by mos6507 » Sun 03 Apr 2011, 22:38:44
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')She's your daughter, not your parents'. If you can manage to commute from somewhere in the boonies (either daily or weekly), let your parents know you're going to do it.
I'm not letting them know about land and bugouts until afterwards, because I'm done debating with them about any of this in the hopes of finding solidarity. It isn't going to happen. They're just going to have to deal with whatever unilateral decisions I make as they come.
It's gotten to the point where I've past "peak comfort-zone". I'm sure pstarr would be thrilled. It's not that I think the facts at the ground point to TSHTF today. Even with the mildly radioactive rainwater, this is still the calm before the storm as far as I'm concerned, both at the macro and micro level. (That's how hardcore I am in my vision of doom. I would be insulting doom to classify the world today as TSHTF.) I've got a good job, for now, with health insurance. I can easily afford to keep living the good life, for now. But my spidey senses have been telling me for over a year now that I'm on thin ice. That I lack resilience. That's what sent me to the ER last year. That's what's causing the stress hormones to race through my body now even though I'm working again. That I'm vulnerable and that windows of opportunity will soon close forever if I don't seize them. And to seize them means going it alone, or replacing my family with other doomers as a new safety net.
You see, doom is kind of like what they say about pot. Everyone reacts to it differently. I've been moving through doomerism for over half a decade now and a lot of this stuff is so passe and repetitious. Even people like Thuja making the usual hackneyed argument against doomsteads. I've heard all the arguments before, pro and con. Country vs. city. Fast vs. slow, hard vs. soft crash. Technofix vs. mad-max. At some point you have to kind of use your own intuition to winnow all that mutually conflicting advice down into an action plan. Something that strikes a balance between the pragmatic and idealistic, or stoic and humble survivalism vs. carving out your own destiny. Once you really make up your mind, then all the naysayers become nothing but white-noise. When you get to that point, I'd say you're doing the right thing. If you can say to yourself that if you realize in the end you chose the wrong survivalist chess move, and it proves to be prematurely fatal, that you
still wouldn't regret a thing, then you're making the right move. Because no matter how confident you are now that you're gonna make it through the bottleneck, you might still be wrong, and then when your life flashes before your eyes, you don't want to feel that you ran away from your true path in life just to survive--and didn't even accomplish that.