are describing. I would say it already has begun. Neither side, whether you are for big government or big business, is exactly exuberant over their respective representatives. How many republicans are disenchanted with their own parties candidates, with the banks and Wallstreet? With How many liberals have seen Obama as a failure to their hopes for change? Do liberals really think there is someone that could be elected who will deliver on their social agenda in the midst of an economic crisis more and more people are recognizing as systemic and of long duration. How many cycles of disenchantment will still be needed before the foundation that holds the ideological wall between these two camps is recognized as unstable. There are no winners or losers. This is slowly but surely being understood.

Not only is the reality of natural limits going to hit hard against this polarity but also the success of other nations to advance mitigation strategies ahead of the US if it stays stuck in a paralysis of division. At some point there is an issue of pride as well.....

I agree with the severity of the stalemate you describe in your post but I do not see it as resilient.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Wed 16 Nov 2011, 22:11:34

Here's a negative thought for ya...

At what point in the degeneration of society does one who is free in thought, fully right-minded, embrace a libertine expression of asceticism.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Ibon » Thu 17 Nov 2011, 04:01:39

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', 'H')ere's a negative thought for ya...

At what point in the degeneration of society does one who is free in thought, fully right-minded, embrace a libertine expression of asceticism.


One part of the answer is to see what changes in mate selection during societal degeneration.

In times of cheap energy with growth and abundance, the most attractive mate is the one with the most conspicuous consumption and bling.

In times of constraints conspicuous consumption is seen as irresponsible and risky and then becomes a liability. Frugality and austerity become sexy as this is what will get you and your family through unstable times.

How does frugality as a status symbol manifest itself? Growing an Amish beard?

We are talking about the 99%, not the remaining elite who will continue to live a life of privilege.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby AgentR11 » Thu 17 Nov 2011, 21:40:30

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ibon', 'H')ow does frugality as a status symbol manifest itself? Growing an Amish beard?
We are talking about the 99%, not the remaining elite who will continue to live a life of privilege.


The CFO / CEO / heir who's driven the same old car for 20 years, no wrecks, no tickets, just regular maintenance and humble driving. Could afford caviar or steak for lunch. Brings a tunafish sandwich from home instead.

The quite poor guy who rides a bicycle with jury rigged bike trailer and owns no car. Yet cheerful and pleased with his life.

I'm a little disturbed that I can not think of what the middle class answer to this question is...
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Roy » Fri 18 Nov 2011, 07:50:31

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I')'m a little disturbed that I can not think of what the middle class answer to this question is...


Paid off cars that are more modest than the lowest paid employees at his job even if he is middle mgmt, small modest house, brings his lunch rather than going out every day like his peers, wears the same old clothes (not threadbare-classic styles) rather than buying the newest style every season, same old watch rather than the newest 20lb style, same old computer rather than the latest hottest Mactop, boring old phone rather than the latest iphone/droid.... in short: pragmatic and not so concerned with what others think of his possessions. Conspicuous consumption is not his bailiwick, he makes decent money but he's just trying to live frugally, save something for the future and live debt free.

There are a very few of those where I work out of a workforce of over 100.

I look around and I see most people who make decent money are the antithesis of the paragraph above. I don't fit in with them, AT ALL. I see that they are intelligent, but they are willfully ignorant (who in their right mind still banks with the TBTF like BOA? many people I associate with on a daily basis) and who have full faith in the .gov, the MSM, and our system as it exists right now.

That makes me think negative thoughts. Those folks, and they are the majority, don't want things to change, like to pretend everything's fine (it is because they 'got theirs'), and don't want to hear anything they consider 'negative' like topics discussed on this forum. They believe then next president elect is going to do something different, they still believe in the political system, they call the Tea Party 'teabaggers' and they call OWS 'a bunch of dirty stinking hippies'.

In short, they are about as detached from reality and brainwashed as any German that lived in Nazi Germany if not more so.

Being aware and awake and seeing the willful ignorance, denial, and the upper classes clinging to propaganda IS depressing can can precipitate a lot of negative thoughts.

Somebody on here recommended 'Sacred Demise' by Carolyn Baker. Read it and it helped me a bit. Her central theme IMO was that we should accept that collapse is inevitable, let go of the anger, and think about what we are grateful for, rather than what is pissing us off.

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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Newfie » Fri 18 Nov 2011, 08:44:00

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Roy', '
')Paid off cars that are more modest than the lowest paid employees at his job even if he is middle mgmt, small modest house, brings his lunch rather than going out every day like his peers, wears the same old clothes (not threadbare-classic styles) rather than buying the newest style every season, same old watch rather than the newest 20lb style, same old computer rather than the latest hottest Mactop, boring old phone rather than the latest iphone/droid.... in short: pragmatic and not so concerned with what others think of his possessions. Conspicuous consumption is not his bailiwick, he makes decent money but he's just trying to live frugally, save something for the future and live debt free.


Except for the lunch thing this pretty much describes me. In fact, late in my working life, I find I can work part time and still have some excess for my hobbies.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')here are a very few of those where I work out of a workforce of over 100.


Ditto, but observing a much larger work force. I know of a few, probably not to the extent you describe, but a few

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '
')I look around and I see most people who make decent money are the antithesis of the paragraph above. I don't fit in with them, AT ALL. I see that they are intelligent, but they are willfully ignorant (who in their right mind still banks with the TBTF like BOA? many people I associate with on a daily basis) and who have full faith in the .gov, the MSM, and our system as it exists right now.


The few others I know of have some version of a doomsday vision. Either through observing our culture or encouraged through end-time religious beliefs. Perhaps the end-time beliefs just let them see the collapse coming more easily.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '.')............... we should accept that collapse is inevitable, let go of the anger, and think about what we are grateful for, rather than what is pissing us off.


That is about where I am at now myself. But I still put resources into prepping, so I am not 'passive' in that respect.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', ' ')I'm trying but it is difficult when I'm actually part of the machine I so despise.

I don't know that you need to make excuses for having negative thoughts or being angry or depressed. Sometimes it is appropriate.

My Wife, the psychoanalyst, believes that depression is repressed anger, you take it out on yourself. Getting out of depression, to some extent, means recognizing your anger and mobilizing the energy in a positive way to improve your position, if possible.

Come to think of it that might be applied to describing the TP and OWS or maybe the whole country. Most are depressed and seek some way to self medicate or go into denial. The TP and OWS are trying to mobilize that energy into something positive, they may not be very efficient at it but they are trying. I find it hard to fault either side for that.
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Re: Negative thoughts....

Unread postby Ibon » Fri 18 Nov 2011, 09:59:48

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('AgentR11', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ibon', 'H')ow does frugality as a status symbol manifest itself?


I'm a little disturbed that I can not think of what the middle class answer to this question is...


Increasingly status will be less about specific objects like a big house and car and will be more about resourcefulness and creativity.

Maybe this is a clue. My brother has a business servicing expensive medical equipment for pathology labs. He also restores medical devices and sells them. He is an official independent service rep for some top named medical manufacturers. His business is stronger today than ever and he mentioned how there has been a subtle change in the hierarchy of egos amongst his associates. A few years ago the sales guys where the big shots and the service where looked down on. Today my brother is making more money than most of the sales guys because servicing older instruments and refurbishing instruments is becoming more popular in clinics and hospitals instead of buying new.

The pathologists and histotechnologists respect my brother who actually knows every nut and bolt of the instruments far more than the slick sales guys who disappear after the sale. That might have always been the case but now my brother is actually being financially better rewarded as well.

Put a hedge fund manager with a thousand dollar suit in a Porsche next to a plumber with his butt crack showing in an old Suburban.

Now let the women at the OWS protest choose who they find more sexy.......
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