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Re: Why? Just why?

Unread postby syncline » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 08:33:58

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Chicken_Little', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Free', 'I') can imagine it now, the post PO cannibal family sitting around the bond fire, singing kum bah yah and watching carefully that female and colored zombies get their fair share of being eaten at the barbecue...



Umm, excuse me, we don't use the phrase 'colored zombies'.

The correct term is 'zombies of color' or 'African-American zombies'.



"Differently alive persons of color," please.
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Re: Why? Just why?

Unread postby azreal60 » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 08:47:00

LOL. I don't know what it is about this board, but recently it's been cracking me up. Great humor, exsquisitely timed. Even If I can't spell..... :?
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Re: Why? Just why?

Unread postby PhebaAndThePilgrim » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 08:56:13

Good morning from Pheba, from the farm:
I am a woman, (hear me roar!), rof,lmao.
Actually, I find this kind of nonsense irritating.
the people who buy into this nonsense are making the assumption that women can not think logically, only instinctively, with feelings.
Actually, I can do both. I can reason my way through most problems.
I do have "feelings" I use for input into issues, but I have figured out that what I put down to intuitive thinking is usually just my brains way of processing information that has filtered into my brain.
Men and women do think different, but that doesn't mean that women only think with emotion, or that men are incapable of thinking with emotion.
What a bunch of silly new age nonsense.
Back in the hippie days I was a full blown hippie.
I didn't care about meditation, or higher thinking or any of that lunacy.
I just wanted to get stoned, listen to some Pink Floyd, and eat pizza.
Good grief,
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby Doly » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 09:10:51

OK, I personally don't think that the peak oil movement and feminism are natural allies. But I don't think they're natural enemies either. It's like being left or right wing: doesn't really have anything to do with being peak oil aware.

So I'm not particularly bothered by that article. I don't particularly buy it, but then, I don't particularly buy much of feminism. But I don't hate feminists, either.

When trying to get in touch with other groups that may have common interests with the local peak oil group, I came across the Women's Environmental Network, and they were very receptive. I think every little bit helps. Like a friend of mine said: "We are in a sinking ship, there's no point in squabbling about favorite colors."
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Re: Why? Just why?

Unread postby killJOY » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 10:01:03

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'M')y favorite part is the rather clunky way that she speaks about a 'need for something besides logic and facts' - as if females and blacks don't/can't think in terms of logic and facts.


BINGO!

There's something deeply offensive about politcal correctness, especially to those of us who happen to be "members" of some of the more trendy "marginalized" "groups."


I'm suffering "quotation mark" "fatigue." Too much "irony," I guess.
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby Atlantean_Relic » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 12:48:08

Who invented PC? As of now a goal of mine when TSHTF is to strangle that person with butt floss.
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Re: Why? Just why?

Unread postby MattSavinar » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 17:58:16

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Phebagirl', 'G')ood morning from Pheba, from the farm:
I am a woman, (hear me roar!), rof,lmao.
Actually, I find this kind of nonsense irritating.
the people who buy into this nonsense are making the assumption that women can not think logically, only instinctively, with feelings.
Actually, I can do both. I can reason my way through most problems.
I do have "feelings" I use for input into issues, but I have figured out that what I put down to intuitive thinking is usually just my brains way of processing information that has filtered into my brain.
Men and women do think different, but that doesn't mean that women only think with emotion, or that men are incapable of thinking with emotion.
What a bunch of silly new age nonsense.
Back in the hippie days I was a full blown hippie.
I didn't care about meditation, or higher thinking or any of that lunacy.
I just wanted to get stoned, listen to some Pink Floyd, and eat pizza.
Good grief,
Pheba

Here's what I've noticed:

There are folks who bring a certain what you might call "alternative spiritual" background to this information. The realities of peak oil (more and more war, ecological catastrophe, sectarian violence etc.) tend to show that such perspectives are not accurate models of verifiable reality.

After all, it's pretty difficult (at least for me) to believe that peak oil is part of some great "spiritual journey" or "transformational paradigm" (as I've heard some call it) when I look at the massacre in Haditha and the incredibly bloody tribal warfare/sectarian violence in Basra. And things haven't even gotten that bad yet.

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Re: Why? Just why?

Unread postby MattSavinar » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 18:01:47

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Specop_007', 'B')ecause obviously no great calamity may be taken seriously unless women and "people of color" are speaking about it.

What a fucking tool.


Specop,

You really need to shut the fuck up on this one. The author of this piece happens to be a Vietnam vet so he's "been there, done that" while your dumbass sits at home glorifying war and bloodshed all day on this board. Sack up friend and either go join the Marines or, if you're too old, sign up for a stint with Halliburton.

That's not to say that I did or did not enjoy the article. Just pointing out that you're the tool on this one buddy.

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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby PrairieMule » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 18:43:07

Absolutely ridicoulous. Who cares who pulled the fire alarm, now is the time to get out of the building. The assertion that we could benefit from a variety of voices
is silly. Kunstler may have painted a bleak picture but ladies like Jackie Clay and Claire Wolfe have had the answers for years.

After reading Megan Quinn's interview this week I suspect we will be hearing more about her because she is sharp and writes a hell of a piece. In fact I'd say Ludi is the furthest thing from a white male but has her shit together better anyone else here. That goes for a lot of other ladies that post here regularly as well. Heck, my 107lb yankee stepmother can string and fix fence better than most ranch hands. In fact my 5 year old daughter likes going to the ranch and I suspect she will like living in a more agrarian based society.

When the boat is sinking the last thing everyone needs is PC lecture from a Human Resource manager or multi-cultural commitee red tape. Until then I'll wait for Claire Wolfe to tell me when to shoot the bastards.
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby bart » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 19:46:27

Kind of getting sidetracked here aren't we? Shepherd's points have not been refuted.

1. Peak oil presentations and debate have largely been the province of white males.

2. Any movement to address peak oil -- if it is to have any chance of success -- must include all sexes, races, classes, etc.

3. Communication is different for different population segments. Any marketeer knows that. DIfferent slants, different emphases, different motivations.

4. If a movement is dominated by one group, it will have blind spots. Many solutions will be missed.

As an activist and a writer, I have to say that Shepherd's hit on something. And yeah, I went through the PC wars of the 70s and 80s and have some leftover reactions to them.

It's time to get over those old reactions. Times have changed and more important things are on the table.
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby uncarve_db_lock » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 20:30:59

Hi all

First post here, been a long time reader and have always appreciated the variety of perspectives on display.
In regards to the current demographics of peakers, yea the more the merrier to help us out but at the same time, it doesn't really NEED to be diverse in all the PC ways that certain folks might want it to. i for one tend to think being "politically correct" is a symptom of the same human centered perspective that got us into this mess we are in now. the world is by its nature, a fairly harsh place, it doesn't treat everyone equal, if you cant step up to the plate, sorry pal. same goes for universal laws, hell , if us monkeys don't have the smarts to make it to wherever the hell evolution is taking us, those laws will put us right next to old t.rex and his friends.
when you really break it down, its really just male and female that need to be well represented (smart ones with good ideas and the gut to act on them) so as to be able to continue breeding. all the idiots, cripples, criminals, nut jobs, and others i may have forgotten i pray that you find peace and are able to lace up your running shoes, that bears getting close...
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby PrairieMule » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 20:35:23

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', 'K')ind of getting sidetracked here aren't we? Shepherd's points have not been refuted.


OK..

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '1'). Peak oil presentations and debate have largely been the province of white males.


Maybe, but as I said earlier I think we will hear more from this Megan Quinn. Since this Peak oil is still a fresh and unknown topic by the masses I think their is still opportunity for equal representation amoungst the talking heads.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '2'). Any movement to address peak oil -- if it is to have any chance of success -- must include all sexes, races, classes, etc.


I think websites like this do just that.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '3'). Communication is different for different population segments. Any marketeer knows that. DIfferent slants, different emphases, different motivations.


True, but having a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing myself, I think the science of Marketing has had a hand in America's downfall or atleast the rise in consumer debt level in the last 20 years. I think marketing is evil and I should have studied Agriculture Economics instead.

I think if we start segmenting the market to making Peak oil means this to one segment but something else to another group it reinforces as you say different slants. That closes peoples minds to slants that differ but have valid points. Say for example the hippies and the right wing gun nuts. Two very different groups with two very different slants, but both with good ideas. Every day I watch the different subcultures, political ideologies, nationalities, and yes color exchange information and debate. I say this is good.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '4'). If a movement is dominated by one group, it will have blind spots. Many solutions will be missed.

Be more specific. Are you refering that white males are dominating the discussion or the active culture of Doomers? If you say doomers I'd agree, we could use a little more light from a positive mindset.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', ']')It's time to get over those old reactions. Times have changed and more important things are on the table.

Agreed, lets focus on the solutions to the problems, not hang ups of what makes us different.
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Re: Why? Just why?

Unread postby ubercynicmeister » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 21:15:43

Hi Killjoy...

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('killJOY', 'T')here's something deeply offensive about politcal correctness, especially to those of us who happen to be "members" of some of the more trendy "marginalized" "groups."


Yes, the one consistant feature of Political Correctness is how it's either done nothing for those it describes as "marginalised" (however they define the word) - or it has actually made things worse.

Here in Australia, it's Politically Correct to study the "black" Aborigine population, but - of course, to actually help them is, OH, that's interfering, and trying to thrust a male dawminated phallo-centric (yada yada) solution upon them, even when it's the Aboriginies begging the authorities to allow them to do this or that.

One example comes readily to mind: a tribe was granted lease-hold over a cray-fishing area, but, when they wanted to set up a cray-fishing industry ( a small one, "cottage" type, I mean), they could not get the money from anyone for the scuba gear, the boats, etc.

HOWEVER, they could get any amount of money they wanted to in order to STUDY the setting up of a cray-fishing industry, provided they spent the money on rich, mostly white, mostly female academic anthropology professors (because men aren't "culturally sensitive" enough to study the situation - as one female academic said: "Men are too objective."). But boy do these supposed academics make money from it!

The Aboriginal And Torres Strait Islanders Commission, when it existed, spent several billion dollars in it's lifetime, so much that each Aboriginal person should now be living in a water-side mansion in one of the trendier neighbourhoods of any of our capital cities. Instead, nary a cent reached those who needed it (the communities, who're as poverty-stricken as ever) while the rich, white Politically Correct pretend academics made veritiable fortunes outta the whole, thing, shovelling money off to their consultant chums.

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BTW: the remarks that others have made here, from both what I take to be "left wing" and what I take to be "right wing" are gratifying in thier good sense.

It seems that Peak Oilers (URF, what a name!) are a whole lot more practical than the Politically Correct. I sincerely hope we avoid their problems.
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby ubercynicmeister » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 22:10:14

EDITED FOR SPELLING...GRRR...NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I CHECK IT!!!!

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PrairieMule', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', 'K')ind of getting sidetracked here aren't we? Shepherd's points have not been refuted.


OK..

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '1'). Peak oil presentations and debate have largely been the province of white males.


Maybe, but as I said earlier I think we will hear more from this Megan Quinn. Since this Peak oil is still a fresh and unknown topic by the masses I think their is still opportunity for equal representation amoungst the talking heads.


In any case - shouldn't a voluntary thing be for those who volunteer for it? After all, we're not conscripting people to the Peak Oil idea (at least, I HOPE not).

If someone is interested in something, then, by all means, let 'em come along & be interested. But think about the example of auto mechanics - very few females, simply because females are not interested. So? What are we supposed to do? Trick 'em into "joining up"? Bully them into 50% representation?

This is why Political Correctness is such dangerous RUBBISH. When it was seen that girls were doing badly at school, they dumbed down the school curricula so that the girls wouldn't be discriminated against, thus implying girls are stupider than boys and cannot handle the hard stuff. Now, it's got to the stage where the girls themselves are saying they are not being taught anything. But to "clever up" the curricula is discriminatory against those who're deemed to be less able.

If someone wants to learn something, then great. But dumbing everything down so those who are "deemed" to be less able won't "feel" discriminated against is unfair to everyone, especially those who really are less able. It's also unfair to those who are not deemed "less able"; unfair to those who're right on average (about 60% of the population, it seems in our skewed world) and a damn sight unfair to those who actually do need help to get through. Because we don't pick up they need the help (their marks aren't down, so they need not be given extra assistance), then they fall out the other end of their "learning time" knowing nothing. This is the ultimate unfairness, especially to those who do need the help.

The modern New South Wales Politically Correct Education Report Card scheme is so confusing no-one knows whether the kids are doing well or need help - and face it, EVERYONE needs help from time to time.

The marks used to be "A" (100%) down to "F" for fail.

Now it's "E" (for extant, or really well skilled at) for the top grade; "D" for developing (ie: "E" is better than "D"); and "A" was the lowest grade of all (I cannot remember what the "A" stood for, but it meant "needs to do some more work on the subject").

This type of education is failing girls AND boys alike. But I guess it's doing so equally?

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PrairieMule', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '2'). Any movement to address peak oil -- if it is to have any chance of success -- must include all sexes, races, classes, etc.


I think websites like this do just that.

I realise this will come as a shock, but ...why does Peak Oil need the involvement of those who are Just Not Interested? It would be pointless to "involve" (say) the Tarahumara Indians in NE Mexico in Peak Oil discussions. Why? THEY DON'T USE ANY OIL. Therefore they won't miss it when it's gone. Full Stop.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PrairieMule', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '3'). Communication is different for different population segments. Any marketeer knows that. DIfferent slants, different emphases, different motivations.

True, but having a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing myself, I think the science of Marketing has had a hand in America's downfall or atleast the rise in consumer debt level in the last 20 years. I think marketing is evil and I should have studied Agriculture Economics instead.

Allow me to wholeheartedly agree with you, Prairie Mule, and you're spot on in your assessment of marketing.

In any case: starvation sells itself. It neither needs nor admits a PR agent, an advertising campaign, a slick brochure or a glossy prospectus. Now, if you want to "involve" that most corrosive of substances, the Yuppies, in our discussions - and just have a look at what they have done to the world in the short time they have been in charge of it - then an advertsing campaign would be needed.

Indeed, I'm convinced the Yuppies will need a personal, engraved gold-plated invitation to Armageddon, so hopelessly disconnected from reality are they, but, well, that's just an opinion of mine.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PrairieMule', 'I') think if we start segmenting the market to making Peak oil means this to one segment but something else to another group it reinforces as you say different slants. That closes peoples minds to slants that differ but have valid points. Say for example the hippies and the right wing gun nuts. Two very different groups with two very different slants, but both with good ideas. Every day I watch the different subcultures, political ideologies, nationalities, and yes color exchange information and debate. I say this is good.

It goes a bit further than that - "marketing" now has the nearly overpowering stench of rottenness of the very Yuppies who have ruined everything for everyone else. Using such techniques is - for those who are within the Peak Oil movement - like the Christian Evangelicals supporting George Dubbya Bush. The Christian Evangelicals are now discovering they've been Supping with the Devil, and the long spoon has been in short supply. The Christian Evangelicals will soon discover that they ARE lunch, but that's outside the topic.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PrairieMule', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '4'). If a movement is dominated by one group, it will have blind spots. Many solutions will be missed.

Be more specific. Are you refering that white males are dominating the discussion or the active culture of Doomers? If you say doomers I'd agree, we could use a little more light from a positive mindset.

Well, I take the Doomers to be like the lookouts aboard the Titanic - it's their (mostly self-appointed) task to point out :

Iceberg, DEAD AHEAD!

It's then up to those at the helm to turn the wheel. Not the lookouts. And if it's kinda cold and lonely "up there" in the crow's nest, well, that's the price one pays for having good forward vision. But equally, those who cannot withstand the long mind-numbing hours of cold tedium should not be condemned by those who can. Nor should those who cannot stand the cold, the boredom, the minutae of scanning a dark horizon fearlessly for That Which Will Kill Us Unless Avoided - they should not condemn those who can.

This relates back to the first point: involvement. Should everyone aboard have been stuffed aloft into the crow's nest on the Titanic? Besides being utterly impractical, it would have simply interfered with the proper functioning on the lookouts already there, and added nothing to the chances of seeing an almost "invisible" iceberg. (Invisible in the sense that, given the speed the ship was travelling, the Titanic could not have seen the thing before it was too late to avoid it)

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PrairieMule', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', ']')It's time to get over those old reactions. Times have changed and more important things are on the table.

Agreed, lets focus on the solutions to the problems, not hang ups of what makes us different.

Times have changed, how? I still see the Titanic gaining speed as the engines are thrashed ever the harder, the boilers fired ever the hotter, the safety valves jammed down hard, the fuel shovelled from the supply faster and faster, the captain so insulated from the assaults of mere reality, he may as well be drunk - and that Ice Flow is still somewhere ahead, some say closer, some say further away. Remember - if there had been even the slightest swell (waves) on the Atlantic that night in 1912, or even the slightest breeze, or the Moon been over the horizon, the lookouts would have spotted the iceberg from miles further away.

We're in the same ship, erm, boat.
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby MattSavinar » Fri 02 Jun 2006, 23:45:08

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', 'K')ind of getting sidetracked here aren't we? Shepherd's points have not been refuted.

1. Peak oil presentations and debate have largely been the province of white males.

2. Any movement to address peak oil -- if it is to have any chance of success -- must include all sexes, races, classes, etc.

3. Communication is different for different population segments. Any marketeer knows that. DIfferent slants, different emphases, different motivations.

4. If a movement is dominated by one group, it will have blind spots. Many solutions will be missed.

As an activist and a writer, I have to say that Shepherd's hit on something. And yeah, I went through the PC wars of the 70s and 80s and have some leftover reactions to them.

It's time to get over those old reactions. Times have changed and more important things are on the table.


Bart,

Shep has touched on something, albeit indirectly: the only people preparing for peak oil are (almost exclusively) rich white hippies who live in towns like Sebastopol, CA. where the average home costs $750,000 or in Willits, CA. where the average home is $400,000.

That's why I say the solution to Peak Oil is to make enough money so you can move to a places like Sebastopol and Willits where there are lots of rich white people dropping $2,000 on permaculture intensives left and right. What's funny is these areas have lot of folks who claim to be advocates of cultural diversity, yet there are no black or brown people in sight. ("I see white people.")Weird how that works.

Fifty Cent says, "get rich or die trying." I say "get rich so you can take a permaculture intensive or die trying."

I'm exagerating a bit, but not much.

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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby Atlantean_Relic » Sat 03 Jun 2006, 00:00:31

How well defended are these neighboorhoods. Could you go Genghis Kahn on their asses?
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby bart » Sat 03 Jun 2006, 02:29:09

Wow, there sure is a lot of pent-up something-or-other in the discussion here.

I was afraid that Shepherd's essay would set off the same destructive dynamic, as happened during the 70s and 80s. It was a cycle of accusation and defensiveness that left many guys confused and angry.

What does it mean to be a man?

One is not going to get help figuring that out from the feminist movement. Raging against feminism also is pointless. In either case, one is defining oneself in terms of women.

The only way out of the dilemma is to disengage, and figure it out for oneself. I was lucky to have encountered older men who personified real masculinity.

What it's not: bullying, strutting, chest-pounding, blaming other people. That's cartoon masculinity.

What it is: power under restraint, courage to be gentle and vulnerable, willing to risk one's oneself for others.
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby PenultimateManStanding » Sat 03 Jun 2006, 02:37:22

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', '
')What does it mean to be a man?

The only way out of the dilemma is to disengage, and figure it out for oneself. I was lucky to have encountered older men who personified real masculinity.

What it's not: bullying, strutting, chest-pounding, blaming other people. That's cartoon masculinity.

What it is: power under restraint, courage to be gentle and vulnerable, willing to risk one's oneself for others.
A very decent set of values, bart. A good current assessment. Do you ever get the sinking feeling that masculinity will come to mean cutting off heads and putting them on pikes?
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Re: Peak Oil Becomes Politically Correct

Unread postby ubercynicmeister » Sat 03 Jun 2006, 19:55:30

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bart', 'W')ow, there sure is a lot of pent-up something-or-other in the discussion here.


It's called frustration, Bart, simple as that. People (everyone) are getting sick of the distractions. It's like this fellow is standing atop the sloping decks of the Titanic as it's becoming more and more obvious she's about to head to her watery grave (and take most of the passengers with her) and wanting to start group therapy (another farce) so as to get people to "embrace the sea".

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I') was afraid that Shepherd's essay would set off the same destructive dynamic, as happened during the 70s and 80s. It was a cycle of accusation and defensiveness that left many guys confused and angry.


Being shot at & roundly criticised for doing what was told to do is likely to leave one confused and angry, Bart. Feminism is the ultimate example of "friendly fire".

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'W')hat does it mean to be a man?


LOL, that's easy: you have the right to have your own opinions. You do NOT have the right to agree with them.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'O')ne is not going to get help figuring that out from the feminist movement.


Dead right there.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'R')aging against feminism also is pointless. In either case, one is defining oneself in terms of women.

Yup, spot on.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')he only way out of the dilemma is to disengage, and figure it out for oneself. I was lucky to have encountered older men who personified real masculinity.

What it's not: bullying, strutting, chest-pounding, blaming other people. That's cartoon masculinity.

What it is: power under restraint, courage to be gentle and vulnerable, willing to risk one's oneself for others.

I'd reject the bit about "vulnerable", that sounds like Feminist psychobabble, to me. But I would add to your list the following: forgiveness, to the point of self-injury; generosity; sheer stick-with-it-ness; humour, especially in the face of considerable adversity; a desire to effect cures, and not talk and analyze endlessly; Interest in helping others; a realisation that, sometimes, 'talking about it' does NOT help; a willingness to give things up to assist others (generosity, again).

All these things are what I've found both in myself and in my fellow men. Sure, self-praise is NO praise, but, well...
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